Tops with ass photos??🤔

[Thelatin]

As mostly a bottom, I still want a provider with a hot tight ass.  Love to grab on for the ride.  Can’t wait for vacation….

[TorontoDrew]

I'm a bottom but I love the look and feel of a nice ass.  Plus I like to see ahead of time what I'll be eating. 😁

[Boygeorge]

On 7/6/2024 at 1:57 AM, Sub boy said:

Anyone else find it weird when providers list their position as “top” yet they have mostly ass pics and not a single dick pic? Are they sending a subliminal message? Are they really vers? Is it a fake profile? Maybe I’m reading too much into it but it seems so counterintuitive. Take this guy for example, literally the first pic on this “top’s” profile is an ass pic…

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sexy! I wish I could have a good shag with him!

[SometimesBi]

On 7/6/2024 at 12:50 PM, Sub boy said:

Well take the first profile Nick for example: Total top, 0 dick pics, 8 ass pics. The math just isn’t mathing.

I wonder if part of the problem is that sites like RM don't allow dick pics anymore 😡  At least not the open pics. 

[viewing ownly]

I'm surprised this opinion I have hadn't been shared yet. Something quite a few "no bottom, just top" guys enjoy is being rimmed. The stimulation it can bring will get their penis in a hard state to then pound you. Showing that they have an appealing ass leads me to that belief. 

I've yet to see men who advertise as power bottoms only show dick pics. 

[Sub boy]

23 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

I’m top/versatile. I have only a few pics featuring my ass and I don’t post them to every profile, or they are in a private album. Those usually aren’t the first pics I send when a client inquires for more pics. It’s been a challenge at times getting something together for a top client to peruse when he asks. I probably lose a few top clients by not featuring my ass more prominently, but I often wonder how many more bottom clients I would lose by featuring more of my ass.

It’s a challenge appealing to tops and bottoms. Bottoms often want you to be a “total top”, and sometimes the opposite for tops, but it varies. The idea of topping a top can be exciting for some. Remember: sex is about power exchange.

This tension between appealing to a wide audience vs appeasing a narrow slice is one of the many reasons why sex workers sometimes list “ask me” in the position category. It’s why we display photos of one aspect of our bodies and not the other. Some of us are truly top only or bottom only, but most of us fall somewhere between those two, even if it’s a small percentage of one vs the other.

I can’t tell you how many clients identify as total tops but after seeing me they enjoy bottoming (at least for me). Labels are just labels. Sometimes life experience happens and what you thought was fixed isn’t anymore, and you’re better off because of it. Plenty of members here disagree with me on that point, and they will die on a hill over being only ever a top til death, amen. Fine. Agree to disagree. My experience tells me that the key to a fulfilling sex life is openness and a willingness to try different things with different people. 

This week in Dallas I did a photo shoot with my favorite photographer. Should be at least a few weeks away, but y’all can look forward to some more juicy pics on my ads soon, including more cock and more ass. Plus all the regular shots that play into my “brand” (if you want to call it that). Some say I’m a guy next door. Or guy next floor (in cities). Others say I’m a wholesome hooker. Hopefully we captured it. 🤞 

I’m not sure what point you were trying to make. Your situation doesn’t really fit my original question if you advertise as top/vers. Kinda seems like you just wanted to take an opportunity to talk about yourself.
 

And for me, sex is not about power exchange, especially when I’m paying for it. Plus, I’m the one who starved and douched so my pleasure comes first. Any top worth their salt knows their main priority should be pleasuring me and giving me as many anal orgasms as possible. I’ve been spoiled by some fantastic providers and I refuse to settle for anything less

[Sub boy]

3 hours ago, SometimesBi said:

I wonder if part of the problem is that sites like RM don't allow dick pics anymore 😡  At least not the open pics. 

You can see them as long as you have a profile. You just can’t see them if you’re not logged in. You don’t even have to be a Premium Member.

[Sub boy]

2 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

I'm surprised this opinion I have hadn't been shared yet. Something quite a few "no bottom, just top" guys enjoy is being rimmed. The stimulation it can bring will get their penis in a hard state to then pound you. Showing that they have an appealing ass leads me to that belief. 

I've yet to see men who advertise as power bottoms only show dick pics. 

Valid! Especially when they include rimming in their “I am into” section. Unfortunately it still doesn’t specify whether they’re into only giving, receiving, or both. Gotta talk to the provider to sort out the ambiguity.

But it’s even more confusing when guys purposefully DON’T include rimming at all. Like this guy:

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[Tandy Newton]

On 7/9/2024 at 10:44 AM, Sub boy said:

Valid! Especially when they include rimming in their “I am into” section. Unfortunately it still doesn’t specify whether they’re into only giving, receiving, or both. Gotta talk to the provider to sort out the ambiguity.

But it’s even more confusing when guys purposefully DON’T include rimming at all. Like this guy:

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He has beautiful ass! Hairy, just the way I like it! Too bad he has a high rate though, I'm not spending on that amount of time just to smooch and frot.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

As long as we're still discussing this:

I'm all for a 100% top guy sending out pics of a great ass.  It shows he cares enough to put work into a symmetrical build.

Nothing worse than a guy who's all upper front body, aka, 'the mirror selfie' build. 

Squats, back day and calves are still a thing y'all.

[Monarchy79]

The male physique is a wonder of the world. Seeing a man with a properly proportioned body, with a nice, firm butt (regardless of his sexual position) is a great thing. 
 

 

[marylander1940]

Why not showing the butt!

Good genes, a healthy lifestyle and going to the gym!

Besides even if you can't fuck it you can still play with it

 

[ICTJOCK]

I'm not surprised.   As a provider,  I bottom more than top,  but I have photos that provide a complete look of who I am.

I like  top with a great ass.   More a complete picture.

[jeezifonly]

If you look at exercises designed to work glutes, you’ll find a lot of overlap of motion with a thrusting situation executed by someone who’s inserting. Tops who have stamina and drive often have very pretty backsides. Most are happy to show it off, even if they have limits on engagement. 

[HockeyMan]

Well this is an interesting question. I'll take it seriously.

• Artistic nude photos avoid full-frontal nudity, though it's not always the case.
• Many men don't have attractive flaccid penises. So they'll avoid full-frontal nude photos. Men with porn experience are most likely to have fully erect nude photos.
• Men want to show off their muscles. And our glutes are the second largest muscles after quadriceps.

[+ Jamie21]

In my bum pic clients can see all the goods in one picture 😂

[jeezifonly]

4 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

In my bum pic clients can see all the goods in one picture 😂

And here, gentlemen, is where science merges with art. 😛

[ReynST]

On 7/6/2024 at 11:04 AM, The Dude said:

He took down his ad 🙄

Too many people requested to top him 😂

[BuffaloKyle]

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I KNOW I HAVE GREAT ASS BUT I ONLY TOP!! Will not bottom under any circumstances

The thing is when he first started out he was a vers/bottom, then a vers/top, now just a top. Not sure why. He also had for awhile that he would only bottom for extra.

Edited November 28, 2024 by BuffaloKyle

[buckshot]

On 11/24/2024 at 1:46 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

Squats, back day and calves are still a thing y'all.

Nah, every day is arm day 😅