Client’s visiting other client RM profiles repetitively

[+ PhileasFogg]

I never subscribed to RM until recently.  And, until today, I’d never added any info to my profile  

Interestingly, I looked the other day at “Who Saw Me”. Beside a couple of providers along the gulf coast, one CLIENT PROFILE  has looked at my blank profile daily - as recently as 6 hrs ago

What benefit is there for one client visiting another’s blank profile nearly daily??

I know I can block it (and I will) - but the question is “why?”

[jackcali]

I don't look at other client profiles that often, but once it a while i look at the profile of a client who has left a review of a provider I'm interested in.  It helps me better understand whether the review is relevant to my likely experience with the provider.  

[ericwinters]

13 minutes ago, jackcali said:

I don't look at other client profiles that often, but once it a while i look at the profile of a client who has left a review of a provider I'm interested in.  It helps me better understand whether the review is relevant to my likely experience with the provider.  

Me too. And on occasion I'll reach out with a direct message. 

[jmichaeliii]

18 minutes ago, ericwinters said:

Me too. And on occasion I'll reach out with a direct message. 

Same here

[+ SirBillybob]

Saw daily … now that’s overdoing it.

Edited October 14 by SirBillybob

[Whoisyourdaddy]

I agree with everyone else; they're mostly looking at my reviews.

[PHjarveg]

On 10/14/2025 at 4:00 AM, PhileasFogg said:

I never subscribed to RM until recently.  And, until today, I’d never added any info to my profile  

Interestingly, I looked the other day at “Who Saw Me”. Beside a couple of providers along the gulf coast, one CLIENT PROFILE  has looked at my blank profile daily - as recently as 6 hrs ago

What benefit is there for one client visiting another’s blank profile nearly daily??

I know I can block it (and I will) - but the question is “why?”

Where else do you find guys if not RM then? Assuming you have no one to recommend you 

[+ PhileasFogg]

47 minutes ago, PHjarveg said:

Where else do you find guys if not RM then? Assuming you have no one to recommend you 

That’s not my point.  This is CLIENTS looking repeatedly at my profile as recently as a few hours ago

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 10/14/2025 at 7:43 AM, Whoisyourdaddy said:

I agree with everyone else; they're mostly looking at my reviews.

Not always.

My main regular provider (almost 9 years) has another long term regular client. That other client checks my profile every so many months on average.

I raised that with my regular, as I found it creepy. Next time his other client does it I'm going to message him directly. This isn't some love triangle.

Edited yesterday at 04:01 PM by DrownedBoy
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[+ KensingtonHomo]

I can do you one better. We've had clients ask us to unlock our pictures. I always decline them. It's hard to know why someone is doing this. Perhaps they find you attractive (if you have pictures). But I'm not sure it matters, unless you have information that can trace to your actual name, etc. You may be able to block them. 

[Nue2thegame]

On 10/14/2025 at 5:00 AM, PhileasFogg said:

I never subscribed to RM until recently.  And, until today, I’d never added any info to my profile  

Interestingly, I looked the other day at “Who Saw Me”. Beside a couple of providers along the gulf coast, one CLIENT PROFILE  has looked at my blank profile daily - as recently as 6 hrs ago

What benefit is there for one client visiting another’s blank profile nearly daily??

I know I can block it (and I will) - but the question is “why?”

It does seem a bit OCD. The original Phineas Fogg was a genuinely fascinating individual. Maybe he thinks you’re the real deal, back from your travels and he’s eager to hear what you’ve been up to.  I’m perverse enough to consider shooting him a DM (if RM allows) inquiring about the source of his curiosity and then consider blocking him. 

[Nue2thegame]

38 minutes ago, Nue2thegame said:

It does seem a bit OCD. The original Phineas Fogg was a genuinely fascinating individual. Maybe he thinks you’re the real deal, back from your travels and he’s eager to hear what you’ve been up to.  I’m perverse enough to consider shooting him a DM (if RM allows) inquiring about the source of his curiosity and then consider blocking him. 

Sorry, Phileas. I meant that he might have taken you for Phineas Fogg.