Happy Endings?

[doublebarrelale]

Random thoughts - do masseur providers actually enjoy providing and giving happy endings or do they just see it as a chore?

I am sure the answer is, “it depends”. But I do wonder if most actually enjoy giving them or not. 

[+ Letmeworshipit]

And on the flip side, how do I broach the subject that I am not necessarily interested in getting a happy ending but am very interesting in ensuring that they have one...?

[+ Jamie21]

If you’ve done the massage correctly then the ‘happy ending’ is simply the sine qua none to a great sensual massage. It cannot therefore be a chore unless the whole sensual massage is a chore, in which case why would one even do sensual massage in the first place? 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

21 hours ago, doublebarrelale said:

Random thoughts - do masseur providers actually enjoy providing and giving happy endings or do they just see it as a chore?

I am sure the answer is, “it depends”. But I do wonder if most actually enjoy giving them or not. 

Have you ever received a handjob or blowjob for someone who did not enjoy giving it?  It's horrible!

My experiences of this were when I was younger and would frequent cheap massage parlors seeking a good massage.  I was unaware that these places prey on cheep labor and solicit sexual services, so I always found it awkward when the masseur or masseuse would start to give me a handjob or blowjob.  I finally learned to tell these providers to stop, because the handjobs and blowjobs were so bad.  Now, I avoid almost all cheap massage parlors for this very reason.

[italianboyph]

It’s never a chore. I think when it comes to those specific things, you can always tell right off the bat if someone is enjoying it or not. It’s either good or just completely bad.

[CuriousByNature]

7 hours ago, italianboyph said:

 you can always tell right off the bat if someone is enjoying it or not

Whose bat, though?   

[soloyo215]

On 4/28/2025 at 3:54 PM, doublebarrelale said:

Random thoughts - do masseur providers actually enjoy providing and giving happy endings or do they just see it as a chore?

I am sure the answer is, “it depends”. But I do wonder if most actually enjoy giving them or not. 

It depends 😁.

Really, I've gotten a spectrum of levels of enthusiasm, so it varies from provider to provider. The reasons can be from bad or no chemistry, to being the last client of the day, to being the first client of the day, to his mood, to my mood, I mean, so many things can influence how the experience goes.

Nothing worse than getting an unenthusiastic, "what a chore!" hand job, but I still get it 🙃 (maybe that's why the word job is in it).

Edited April 30 by soloyo215

[jeezifonly]

Chemistry, Talent and Timing

•• the great unpredictables ••

[Simon Suraci]

On 4/29/2025 at 10:39 AM, Letmeworshipit said:

And on the flip side, how do I broach the subject that I am not necessarily interested in getting a happy ending but am very interesting in ensuring that they have one...?

This is how: offer to pay an appropriate rate for sex work.

Please consider the golden rule. If every client were like you, I would be milked like a cow 6x a day for a massage fee. And oh by the way, still be expected to get hard as a rock and be sexy and have lots of energy and have a good attitude, do good work, be “on”, and make it seem as though I genuinely enjoyed being pressured into allowing a client to give me a (probably not so great) handjob…etc…for the second client…and the third…and the sixth client too. Exhausting, no?

[Nightowl]

 I love the cow milking analogy

Edited May 1 by Nightowl

[Muscleking]

10 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

This is how: offer to pay an appropriate rate for sex work.

Please consider the golden rule. If every client were like you, I would be milked like a cow 6x a day for a massage fee. And oh by the way, still be expected to get hard as a rock and be sexy and have lots of energy and have a good attitude, do good work, be “on”, and make it seem as though I genuinely enjoyed being pressured into allowing a client to give me a (probably not so great) handjob…etc…for the second client…and the third…and the sixth client too. Exhausting, no?

That makes sense, I usually don’t ask guys to cum for this reason.. and the few times I did I’d pay them more. 

[+ Letmeworshipit]

On 4/30/2025 at 9:32 PM, Simon Suraci said:

This is how: offer to pay an appropriate rate for sex work.

Please consider the golden rule. If every client were like you, I would be milked like a cow 6x a day for a massage fee. And oh by the way, still be expected to get hard as a rock and be sexy and have lots of energy and have a good attitude, do good work, be “on”, and make it seem as though I genuinely enjoyed being pressured into allowing a client to give me a (probably not so great) handjob…etc…for the second client…and the third…and the sixth client too. Exhausting, no?

I understand. I am not a demanding customer, believe me, and have never pressured any provider to do anything. But I have been hooked by those who tease and infer everything is on the table (so to speak) then find that it was all said just to to get the gig. Like any transaction, it's all about a two-way, honest dialogue. I was simply asking the question about how best to broach the subject. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, Letmeworshipit said:

But I have been hooked by those who tease...

Enjoy the tease.

Once you broach the subject, it will no longer be a tease (whatever his response is)

[RugbyBen]

I've certainly had the odd one which felt so obligatory I wish they hadn't bothered. 

I see one guy who gives a great therapeutic massage, very sensual. Happily teases me and gets me hard yet doesn't cross the line. I walk out of there feeling incredible. 

[Simon Suraci]

28 minutes ago, RugbyBen said:

I've certainly had the odd one which felt so obligatory I wish they hadn't bothered. 

+1