Heart It Deep Posted July 8 Posted July 8 Looking for providers who can achieve this with clients. Seems to be somewhat elusive. Previous threads on this were closed to comments. Although this seems somewhat elusive, I know it's possible.
+ KensingtonHomo Posted July 8 Posted July 8 As someone who has experienced these, it's more about you than the provider. I learned how to have them via Zoom during the COVID-19 pandemic. It mostly has to do with your ability to relax into the pleasure, so it just waves over you again and again. Have you ever had one? You can probably teach yourself with a toy. jeezifonly, 1sight, + Vegas_Millennial and 2 others 1 4
+ ApexNomad Posted July 8 Posted July 8 27 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said: As someone who has experienced these, it's more about you than the provider. I learned how to have them via Zoom during the COVID-19 pandemic. It mostly has to do with your ability to relax into the pleasure, so it just waves over you again and again. Have you ever had one? You can probably teach yourself with a toy. I’ve had plenty of things happen on Zoom—technical difficulties, awkward silences, existential dread—but anal orgasms? That’s a first. Bravo! + azdr0710, + DrownedBoy, + Just Chuck and 12 others 1 14
Simon Suraci Posted July 8 Posted July 8 Yes, it’s a thing, and oh so pleasurable. I guide clients into the orgasmic states you’re looking for. True, you can learn it on your own with some access to information online and in books, but it’s way more fun with a provider. It takes practice, patience, an interest, belief that it’s possible, an open mind, and a willingness to learn. Most men lack one or all of these. Also, sometimes it takes multiple sessions depending on the person, their experience level, their body, and individual circumstances. It’s a heavy investment in terms of time and to some extent money, but moreso time and patience. Men prefer instant gratification. Providers offering what you are looking for are exceedingly rare because of all the above limiting the market demand for the services you’re seeking. We’re out there, but not in every city or neighborhood. You might have to travel or hire a traveler to find a good fit. jeezifonly, DunwoodyGuy, + Vegas_Millennial and 3 others 3 1 1 1
Heart It Deep Posted July 9 Author Posted July 9 6 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said: As someone who has experienced these, it's more about you than the provider. I learned how to have them via Zoom during the COVID-19 pandemic. It mostly has to do with your ability to relax into the pleasure, so it just waves over you again and again. Have you ever had one? You can probably teach yourself with a toy. Hi- I have had one, and it was with a provider who used vibrating toys. I've tried at home with toys myself. Both vibrating and non-vibrating. I've gotten myself close but not quite there. I think I'm "overthinking" about it. + Just Chuck and + KensingtonHomo 1 1
Heart It Deep Posted July 9 Author Posted July 9 5 hours ago, ApexNomad said: I’ve had plenty of things happen on Zoom—technical difficulties, awkward silences, existential dread—but anal orgasms? That’s a first. Bravo! @ApexNomad, I swear your sole purpose here is for comic relief. Love reading your comments. Thanks for brightening my day. CuriousByNature, + ApexNomad and + Just Chuck 2 1
Heart It Deep Posted July 9 Author Posted July 9 5 hours ago, Simon Suraci said: Yes, it’s a thing, and oh so pleasurable. I guide clients into the orgasmic states you’re looking for. True, you can learn it on your own with some access to information online and in books, but it’s way more fun with a provider. It takes practice, patience, an interest, belief that it’s possible, an open mind, and a willingness to learn. Most men lack one or all of these. Also, sometimes it takes multiple sessions depending on the person, their experience level, their body, and individual circumstances. It’s a heavy investment in terms of time and to some extent money, but moreso time and patience. Men prefer instant gratification. Providers offering what you are looking for are exceedingly rare because of all the above limiting the market demand for the services you’re seeking. We’re out there, but not in every city or neighborhood. You might have to travel or hire a traveler to find a good fit. Your words of wisdom are much appreciated. I don't think it's possible for "instant gratification" It seems like something that does take time to accomplish.
+ Just Chuck Posted July 9 Posted July 9 The first time I experienced an anal full-body orgasm was through prostate massage with a gloved finger. The single finger was slender enough that I was able to easily take that in without any physical discomfort and then it's just a matter of the person massaging knowing the anatomy and what motion is going to feel good. I didn't experience it the first several times I got fucked. I don't think I was relaxed enough for it to happen then no matter who I had been with. I had to work to get comfortable receiving and then they started happening for me (but still not every time) when I get fucked. Toys were the way to learn my own anatomy and to get used to penetration enough that I could experience that during anal sex. Nightowl, Whippoorwill and + ApexNomad 3
+ ApexNomad Posted July 9 Posted July 9 17 hours ago, Heart It Deep said: @ApexNomad, I swear your sole purpose here is for comic relief. Love reading your comments. Thanks for brightening my day. You’re far too kind. Thanks for brightening mine. 😘 Heart It Deep 1
Oakman Posted July 9 Posted July 9 SF_StudXXL, now located in Houston, would get me there. Absolutely incredible experiences with that man. Heart It Deep, + ApexNomad and + Vegas_Millennial 3
Heart It Deep Posted July 10 Author Posted July 10 5 hours ago, Oakman said: SF_StudXXL, now located in Houston, would get me there. Absolutely incredible experiences with that man. Wow, his starts are big. 9.5 uncut. Is it his size that assists?
SirBillybob Posted July 10 Posted July 10 (edited) Since solo screen time became a thing I’ve been either having or faking tantric orgasms. Edited July 10 by SirBillybob jeezifonly 1
Oakman Posted July 10 Posted July 10 11 hours ago, Heart It Deep said: Wow, his starts are big. 9.5 uncut. Is it his size that assists? Size, attitude, and relentlessness. + Vegas_Millennial 1
Heart It Deep Posted July 10 Author Posted July 10 2 hours ago, SirBillybob said: Since solo screen time became a thing I’ve been either having or faking tantric orgasms. That sounds fun.
Nightowl Posted July 12 Posted July 12 Still waiting for my first one. So far all my providers seem interested in is getting themselves off, not me. Archangel and marylander1940 2
jeezifonly Posted July 12 Posted July 12 I’ve experienced it with a partner once. Many times solo. One thing - the nature of the AO sensation is more an extended hum than a bang - highly individual, factoring in all sorts of variables physical, mental and situational. It takes time to find your best method and positioning. It’s called elusive, but mostly the full body AO is a victim of distractions and a sense of urgency that rushes past the clues your body sends when you’re on the right track. Too much direct pressure on the prostate can spoil the trajectory. For me what makes it feel “full body” is the sensory overload of synced rhythms - breath, stimulation, and core. A standard O with ejaculation may or may not sync with the rest. Mine often come slightly delayed - an exclamation point of sorts. Simon Suraci, Nightowl, Heart It Deep and 1 other 4
Archangel Posted July 16 Posted July 16 From my unscientific analysis, any level of thinking about time kills it. I’ve found actually gummies really help. If you’re open to that. Not everyone is. No judgment. jeezifonly and Heart It Deep 2
Heart It Deep Posted July 17 Author Posted July 17 I don't personally partake but It might help me relaaaaaxxxxx
Kcdave Posted July 17 Posted July 17 If you use 10 mg of an edible it also helps you to relax. Guided meditation and playing at home with an Aneros or Njoy toy get you ready for that HFO orgasm
marylander1940 Posted July 17 Posted July 17 On 7/11/2025 at 9:12 PM, Nightowl said: Still waiting for my first one. So far all my providers seem interested in is getting themselves off, not me. You're hiring the wrong providers.... YOU are the client YOU set the tems.
Nightowl Posted July 17 Posted July 17 57 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: You're hiring the wrong providers.... YOU are the client YOU set the tems. You’re right. I should be laying out my requirements more forcefully.
marylander1940 Posted July 17 Posted July 17 1 hour ago, Nightowl said: You’re right. I should be laying out my requirements more forcefully. It's all about expressing yourself and suggesting things you want to do. Nightowl 1
DunwoodyGuy Posted July 19 Posted July 19 On 7/8/2025 at 5:43 PM, Simon Suraci said: Yes, it’s a thing, and oh so pleasurable. I guide clients into the orgasmic states you’re looking for. True, you can learn it on your own with some access to information online and in books, but it’s way more fun with a provider. It takes practice, patience, an interest, belief that it’s possible, an open mind, and a willingness to learn. Most men lack one or all of these. Also, sometimes it takes multiple sessions depending on the person, their experience level, their body, and individual circumstances. It’s a heavy investment in terms of time and to some extent money, but moreso time and patience. Men prefer instant gratification. Providers offering what you are looking for are exceedingly rare because of all the above limiting the market demand for the services you’re seeking. We’re out there, but not in every city or neighborhood. You might have to travel or hire a traveler to find a good fit. OMG Simon--I think I had one just reading that! Simon Suraci 1
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