LexGordy

[GordyLex]

9 minutes ago, savantsav said:

Getting pulled on this as I keep getting tagged. 
 

Sorry you went through all that but I don’t believe you had no way to let me know you couldn’t make it. You showed online on RM throughout the day and how convenient that when I texted you at 10:40pm then is when you could reply to me. You were cavalier with my feelings. 
 

Stop tagging me here, what you did was done and TL;DR for those in the future landing here. Never give him a deposit and make sure you have a plan b in place in case he flakes and won’t tell you

@savantsavI never asked for a deposit from you and I never ask clients for deposits!?!? What happened to me wasn’t my fault, but it was my responsibility to rectify how it impacted you. The record shows my good faith efforts. The record shows your assumptions and choice to see ill intent where it doesn’t exist. 

[savantsav]

I didn’t say you asked me for one, I said to people in the future to not give you one because you might flake on them. 
 

Again, I’m sorry about what happened to you, but I do not believe you had no way to reply for over 12hrs and it was only when I texted again late in the evening when conveniently you were waking up from your IV and was able to reply. You were not going to reach out on your own.  
 

There’s nothing at this point you can say that’ll make me believe you couldn’t so we’ll agree to disagree on that. 
 

That’s it, stop tagging me. I’m moving on. 

Edited 4 hours ago by savantsav

[DMICS]

45 minutes ago, savantsav said:

Getting pulled on this as I keep getting tagged. 

You started this by tagging the provider after you guys spoke off-site, no? 
 

By that action alone you were provoking drama and confrontation in this thread. Can’t throw rocks and now retreat when the heat is on lol. 

[savantsav]

I tagged him so he could come defend himself. Wasn’t just gonna talk behind his back. 
 

and I can stay here allllll you all want. We already got to the root that I do not believe he couldn’t reach out. That’s it. Anything else you or anyone else wants to add? We can keep going in circles. 

[GordyLex]

Also to everyone that reached out to me privately here, by text, by RM messenger, and to those that came to my aid I am so overwhelmed by the love and support especially while I’m still healing.

 

If we ever meet as client and provider I will show you just how grateful I am 😈🤤🥵 . 

Edited 4 hours ago by GordyLex

[moonlight]

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.

Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.

I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.