PNP T(Tina)

[BornGreatToDoGreat]

 

I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship?

[TorontoDrew]

Time to move on.

[Whatsupandstuff]

this sadly willl end badly. time to move on 

[+ Axiom2001]

1 hour ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

 

 

I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship?

If your experience with this man is NO LONGER pleasurable-- I would cease seeing him.

For about five or six years, I was seeing a hot Latino in the San Francisco area who gave me some very good and hot sexual times.  Prior to our hour to 1.5 hours of play time, we'd smoke some good 420 that he would provided.  Well, after the heat of COVID, we began to see each other.  One night he was really giving me one hell of a hot time: a moment that frightened me, for although I DO NOT have a heart ailment, I was thinking that all of what he was giving me would lead to my having a heart attack, for he was sending lots of good vibes and chills down "me spine."  I kindly asked him to stop; he did and did not talk about it.  A couple of times or perhaps a third session later, he'd changed his sexual status from Bi to Straight.  That's when the sex became rather lame.  He no longer wanted fingers applied to his "hot chunnel" or my hot mouth rimming him (...the only man that I rendered this act to) or really engaging his some of the hottest deep kissing.  He viewed straight vids on his iPhone while engaged.

From those actions and new sexual description, I've ceased seeing him after our previous wonderful six years of playing and relating.  I miss him--especially what he gave me on the night that I nicely requested him to cease fucking me.

Since a new year has commenced, I am lining up on my "Buddies List" on RM the biggest of in the San Francisco Bay Area for 2025.  And at this point, I am acutely horny and quite anxious.

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina).

When I was younger it was a birthday tradition for my friends to give the birthday boy some T and go out partying until it really kicked in and the we'd head to a bathhouse or sex club. I remember one year it was my birthday. I must have fucked 30 people that night. I was a sexual power house. But that's because I only did it once a year. People who get addicted to meth develop seriously bad emotional problems and get to a point where they constantly WANT sex but can't perform. It's all very sad. Time to move on and pray for your friend to seek recovery.

Edited January 2 by pubic_assistance
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[Callas]

3 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

 

 

I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship?

As long as you are safe and still enjoy it, i think it should be fine.

but if the chem is completely gone or too low, time to move on.

i would ask if he needs any help when talking to him in person for the last time. Hope he would be fine; but just in case you never see him again, you won’t regret for not at least offering help.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

4 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship?

You should.

You should also use this as a lesson for the future.

Stay the fuck away from meth.

[BornGreatToDoGreat]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

When I was younger it was a birthday tradition for my friends to give the birthday boy some T and go out partying until it really kicked in and the we'd head to a bathhouse or sex club. I remember one year it was my birthday. I must have fucked 30 people that night. I was a sexual power house. But that's because I only did it once a year. People who get addicted to meth develop seriously bad emotional problems and get to a point where they constantly WANT sex but can't perform. It's all very sad. Time to move on and pray for your friend to seek recovery.

It’s just where the heck did the paranoia come from that’s what’s been throwing the vibe off as of late. It’s like the sound of anything makes him panic.

[+ purplekow]

Paranoia is part and parcel with meth use.  He may have increased his usage and the symptoms may becoming more obvious.  Look for bad dental hygiene to follow and unusual behavior.  

I would not stay around for more than you already have unless it is to get him help with his meth use.  

Long-Term Effects and Risks of Meth Use

Over time, more chronic use of meth can result in significant physical and psychological problems, which may include:^1,8,11

• Cumulative brain changes resulting in confusion, memory loss, and impaired verbal learning.
• Reduced coordination.
• Insomnia.
• Changes in mood.
• Violent behavior.
• Chronic anxiety.
• Paranoia.
• Hallucinations.
• Extreme weight loss.
• Severe heart problems, (e.g., chronic systemic and pulmonary hypertension, cardiomyopathy, increased chance of aortic dissection, and myocardial infarction)
• Skin abscesses and damaged blood vessels (from injection use).
• Severe dental problems such as gum disease and tooth decay.

Additionally, individuals who inject meth are at an increased risk of contracting certain blood-borne diseases, such as HIV and hepatitis B and C.¹ Studies indicate that meth use may worsen the progression of HIV/AIDS and its health consequences.¹ Furthermore, research suggests a potential association between past meth use and Parkinson’s disease.¹

Edited January 2 by purplekow

[Boaxxx]

Shut the door and get the hell out of there. Stop focusing on the good sex and start focusing on the future potential danger that you may be in. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

23 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

it’s affected the sexual performance as well.

 

23 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be.

These 2 statements alone would make me not rehire.  Regardless of drugs or not... You hire him for sex and chemistry.  Those aren't there anymore, so move on.

[Whatsupandstuff]

2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

 

These 2 statements alone would make me not rehire.  Regardless of drugs or not... You hire him for sex and chemistry.  Those aren't there anymore, so move on.

ab-so-fkkking-lutely

 

[DunwoodyGuy]

Tina is an evil c*u*n*t. She killed my friend Stephen. She kills everyone who can't stop using her, and she is extremely difficult to quit. If she doesn't kill the body, she destroys the soul.

[Guest]

Giving it a sexy name doesn’t make it better. It’s meth. 

[rvwnsd]

On 1/1/2025 at 1:50 PM, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

 

 

I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship?

No, you should not prepare to close the chapter. It is time to stop hiring this guy. Whether he is using meth, cocaine, or nothing at all, when the fun stops being fun and the chemistry is gone it is time to stop hiring a guy.

On 1/1/2025 at 6:53 PM, BornGreatToDoGreat said:

It’s just where the heck did the paranoia come from that’s what’s been throwing the vibe off as of late. It’s like the sound of anything makes him panic.

One of the effects of meth use is paranoia. 

7 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

Giving it a sexy name doesn’t make it better. It’s meth. 

This should be a banner at the top of every Rentmen, Grindr, A4A, and other dating/hookup app page.

[BuffaloKyle]

I wouldn't be paying for sex that is no longer enjoyable. So yes time to move on.

[afterfallhours1]

As someone who did PnP, leave him. 

[Chimi45]

Why don’t you tell him how you feel? He probably has no idea that he’s making you feell like this. Sounds like he could use a friend and some help. 

[uclablueyes]

When in Spain, the new drug of use for chemsex is Mefedrona. It’s an inhibitor and more potent than coke but without the sleep deprivation effects of T. It’s insane how many providers use it and offer it to their clients as it allows for longer sessions as the client gets all horned up. 
Similar to other members here I’m trying to be very careful about those substances. I mostly only do poppers as I had experiences with others and made me paranoid. 
I used to see a great escort in NY. He was a surfer Abercrombie and fitch type at 6’4 feet high, super muscular with the biggest bubble butt you could image. It was always my go to provider while on the big Apple but lately he kept wanting to introduce more and more substances for our session to last longer. The last session I felt so out of myself that it wasn’t a pleasurable experience. I miss seeing him as he was a nice guy and we have known each other for almost a decade but that last experience worried me so I avoided contacting him after that. Now his profile is no longer listed and I can see he went on social and started positing about doing nonstop cum dumps sessions. He texted me for Xmas saying that if I wanted to join one of his marathon sessions to text him. I replied that it was my thing and wished him merry Xmas back. He just asked me to get lost which was not how he would answer as he was such a lovely sweet young man. 
I sometimes wondered if I should reach out and offer my help somehow but don’t know if I would be intruding after that last message… 

[pubic_assistance]

9 hours ago, uclablueyes said:

I sometimes wondered if I should reach out and offer my help somehow but don’t know if I would be intruding

If his friends and family can't stop him, a random client isn't going to break through those mental/emotional barriers.

Say goodbye and raise a glass to his former charming self.  A&F doesn't sound like he's going to be long for this world.

[uclablueyes]

19 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

If his friends and family can't stop him, a random client isn't going to break through those mental/emotional barriers.

Say goodbye and raise a glass to his former charming self.  A&F doesn't sound like he's going to be long for this world.

I will raise a glass to him. So sad but you are right. Hopefully he sees the light but I won’t be able to do anything to change his fate 😔

[pubic_assistance]

44 minutes ago, uclablueyes said:

Hopefully he sees the light but I won’t be able to do anything to change his fate

I lost a friend to meth many years ago. Beautiful guy. Sweet and handsome and was on his way to a brilliant career in fashion. Sadly the parties he frequented were always littered with "party-favors" and he overindulged and is now brain dead. Just a vegetable that his (now) elderly parents feed and diaper, until he finally passes and gives them some peace. Very sad.

[savantsav]

Don't bother. Meth is just a "don't touch" thing, I had a friend who's a famous porn star and I saw him go from being the nicest guy ever to a paranoid mess who crashed his car, got sent to jail, couldn't hold a job and talking to him in person 2 years after you could tell his mental faculties had decreased considerably. Is not worth it. You cannot help them. Walk away.

[Tom C. Sinclair]

Forgive my ignorance. I’m gathering from this that “T(Tina)” is shorthand for meth? 

[MikeBiDude]

31 minutes ago, Tom C. Sinclair said:

Forgive my ignorance. I’m gathering from this that “T(Tina)” is shorthand for meth? 

Yes you are correct Tina=Meth. Watch for ads that say “parTy” or other ways to emphasis a “T”, all means Tina/Meth.