How do they stay hard?

[Frenchjuris]

This has probably been asked here before, but I can’t find it, so my apologies in advance. I’m curious if anyone has insight on how escorts stay hard for clients they are not attracted to. Surely viagra and imagination can only get one so far…? 

[marylander1940]

9 minutes ago, Frenchjuris said:

This has probably been asked here before, but I can’t find it, so my apologies in advance. I’m curious if anyone has insight on how escorts stay hard for clients they are not attracted to. Surely viagra and imagination can only get one so far…? 

yes, Viagra but also not everybody can be an escort and perform with folks they're usually not attracted to. 

It takes a certain mindset. 

[56harrisond]

See:

 

[+ Jamie21]

Sometimes you just can’t. I’ve had it happen and of course the more anxious you get about it the harder it gets (or the softer it gets to be accurate 😂). Also, it’s nothing to do with the attractiveness or otherwise of the client. That’s a common misconception. It’s much more likely to be that he has other things on his mind, he’s seen other clients that day, or the client is doing something that is irritating.

Sometimes clients can be quite clumsy and that can mean one struggles to stay hard. I saw a client recently who wanted me to shoot in his mouth (this after fucking him) so that happened..but then about 5 minutes later he wanted me to fuck him again. That simply wasn’t going to happen (plus time was nearly up). 

In massage sessions it’s not such a problem although if it does happen I can sense the client’s disappointment. But in sessions where the client expects to get fucked it can be a problem! If you’re a client the worst thing you can do is make a big thing of it because then nothing is going to work. Best to hide any disappointment, focus on all the other things that two guys can do together… and what you’re likely to find is before long he’s hard 🙂. 
 

[LookingAround]

Cialis and trimix. 

[MikeBiDude]

53 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Also, it’s nothing to do with the attractiveness or otherwise of the client. That’s a common misconception

Appreciate you pointing that out.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Incantations from the Whore Grimmerie

[+ ApexNomad]

I mentioned this in a previous thread, but I once met a provider who happened to be having a really bad day. He wasn’t in the right mindset, and it had nothing to do with me. We didn’t do anything physical that night—instead, we went to the hotel bar/restaurant, had some drinks, enjoyed a nice meal, and just talked for several hours. I really enjoyed his company. He insisted we meet again the next day, and when we did, he was absolutely amazing!

[marylander1940]

16 minutes ago, ApexNomad said:

I mentioned this in a previous thread, but I once met a provider who happened to be having a really bad day. He wasn’t in the right mindset, and it had nothing to do with me. We didn’t do anything physical that night—instead, we went to the hotel bar/restaurant, had some drinks, enjoyed a nice meal, and just talked for several hours. I really enjoyed his company. He insisted we meet again the next day, and when we did, he was absolutely amazing!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

24 minutes ago, ApexNomad said:

I mentioned this in a previous thread, but I once met a provider who happened to be having a really bad day. He wasn’t in the right mindset, and it had nothing to do with me. We didn’t do anything physical that night—instead, we went to the hotel bar/restaurant, had some drinks, enjoyed a nice meal, and just talked for several hours. I really enjoyed his company. He insisted we meet again the next day, and when we did, he was absolutely amazing!

You're a good egg.

Not a lot of personalities on this board would be so kind in that situation.

[+ PhileasFogg]

Viagara is not an override to lack of arousal. 

[Cretus]

And Viagra doesn’t nullify the impacts of a prostate infection you don’t realize you have. 

(The prostate is flanked on either side by bundles of nerves that are critical for an erection. If the prostate get infected and swells up, you might not be able to get hard in that moment.)

Just another cause of spontaneous ED I learned about the hard way 😂.

 

Edited December 3, 2024 by Lolito

[NJF]

10 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

You're a good egg.

Not a lot of personalities on this board would be so kind in that situation.

Good egg? 😂 

[mike carey]

23 minutes ago, NJF said:

Good egg? 😂 

What's your question?

[PileDriver]

Can I assume we are talking tops here? Agree Viagra can only do so much. Have hired escorts who have used a TriMix injection and were able to fuck for hours and shoot multiple times. One older escort had a penile implant (and a really big thick dick). But in general with all escorts my experience is that many are just very confident and very sexual men who enjoy getting off. The few unfulfilling experiences I've had have been with men whose heart and libido were not into it and seemed to be in it purely for the money. Some of the most intense hires have been with older guys with years of experience and just get off on getting off with clients whether they are attracted or into them or not.

[Durk]

I'm a bodybuilder and also had a high sex drive. I tried Cialis one time and got a terrible headache that lasted about three hours. I also have an active sex drive before and after my workouts. That works for me but I can't speak for other guys. 

[NJF]

9 hours ago, mike carey said:

What's your question?

IYNYN 😂

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

2 hours ago, NJF said:

IYNYN 😂

Correction:  IYKYK?

[mike carey]

54 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Correction:  IYKYK?

You're a good egg, Ben.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

41 minutes ago, mike carey said:

You're a good egg, Ben.

[NJF]

3 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Correction:  IYKYK?

You are absolutely correct 

[Dingdi]

On 12/3/2024 at 2:09 AM, ApexNomad said:

I mentioned this in a previous thread, but I once met a provider who happened to be having a really bad day. He wasn’t in the right mindset, and it had nothing to do with me. We didn’t do anything physical that night—instead, we went to the hotel bar/restaurant, had some drinks, enjoyed a nice meal, and just talked for several hours. I really enjoyed his company. He insisted we meet again the next day, and when we did, he was absolutely amazing!

Did you pay as same as in bed?

[+ ApexNomad]

12 hours ago, Dingdi said:

Did you pay as same as in bed?

I am not sure what you mean. Our session was for 2 hours. I paid him his fee because I wanted to. I have the means and I simply didn’t care. We then went to the bar/restaurant, had drinks and a nice meal. We met up the next night - he didn’t take or want a penny. He was amazing! 

[DC Guy 92]

On 2/7/2025 at 12:18 PM, ApexNomad said:

I am not sure what you mean. Our session was for 2 hours. I paid him his fee because I wanted to. I have the means and I simply didn’t care. We then went to the bar/restaurant, had drinks and a nice meal. We met up the next night - he didn’t take or want a penny. He was amazing! 

I actually love this…good provider and good client.  This is what a trusting relationship feels like.  I’ll accommodate you, you accommodate me.

[PileDriver]

staying hard...also want to emphasize...there are nice guys out there...many with huge dicks, who are very sexual and just simply enjoy getting off...so getting hard is not a problem. some of them as sweet and nice as they are in some ways are like dogs in heat and would fuck a leg of a stranger just for the pleasure...love those guys. wish i had their sexual drive.