Do providers treat you differently?

[Veryshyone]

Curious to know if providers, masseurs and companions, treat regulars any different than non-regulars. I've read providers may place a regular as  priority when scheduling but is there anything else?

[+ purplekow]

I think they fuck you a little bit more energetically.  

Clearly, if an escort knows you and has any professionalism to him, he will know where is push, where to pull, if a bit is a snack or a turn on.  However, once you become a regular regular, I think you do run the risk of being taken for a bit of a given and the efforts may not be as strong.  So if you are thinking about developing a regular thing, watch for waning interest and more perfunctory performances once you have known each other for awkile.  It is a bit like marriage in that regard.  

[+ JamesB]

This is my response from a different post on a closely related subject.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/166588-are-subsequent-sessions-different/#findComment-2565276

[big-n-tall]

1 hour ago, Veryshyone said:

Curious to know if providers, masseurs and companions, treat regulars any different than non-regulars. I've read providers may place a regular as  priority when scheduling but is there anything else?

To answer your question directly… yes sone providers treat their regulars differently. They will sometimes make regulars a priority over someone new. I will say this treatment can vary from people to people and overtime. I think good providers will try to treat each encounter with a regular or non regular equally. Although with familiarity a lot of things can change both good and bad.

The good providers, who become regulars, will always try to keep the subsequent encounters engaging. Leave them wanting more, as it were. As you get to know each other some may be more affectionate or willing to try or do things they won’t do normally with new clients. For, example, one of my long standing regulars, I have seen many times more than a decade. We’ve gone on extended trips pretty much yearly since about 2017. Over time his rate for those extended trips have dropped significantly. Some guys will lower their rates or not charge what they typically charge non-regulars for hourly, overnights, etc. This same provider has a fantasy about being tied up. He hasn’t asked anyone else to do it because he doesn’t feel safe with random guys he doesn’t know well. Yet another guy, who has retired from escorting, mentioned that I and another client are the only guys he still sees. In my case, he said he enjoys the times we spend together and our encounters are never work for him.

With that said you do have providers, who once they have you hooked, there can be a diminished return every subsequent meeting. Or maybe if not gradually it may be abrupt after many meetings.

In general, once people get more comfortable with each other, there can be an ease with both of the participants… a relaxing of the rules they set. However, there are no assurances this ease will happen for each provider and client. This same familiarity with a regular may bring a staleness as well. Both parties could get bored with encounters if either don’t strive to keep things fresh or somewhat interesting.

In a nutshell… there are no guarantees a provider will treat a regular any better or worse than a non-regular. In my experience, they do treat their regulars differently… often better one way or another.

[DMonDude]

Preferential treatment for regulars can come in many forms.

I've definitely had ones who said on first hire they don't do certain things, later offer it when asked nicely during conversation about trying new things or offer it on their own after many visits and they were comfortable with me.

Obviously, some providers may be playing a version of themselves to appeal to your fantasy/provide the type of service they advertise to you. I've seen providers kind of drop their persona/character when they're comfortable with you for when you're not actively in session. Some may see this as unprofessional or breaking the fantasy you hired them for, others may see it as nice social intimacy. So providers who do this around a client probably do so after they've gauged if the client would be into the more natural side of themself or not.

Some providers may feel comfortable enough with you to talk shop with you casually. If i ever ask a provider how their day was, a newer one will usually give me a fairly generic answer but one who I've seen a bunch and who's comfortable with me won't be shy mentioning it was a slow or busy work day (referring to other clients) for example. This is another one some clients may be put off by and others are cool with.

Some providers may grandfather regular clients into same prices while new clients get prices raised for them.

If a provider is a traveling provider. If they are coming to your city, clients who are regulars usually get an early heads up the provider is coming to town so they can get first booking.

The biggest thing is you shouldn't ask for or expect these kind of things from them. These are balls that are in their court to offer you if they feel inclined to do so.

Edited Thursday at 06:33 AM by DMonDude

[+ Pensant]

14 hours ago, purplekow said:

So if you are thinking about developing a regular thing, watch for waning interest and more perfunctory performances once you have known each other for awkile.

I haven’t found that to be the case with my regulars over the years. I do think it is related to pacing—not seeing them weekly or biweekly for example. Last Friday night, for example, my regular stayed three hours for the price of two.

Edited Thursday at 02:25 PM by Pensant

[Braziliancutee]

Doing this after 1 year I realized that we just can treat different clients who don’t hire a lot guys… and really want be with you. Bc this clients will value you more. Clients who even being a regular but hire many and many guys or has a lot regulars unfortunately you will be just 1 more for him. And sometimes we need to be just “professional” with them. And they kind of like more this professional relationship.

Edited Thursday at 02:33 PM by Braziliancutee

[Mark_fl]

1 hour ago, Braziliancutee said:

Doing this after 1 year I realized that we just can treat different clients who don’t hire a lot guys… and really want be with you. Bc this clients will value you more. Clients who even being a regular but hire many and many guys or has a lot regulars unfortunately you will be just 1 more for him. And sometimes we need to be just “professional” with them. And they kind of like more this professional relationship.

Interesting take. But doesn't that also creep you out a little? I know you appreciate a regular,  but if you're the only one he sees, I'd think he might think there is more in the relationship than there really is. Good for your wallet, but could be trouble down the line.

Do most providers prefer being the ONLY provider (assuming the same income).

[marylander1940]

16 hours ago, Veryshyone said:

Curious to know if providers, masseurs and companions, treat regulars any different than non-regulars. I've read providers may place a regular as  priority when scheduling but is there anything else?

They appreciate our return business and know our expectations, some have become real friends.

[Braziliancutee]

9 hours ago, Mark_fl said:

Interesting take. But doesn't that also creep you out a little? I know you appreciate a regular,  but if you're the only one he sees, I'd think he might think there is more in the relationship than there really is. Good for your wallet, but could be trouble down the line.

Do most providers prefer being the ONLY provider (assuming the same income).

We never will be the only one… but u know when the client care with you. it’s hard to explain. 
but has a difference between clientes who hire 1/2 guys in month then the clients who hire +4/5. Or just guys who don’t do this so often you know. But a few of the clients  really like to always meet someone new and hiring and hiring.  And they are more transactional and more professional and that’s fine. They want that. But my best experiences was with guys who said who don’t do this so often.

Edited yesterday at 01:06 AM by Braziliancutee