Client’s visiting other client RM profiles repetitively

[+ PhileasFogg]

I never subscribed to RM until recently.  And, until today, I’d never added any info to my profile  

Interestingly, I looked the other day at “Who Saw Me”. Beside a couple of providers along the gulf coast, one CLIENT PROFILE  has looked at my blank profile daily - as recently as 6 hrs ago

What benefit is there for one client visiting another’s blank profile nearly daily??

I know I can block it (and I will) - but the question is “why?”

[jackcali]

I don't look at other client profiles that often, but once it a while i look at the profile of a client who has left a review of a provider I'm interested in.  It helps me better understand whether the review is relevant to my likely experience with the provider.  

[ericwinters]

13 minutes ago, jackcali said:

I don't look at other client profiles that often, but once it a while i look at the profile of a client who has left a review of a provider I'm interested in.  It helps me better understand whether the review is relevant to my likely experience with the provider.  

Me too. And on occasion I'll reach out with a direct message. 

[jmichaeliii]

18 minutes ago, ericwinters said:

Me too. And on occasion I'll reach out with a direct message. 

Same here

[+ SirBillybob]

Saw daily … now that’s overdoing it.

Edited October 14 by SirBillybob

[Whoisyourdaddy]

I agree with everyone else; they're mostly looking at my reviews.

[PHjarveg]

On 10/14/2025 at 4:00 AM, PhileasFogg said:

I never subscribed to RM until recently.  And, until today, I’d never added any info to my profile  

Interestingly, I looked the other day at “Who Saw Me”. Beside a couple of providers along the gulf coast, one CLIENT PROFILE  has looked at my blank profile daily - as recently as 6 hrs ago

What benefit is there for one client visiting another’s blank profile nearly daily??

I know I can block it (and I will) - but the question is “why?”

Where else do you find guys if not RM then? Assuming you have no one to recommend you 

[+ PhileasFogg]

47 minutes ago, PHjarveg said:

Where else do you find guys if not RM then? Assuming you have no one to recommend you 

That’s not my point.  This is CLIENTS looking repeatedly at my profile as recently as a few hours ago

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 10/14/2025 at 7:43 AM, Whoisyourdaddy said:

I agree with everyone else; they're mostly looking at my reviews.

Not always.

My main regular provider (almost 9 years) has another long term regular client. That other client checks my profile every so many months on average.

I raised that with my regular, as I found it creepy. Next time his other client does it I'm going to message him directly. This isn't some love triangle.

Edited October 20 by DrownedBoy
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[+ KensingtonHomo]

I can do you one better. We've had clients ask us to unlock our pictures. I always decline them. It's hard to know why someone is doing this. Perhaps they find you attractive (if you have pictures). But I'm not sure it matters, unless you have information that can trace to your actual name, etc. You may be able to block them. 

[Nue2thegame]

On 10/14/2025 at 5:00 AM, PhileasFogg said:

I never subscribed to RM until recently.  And, until today, I’d never added any info to my profile  

Interestingly, I looked the other day at “Who Saw Me”. Beside a couple of providers along the gulf coast, one CLIENT PROFILE  has looked at my blank profile daily - as recently as 6 hrs ago

What benefit is there for one client visiting another’s blank profile nearly daily??

I know I can block it (and I will) - but the question is “why?”

It does seem a bit OCD. The original Phineas Fogg was a genuinely fascinating individual. Maybe he thinks you’re the real deal, back from your travels and he’s eager to hear what you’ve been up to.  I’m perverse enough to consider shooting him a DM (if RM allows) inquiring about the source of his curiosity and then consider blocking him. 

[Nue2thegame]

38 minutes ago, Nue2thegame said:

It does seem a bit OCD. The original Phineas Fogg was a genuinely fascinating individual. Maybe he thinks you’re the real deal, back from your travels and he’s eager to hear what you’ve been up to.  I’m perverse enough to consider shooting him a DM (if RM allows) inquiring about the source of his curiosity and then consider blocking him. 

Sorry, Phileas. I meant that he might have taken you for Phineas Fogg. 

[ThirdEye]

I feel like it’s worse in Miami lol. And providers doing it is the most unnerving thing. I don’t like when a provider/escort gives me such a desperate vibe. Even if I end up being interested in hiring them, it only cheapens them to me, unfortunately.

Edited October 23 by ThirdEye

[viewing ownly]

What you're asking is confusing. The person you intend to block wasn't looking at your blank profile. You mentioned that you added to your profile, which is when you then had everyday visitors - like me (I'm not whoever that other guy is, but it's not uncommon for me to become a fan of clients who see multiple men I've seen also seen before, so I visit their profile and read different reviews each day).

Is there a picture of yourself with your added information? This too could create many visitors. There's a guy I'm a fan of who hires like I do who has a tremendous body and superb penis bulge in his pics. He hopes to be able to tag along with other men who hire, since he doesn't have his own transportation. He looks so great, it's common for men he's seeing to go out of their way to pick him up and drop him back off. 

[DMonDude]

21 minutes ago, viewing ownly said:

What you're asking is confusing. The person you intend to block wasn't looking at your blank profile. You mentioned that you added to your profile, which is when you then had everyday visitors - like me (I'm not whoever that other guy is, but it's not uncommon for me to become a fan of clients who see multiple men I've seen also seen before, so I visit their profile and read different reviews each day).

Is there a picture of yourself with your added information? This too could create many visitors. There's a guy I'm a fan of who hires like I do who has a tremendous body and superb penis bulge in his pics. He hopes to be able to tag along with other men who hire, since he doesn't have his own transportation. He looks so great, it's common for men he's seeing to go out of their way to pick him up and drop him back off. 

Having the funds for hiring but not having transportation is a very odd choice of priorities, i gotta say.

[NateATX]

On 10/20/2025 at 10:58 AM, DrownedBoy said:

Not always.

My main regular provider (almost 9 years) has another long term regular client. That other client checks my profile every so many months on average.

I raised that with my regular, as I found it creepy. Next time his other client does it I'm going to message him directly. This isn't some love triangle.

I agree with @DrownedBoy.  I’ve had this similar situation arise with a newer repeat client of my favorite, regular provider.  Rather unnervingly this individual seems to frequent my RM profile routinely, but especially after a session with my regular.  

I have politely messaged this person to inquire as to the nature of their inquiry, but never have gotten a response.  

[DMonDude]

2 hours ago, NateATX said:

I agree with @DrownedBoy.  I’ve had this similar situation arise with a newer repeat client of my favorite, regular provider.  Rather unnervingly this individual seems to frequent my RM profile routinely, but especially after a session with my regular.  

I have politely messaged this person to inquire as to the nature of their inquiry, but never have gotten a response.  

Makes me wonder if the provider is talking about you to this other client often. How else would the other client know when you've had sessions with the provider (i guess unless you leave a new review after every session)?

[NateATX]

I’ve wondered the same, but don’t think the provider (who I do very much trust) would disclose anything of the sort.  We’ve known each other for years now, and there never has been an issue of disclosure before.  I have posted a review of the provider in the past few months, but it isn’t something I do regularly.  
 

It may all be coincidental, but I do find it odd and irritating.  

[+ PhileasFogg]

On 10/16/2025 at 1:07 PM, PhileasFogg said:

That’s not my point.  This is CLIENTS looking repeatedly at my profile as recently as a few hours ago

 

I’ve just learned that the time atop the profile icon is the last time they logged on to RM.

I ERRANTLY thought that it was the last time they viewed my profile…and VERY wrong assumption

[+ DrownedBoy]

12 hours ago, NateATX said:

I have politely messaged this person to inquire as to the nature of their inquiry, but never have gotten a response.  

Mine claimed his finger slipped and apologized.

[Nightowl]

I don’t even know how to access another client’s profile.  Is it something that comes with the paid membership?

[Whoisyourdaddy]

4 hours ago, Nightowl said:

I don’t even know how to access another client’s profile.  Is it something that comes with the paid membership?

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I assume anyone can message a client by clicking on their name in a review.

[Nightowl]

6 hours ago, Whoisyourdaddy said:

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I assume anyone can message a client by clicking on their name in a review.

I had no idea.  Learn something every day.

[+ PhileasFogg]

20 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

Mine claimed his finger slipped and apologized.

Yeah, I think that’s the excuse I used first time I got laid in HS 🥸😂😉

[GentJ]

On 10/27/2025 at 1:31 PM, Whoisyourdaddy said:

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I assume anyone can message a client by clicking on their name in a review.

Don't you clients ask one another for info all the time? I'm surprised anyone hires without first reaching out to a reviewer or two.