You nut fast? Is premature ejaculation a turn on to some bottoms?

[marylander1940]

Whether is a guy taking loads with his door open or a one-on-one hookup is cuming fast something that turns on the bottom? 

[pubic_assistance]

It's always embarrassing to the top.

[uclablueyes]

20 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

It's always embarrassing to the top.

Agree. It always feel as if you cannot satisfy the bottom. I try to make sure I time it so we both come at the same time. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

54 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Whether is a guy taking loads with his door open or a one-on-one hookup is cuming fast something that turns on the bottom? 

Last month I had the privilege of meeting with two tops on the same day.  The 45-year-old top took about 20 minutes to cum.  The 23-year-old top kept going for over an hour before he came.  I remember noting to myself that I much better enjoyed bottoming for the man who was done in 20 minutes.  So, given the alternatives of a quick cummer (less than 5 minutes) or a slow cummer (over an hour), I prefer the former.  And if there's a line of tops waiting, that's even more reason I want them to finish quickly so I can move on to the next.

When I top, I tend to last a really long time.  I know that would annoy me if I was the bottom; but, a bottom boyfriend of mind loved that I could top for a long time.

Therefore, note to tops:  Don't be embarrassed if you cum early, especially not with me 😉

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I'll say this, I can usually fuck for awhile if a bottom is up for it.

If the guy has mad hole skills, that's been known to throw that stamina out the window for me.

I'm not embarrassed when it happens.  I'm usually in awe.  

Besides, the bottom gets what he wants anyway.  Never met a bottom who's unhappy with a load in him.

Edited April 1, 2024 by BenjaminNicholas

[marylander1940]

53 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

It's always embarrassing to the top.

 

32 minutes ago, uclablueyes said:

Agree. It always feel as if you cannot satisfy the bottom. I try to make sure I time it so we both come at the same time. 

Without a doubt but believe me SOME bottoms all over my life have asked me: "Why is taking you so long?", "What's wrong with you?", "Are you close?", after just 2/3 minutes of fucking and for the record they weren't high on drugs!

16 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Last month I had the privilege of meeting with two tops on the same day.  The 45-year-old top took about 20 minutes to cum.  The 23-year-old top kept going for over an hour before he came.  I remember noting to myself that I much better enjoyed bottoming for the man who was done in 20 minutes.  So, given the alternatives of a quick cummer (less than 5 minutes) or a slow cummer (over an hour), I prefer the former.  And if there's a line of tops waiting, that's even more reason I want them to finish quickly so I can move on to the next.

When I top, I tend to last a really long time.  I know that would annoy me if I was the bottom; but, a bottom boyfriend of mind loved that I could top for a long time.

Therefore, note to tops:  Don't be embarrassed if you cum early, especially not with me 😉

Sir, you're a legend among bottoms!

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

6 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I'll say this, I can usually fuck for awhile if a bottom is up for it.

If the guy has mad hole skills, that's been known to throw that stamina out the window for me.

I'm not embarrassed when it happens.  I'm usually in awe.  

Besides, the bottom gets what he wants anyway.  Never met a bottom who's unhappy with a load in him.

Dude, your reply is so hot. 🔥 Someone get me on a plane to San Antonio right now so I can perfect my hole skills with this stud! 😍

Edited April 2, 2024 by Vegas_Millennial

[56harrisond]

Bottom here. If I went to the trouble of douching and not eating for a while before sex, then I want it to last a good amount of time. If a quick shooter happens, I'm not mad about it, but I'm not completely satisfied tbh. For me, like half the time I don't cum during sex; I'm just a hole for top's pleasure. So make it last, please.

If the bottom is taking loads with his door open, then a quick shooter would be more efficient since the bottom has more work to do.

[hungry4darkmeat]

I always carry viagra so if you bust fast im fine as long as you’re down to go again. I actually love it when guys bust fast but keep going and that second nutt takes a while 

[marylander1940]

33 minutes ago, hungry4darkmeat said:

I always carry viagra so if you bust fast im fine as long as you’re down to go again. I actually love it when guys bust fast but keep going and that second nutt takes a while 

Are you talking about hookups or hires? 

Someone you hire better control himself. 

[hungry4darkmeat]

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

Are you talking about hookups or hires? 

Someone you hire better control himself. 

I give everyone grace whenever possible. I’ve never had a pro with that problem but I’ve definitely had it with a hookup and I do offer it to pros who have taken it to ensure an extended session and I aint mad!

[uclablueyes]

12 hours ago, hungry4darkmeat said:

I give everyone grace whenever possible. I’ve never had a pro with that problem but I’ve definitely had it with a hookup and I do offer it to pros who have taken it to ensure an extended session and I aint mad!

I once meet a twenty-something escort that was starting in the biz. I was his first client ever. He was so excited that, as soon as we started fucking, he came. It wasn’t even two minutes. He was mortified but I reassured him that was normal. He was young so he was ready to go within half an hour. He was so excited to be getting paid that his excitement got the best of him. He didn’t last long in the business and left it within a few months. 

[ShortCutie7]

Sometimes when I’m getting blown, I can’t tell if I’m cumming so the guy doing the sucking ends up with a surprise load in his mouth… I do warn hookups of this and nobody has ever minded 😈

[hungry4darkmeat]

8 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

Sometimes when I’m getting blown, I can’t tell if I’m cumming so the guy doing the sucking ends up with a surprise load in his mouth… I do warn hookups of this and nobody has ever minded 😈

See that’s hot to me 

[Danny-Darko]

[SometimesBi]

On 4/1/2024 at 4:32 PM, hungry4darkmeat said:

I always carry viagra so if you bust fast im fine as long as you’re down to go again. I actually love it when guys bust fast but keep going and that second nutt takes a while 

THIS!

Though, I've yet to experience a second cum from a guy. 

In general, I tend to prefer a shorter session. I love the feeling of dick in my ass, but after several minutes, it starts to grow weary. 

Also, I'm not after size. Average feels the best to me... so I can squeeze the sphincter muscles around his shaft. If the guy is bigger, it stretches me so wide I cannot squeeze. Those times, I'm happy to have him cum in just a couple minutes. 

[+ nycman]

In general, I’m not a quick draw top. However, if a bottom is extremely hot and I have to focus on not coming too soon, it often leads to the opposite problem of me not being able to nut at all. If I’m with a dude that I just KNOW I’m going to have to keep myself from coming too soon, I let them know they have a choice. Quick nut and done or getting fucked for hours with no reward. I’m cool either way. I’d say the vote is 50:50. 

Recently, I had to "pull back" with an insanely hot Brazilian in Paris. He chose getting fucked for hours with no reward. In the end however, he just refused to give up. No man has ever worked harder for my load. And yes, it was a huge turn on watching him gently, kindly, playfully, try every trick in the book. Zero pressure, but it was clear he wasn’t going to give up. The kids was a master. I don’t think I’ve ever had a more explosive orgasm. 

Now, a bottom who cums too easily is a HUGE turn on to me. Basically, I’m in complete control from the word go. Two strokes and he’s done. I decide when that moment is. Most guys that are premature ejaculators know it and are smart enough to tell you. They all seem astounded that it turns me on. 

Just about anything can be hot, if you put your mind to it. 

[Becket]

More of a relief.

[BeamerBikes]

For me, it’s strange. Hand jobs and blow jobs will rarely cause a quick bust to the point - I’ll sometimes just take over to give the other guys hand or jaw a break.  A hot bottom though riding me, and I pop like a Champagne cork.  Not quite a two pump chump, but under 5 minutes usually for sure.  
 

I’d like to work on the skills, but also, with the right partner it shouldn’t matter.  There’s always round 2 as an option.  
 

In college, I once had a marathon top session for an hour+ .  Never to repeat that performance but also aware it was a bit annoying for us both at the end. I wanted to busy, and we both wanted to go to sleep.  

Edited July 28, 2024 by BeamerBikes

[ShortCutie7]

Oftentimes when another guy is working my cock, I’m so turned and it can be such a different sensation from when I’m masturbating that I don’t even realize I’m cumming, and it can happen pretty much immediately!  I have very minimal experience topping, but have been able to cum multiple times in a session.  In one particularly hot hookup, I’m pretty sure I came four times (in an hour).  That said, I’ve never experienced a full-body orgasm, because if I did I’d know I was cumming lol.

[Vin Marco]

I am a total top and I'd be a liar if I didn't feel very flattered when someone has an orgasm in less than a minute of me touching them...  in that sense, It's both flattering and hot. A lot of times people are exceedingly embarrassed, but I assure them that it's quite flattering and totally OK.

[+ Jamie21]

On 6/30/2024 at 4:39 PM, nycman said:

Just about anything can be hot, if you put your mind to it. 

This. This sums up my view to the work. Sex is a mind business. 

I find most bottoms are good to take it quickly, they want the load of course. Never met one who (once he was over the anxiety of taking loads) didn’t want to be bred. I find it difficult to cum in there sometimes if the bottom lacks skill so I’ll need to do some hand work to get close and then dive in so to speak. Most of the time there’s been a nice slow build up through massage and lots of erotic play which gets everyone close! 
 

 

 

[hungry4darkmeat]

On 6/30/2024 at 11:15 AM, SometimesBi said:

THIS!

Though, I've yet to experience a second cum from a guy. 

 

Kudos for knowing what you want! So if I’m looking for a longer session I don’t have them take the pill until after the first nutt. Cum in my mouth or in my hole, then pop the V and while waiting for it to kick in flood me with piss! Only had it a couple times but it makes that second, chemically extended round so wet nasty and fun!

[+ ApexNomad]

On 9/7/2024 at 6:50 PM, Vin Marco said:

I am a total top and I'd be a liar if I didn't feel very flattered when someone has an orgasm in less than a minute of me touching them...  in that sense, It's both flattering and hot. A lot of times people are exceedingly embarrassed, but I assure them that it's quite flattering and totally OK.

For me, the reverse is true too. I’m so flattered if a top finishes in minutes. Seeing his face when he cums makes me so happy. And honestly, there’s often a round two – and if not, that’s perfectly okay! One thing I hold close is never letting the other person feel embarrassed. I’ll always find a way to work with it. I’ve had times where I was so turned on that I exploded just from him teasing me with the head. There’s something incredibly powerful about having each other’s back – not literally, but figuratively – really caring for each other’s needs in the moment.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 9/8/2024 at 1:21 AM, Jamie21 said:

I find it difficult to cum in there sometimes if the bottom lacks skill...

Do tell... What advice can you give to Bottoms to make you cum in there more quickly?