Masseurs who are bottoms

[phil_hunter]

Another newbie question. I understand masseurs who provide happy endings, and I guess that masseurs who advertise that they're tops can top you when you're already face down on the table. But how does it work when the masseur makes it clear, either in the description or with a series of photos, that they're bottoms? Not clear who's massaging whom. Or maybe I just lack imagination. 😀

(Funniest thing I seen on a masseur's page: "10 years of experience massaging people all the way to horses." I have no idea what that means!)

[marylander1940]

33 minutes ago, phil_hunter said:

Another newbie question. I understand masseurs who provide happy endings, and I guess that masseurs who advertise that they're tops can top you when you're already face down on the table. But how does it work when the masseur makes it clear, either in the description or with a series of photos, that they're bottoms? Not clear who's massaging whom. Or maybe I just lack imagination. 😀

(Funniest thing I seen on a masseur's page: "10 years of experience massaging people all the way to horses." I have no idea what that means!)

I call them escorts or masseurs who escort.

[soloyo215]

18 hours ago, phil_hunter said:

Another newbie question. I understand masseurs who provide happy endings, and I guess that masseurs who advertise that they're tops can top you when you're already face down on the table. But how does it work when the masseur makes it clear, either in the description or with a series of photos, that they're bottoms? Not clear who's massaging whom. Or maybe I just lack imagination. 😀

(Funniest thing I seen on a masseur's page: "10 years of experience massaging people all the way to horses." I have no idea what that means!)

Can't tell you exactly how, but I have managed to have [extremely] happy endings with masseurs who are bottom. Let them do their job, they know what and how to do things. They find a way for you. After all, they are the ones doing the work.

18 hours ago, phil_hunter said:

(Funniest thing I seen on a masseur's page: "10 years of experience massaging people all the way to horses." I have no idea what that means!)

 

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, soloyo215 said:

Can't tell you exactly how, but I have managed to have [extremely] happy endings with masseurs who are bottom. Let them do their job, they know what and how to do things. They find a way for you. After all, they are the ones doing the work.

This. Turn him over and ride him until he ends happily. You can massage his pecs at same time. That’s what I’ve done. Works fine. 

[DznNYC]

I certainly don’t bill myself as a masseur as I don’t really have the training for that.  But when that’s the framework the client wants, I would start him on his front, massage his back side.  Then when the time comes to flip, I’d massage his front and then - when the time is right - hop on. 
 

If the client is a bottom - a little rarer for me but happens - I would do most of the massage while actually inside him.   
 

But let’s be honest, the legit massage aspect is minimal!  It ends up being something of a pretense, or more comfortable path to actual sex. 

[Shawn Monroe]

Typically as they are giving the happy ending, they hop on top. At least was my experience. 🙂

[pubic_assistance]

I used to see this cute Thai kid for regular sessions. Did a very expert therapeutic session of Thai-massage and then would work my glutes, and taint, get me rock hard and then crawl up onto the table and grind his ass on my cock. Sometimes I'd flip him over and finish doggie-style and sometimes I'd shoot my load the minute he slid his tight hole down my shaft.

That kid was damn talented. Pity he moved back to Thailand. I'm hard just thinking about him again.

[+ Nyctravelers]

I usually, when the time comes to flip over, stand up, start touching them all over and then ask them to lay on the table. I don’t love it as much when  a guy rides me as much as I like it when I am standing up. 

a few guy make it clear earlier than than flipping over that they are open to more but usually grazing their dick on your arms when they are massaging you. They usually get hard doing this so know they are open to more.

[Monarchy79]

Masseurs who do anything outside of the massage (the extras), are usually doing this on a case by case, YMMV basis.

Some may have bottomed for some guys, doesn’t guarantee that they’ll bottom for the NEXT guy. 
 

This is why asking if a specific masseur (kisses, bottoms, tops, eats ass, or gives oral) is somewhat inappropriate. 
 

If you want a massage that guarantees a higher probability that the “ending” will result in a sex act, then hire an escort who will start your session with a massage. 

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, Monarchy79 said:

Masseurs who do anything outside of the massage (the extras), are usually doing this on a case by case, YMMV basis.

Some may have bottomed for some guys, doesn’t guarantee that they’ll bottom for the NEXT guy. 
 

This is why asking if a specific masseur (kisses, bottoms, tops, eats ass, or gives oral) is somewhat inappropriate. 
 

If you want a massage that guarantees a higher probability that the “ending” will result in a sex act, then hire an escort who will start your session with a massage. 

Although escorts may not give a good massage (very unlikely to have a table for example). If you want a good massage (done properly on a table with decent oil etc) and sexual activity then hire a masseur who does sensual / erotic and tell him what you want, either specifically if it’s a must have; “I definitely want to be kissed” or what kind of activity you’d like; “I’d like it very erotic to climax but I’ll leave it to you to decide how”. If there’s something you definitely don’t want, then tell him; “nothing inside”. 

Personally I prefer clients to tell me what they don’t want but then to leave it to me to read the cues from their reactions. If they enjoy it they come back and I remember what they liked and the ‘getting to know you’ progresses. I like to keep it interesting by varying things up and exploring with them a little more. Always with clear understanding of their boundaries and their clear understanding of mine. Within that, anything goes. 
 

[pubic_assistance]

On 10/27/2024 at 6:38 PM, Jamie21 said:

hire a masseur who does sensual / erotic and tell him what you want

I will add that @Jamie21is not working in a region where sex-work is criminalized ...so discretion is important in the US. when communicating on phone or text. 

Although Jamie is right...it's best to be clear....asking someone for sex in exchange for money is still illegal in the United States so I would do the discussing in private / never in writing .