Bareback

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

44 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I don’t understand your situation and how you handled it. Pep is taking doxycycline 200 mg within 24 hours of sexual activity. That’s it. It’s not PreP. The CDC recommends what I just wrote. It’s not complicated. 

PEP is completely different than taking Doxy.

It's a whole regime of antivirals, often used for individuals who are already HIV+, in order to avoid the virus latching on.

https://hivinfo.nih.gov/understanding-hiv/fact-sheets/post-exposure-prophylaxis-pep

I believe you're confusing this with DoxyPrEP.

Edited May 14 by BenjaminNicholas

[ShortCutie7]

42 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

You lost me with the last part of your statement. If the provider turns down a client because he doesn’t want to do bareback the client should just move on and look for one who does. 

I don’t think I worded that clearly enough- I meant that it’s not realistic for a client to expect a provider to turn down another client for any reason. For example, it is not realistic for me to expect a provider to turn down a poz client. 

[Constantine]

1 hour ago, Luv2play said:

I don’t understand your situation and how you handled it. Pep is taking doxycycline 200 mg within 24 hours of sexual activity. That’s it. It’s not PreP. The CDC recommends what I just wrote. It’s not complicated. 

I think I was quite clear. I took PEP after two separate unprotected incidents. PEP can be taken up to 72 hours post exposure.

[Constantine]

21 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

PEP is completely different than taking Doxy.

It's a whole regime of antivirals, often used for individuals who are already HIV+, in order to avoid the virus latching on.

https://hivinfo.nih.gov/understanding-hiv/fact-sheets/post-exposure-prophylaxis-pep

I believe you're confusing this with DoxyPrEP.

 

The amount of misinformation here is just insane. PEP is taken by HIV negative people who have had a potential HIV exposure.

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

PEP is completely different than taking Doxy.

It's a whole regime of antivirals, often used for individuals who are already HIV+, in order to avoid the virus latching on.

https://hivinfo.nih.gov/understanding-hiv/fact-sheets/post-exposure-prophylaxis-pep

I believe you're confusing this with DoxyPrEP.

I was confusing Pep with DoxyPep. I thought he was concerned about contracting an STI other than HIV. But DoxyPrep  is not to be confused with DoxyPep. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

1 hour ago, Quincy_7 said:

 

The amount of misinformation here is just insane. PEP is taken by HIV negative people who have had a potential HIV exposure.

Reread what I wrote.  All factual, including the link.

PEP medication are antivirals, some of the same meds used by people who are HIV+ 

Yes, I realize that PEP is for people who are negative wishing to stay negative.

[pubic_assistance]

On 5/12/2025 at 7:55 PM, KensingtonHomo said:

this was not meant in any way as an attack on you

..and I didn't perceive it as such.

Just didnt understand why you included me in your comment. You've read enough of my comments to know better. I spent most of my 20s being a huge slut...there was no "shame" holding me back. I also dont think we are of the same generation. I know some gays who are 20 years older than me, who are very insecure about their sexuality.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Just didnt understand why you included me in your comment. You've read enough of my comments to know better. I spent most of my 20s being a huge slut...there was no "shame" holding me back. I also dont think we are of the same generation. I know some gays who are 20 years older than me, who are very insecure about their sexuality.

I included you because your initial comment struck me as you having discomfort with anal sex. You later went into more detail about your STI concerns, which shifted my perception. 

Now, not specific to you but being a huge slut does not mean people are without shame. Some people who are acting out sexually carry a ton of shame. 

I enjoy your shade in suggesting I'm older than you. But based on what you've said about your life, I'm around five years younger. 

[pubic_assistance]

2 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I enjoy your shade in suggesting I'm older than you. But based on what you've said about your life, I'm around five years younger. 

Oh ? Wasn't throwing shade at all. I genuinely thought, based on your commentary here, that you were in your 70s. Your opinions always remind me of some older gay men who I know in NYC.

I turned 54 in February.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

5 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Oh ? Wasn't throwing shade at all. I genuinely thought, based on your commentary here, that you were in your 70s. Your opinions always remind me of some older gay men who I know in NYC.

I turned 54 in February.

My commentary in defending older clients?   I feel like my commentary is in line with being a Gen Xer. 

For the record, I'm three years younger than you. I suspect I came out younger than you so maybe that's the vibe? 

[pubic_assistance]

16 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I came out younger than you so maybe that's the vibe? 

No idea. Sorry for thinking you have an old-queen vibe 😆

[+ KensingtonHomo]

54 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

No idea. Sorry for thinking you have an old-queen vibe 😆

I have no issue being compared to Ian McKellen. I hope to grow into a sassy old queen.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

17 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

No idea. Sorry for thinking you have an old-queen vibe 😆

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I have no issue being compared to Ian McKellen. I hope to grow into a sassy old queen.

You two should get a room already! 

😘 😘 

At least you've already had the discussion publicly and know that @pubic_assistancewill insist on condoms, and @KensingtonHomo doesn't mind condoms.  Have fun! 🥳

Edited May 14 by Vegas_Millennial

[pubic_assistance]

2 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

You two should get a room already! 

😘 😘 

I only fucked men over 40 when I was UNDER 40. 😘

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said:

I only fucked men over 40 when I was UNDER 40. 😘

I find myself having similar attitudes as I age.  When I was young, I mostly liked Daddy's who used condoms.  Now, I'm finding more and more young chasers who enjoy me bareback.  I may be getting older, but the men I see are getting younger!  And the older we get, the more men younger than us we have to choose from 😉 

[AtticusBK]

And here I thought that Gen Xers hated Gen Z / xennials. Turns out we just want to fuck them 😜

[pubic_assistance]

10 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I'm finding more and more young chasers who enjoy me bareback. 

"Chasers" ? I remember in the 90s there was this phenomenon called "bug chasers" where young gay guys would deliberately get infected with HIV.

[Colton]

19 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

 

 

This guy's profile doesn't mention bareback.  Is he great at bareback, and that's why y'all posted here?

No we went off on a tangent.   Apologies.  

[+ KensingtonHomo]

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I only fucked men over 40 when I was UNDER 40. 😘

The gag is I don't even look 40. And it's not because of fillers or botox. Alas, I do not think me and @pubic_assistance will ever have a grudge fuck. 🤣

 

[Thomas_Belgium]

23 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

"Chasers" ? I remember in the 90s there was this phenomenon called "bug chasers" where young gay guys would deliberately get infected with HIV.

 

They still exist. You can find them on gay sex date apps.

[Scott Carroll]

So I read through this thread and I am still unsure that I understand.  Is it common for a bottom provider to take it bareback and allow one to unload in them and is there an surcharge for both of those actions??

[DMonDude]

11 minutes ago, Scott Carroll said:

So I read through this thread and I am still unsure that I understand.  Is it common for a bottom provider to take it bareback and allow one to unload in them and is there an surcharge for both of those actions??

That's because there's no general consensus on it. Some do, some don't. Some charge extra for it, some don't. You just have to talk to each individual provider about it.

[jeezifonly]

When it comes to HIV, the highest exposure potential is receptive anal sex with no barrier. 

I think anyone who wants to be the receptive partner for bareback should protect themselves with something other than the word of the inserting partner about their own status or prevention. Take Prep with 100% regularity and you'll be able to do that.

DoxyPep protects against the bacterial growth from exposure to the other STI's and can be taken after exposure, asap. Exposure to those infections are much easier to come by through  any genital-oral-anal contact. Proceed at your own risk. 

As a client, I always look out for myself, and the provider, but his other clients are on their own like we all are. 

 

[Heart It Deep]

On 5/12/2025 at 9:43 AM, Colton said:

> escorts will bareback on their online videos (often self-produced) and with their personal hookups but only use condoms with clients

I think Nick Floyd said that this is because bb w clients would mandate a cooling off period before he could do studio work again.  But bb w other performers does not require a cooling off period. 

Most studios require testing shortly before filming (apx 48 hours) to clear to shoot.  Sometimes your scene partner changes the day before because the original one tested+ for something and needed treatment.  

 

I've noticed outside the U.S. in general people are much better about condom usage.  Just my lived experience.  

[LookingAround]

12 hours ago, Scott Carroll said:

So I read through this thread and I am still unsure that I understand.  Is it common for a bottom provider to take it bareback and allow one to unload in them and is there a surcharge for both of those actions??

In the USA is it common, yes (a large percent of gay men are on prep). Do they allow the top to breed them? Yes. Do escorts charge extra for both of these actions? In my experience no, but I suppose a few do.