erickgreynolds Posted March 27 Share Posted March 27 How do y’all handle messages asking for details? I mean I look them up and see how long they have been here and how many posts/comments/reviews they have, but still. ”Hi. How was your session with [insert masseur]?” ”He was very thorough, good technique, was willing to vary his methods based on my preferences, did not watch the clock or haggle for a tip. He left me loosened and spent.” ”So was he accommodating?” “Oh yeah, he had no trouble putting a condom on that horsecock of his before he plowed me blind.” ”So did you tip more than $40 for that?” Johnrom and BananaBagel 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted March 27 Share Posted March 27 (edited) yes, their seniority and reputation in the forum is the primary thing for me......if I know them personally and know they're trusty, the sky's the limit......if they joined a week ago last Thursday, I'm very discreet and non-committal: will only say stuff like the ol' YMMV thing, best to communicate directly, and I'll make no price mention, no chat about what may happen........some providers already have somewhat-plausible concern about the forum talking (gossiping?) so much about them........ Edited March 27 by azdr0710 Becket, + poolboy48220, + Charlie and 5 others 2 1 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viewing ownly Posted March 27 Share Posted March 27 It's unclear whether you're referring to messages publicly, like this is, a private message on here, or messages between you and an attempted encounter. One comment I see occasionally that couldn't be less helpful is "I met the guy on Grindr. I don't need to worry about donations." Gee, thanks. erickgreynolds 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted March 27 Share Posted March 27 I have received multiple DM's asking information like this from people I have never interacted with. They don't bother to introduce themselves and usually greet me, if they even do, as Hey There. + Charlie and erickgreynolds 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted March 27 Share Posted March 27 In general, I don’t answer anyone with under 100 posts. I feel kind of asinine about it, but it really isn’t worth the effort. Like @azdr0710, if I know you… the sky is a limit. kyleham, erickgreynolds, + Charlie and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erickgreynolds Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 21 hours ago, viewing ownly said: It's unclear whether you're referring to messages publicly, like this is, a private message on here, or messages between you and an attempted encounter. One comment I see occasionally that couldn't be less helpful is "I met the guy on Grindr. I don't need to worry about donations." Gee, thanks. I meant private messages but was too lazy to check whether the term here was that or direct messages - also on this site abbreviating as PMs coulda opened up a whole thing, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erickgreynolds Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 9 hours ago, Lucky said: I have received multiple DM's asking information like this from people I have never interacted with. They don't bother to introduce themselves and usually greet me, if they even do, as Hey There. Hey there. 🤣 thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erickgreynolds Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 2 hours ago, nycman said: In general, I don’t answer anyone with under 100 posts. I feel kind of asinine about it, but it really isn’t worth the effort. Like @azdr0710, if I know you… the sky is a limit. *checks how many posts I have* + WstVlgChris 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 23 hours ago, Lucky said: I have received multiple DM's asking information like this from people I have never interacted with. They don't bother to introduce themselves and usually greet me, if they even do, as Hey There. That's good to know! Thank you. I often open a conversation with 'Hi there' as a casual salutation. I didn't realize it might come across poorly - I hope you weren't one of the recipients of my opening. Uh, wait, that doesn't sound right... erickgreynolds and + Charlie 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 On 3/27/2024 at 11:16 AM, Lucky said: I have received multiple DM's asking information like this from people I have never interacted with. They don't bother to introduce themselves and usually greet me, if they even do, as Hey There. I suppose "Hey There" is better than "What's up, slut!" erickgreynolds, + nycman, Andy768 and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 8 hours ago, CuriousByNature said: That's good to know! Thank you. I often open a conversation with 'Hi there' as a casual salutation. I didn't realize it might come across poorly - I hope you weren't one of the recipients of my opening. Uh, wait, that doesn't sound right... For me, 'Hi there' is fine as an opening line to a longer message. Saying just 'Hi there' and expecting a response is what people might take issue with erickgreynolds, + APPLE1 and CuriousByNature 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted April 15 Share Posted April 15 Interesting. I’ve contacted and share. I have no reason not to. 🤷🏼♂️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesB Posted April 15 Share Posted April 15 I've received multiple requests to discuss my experiences with a provider. I'm open to sharing, as long as the request doesn't come from an account created just a few hours or days before. The level of detail I provide depends on the manner of the request and the engagement of the account within the broader forum. If I encounter a question that makes me uneasy, I'll simply choose to ignore it and refrain from responding. pubic_assistance, MikeBiDude, + nycman and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted April 15 Share Posted April 15 I don't mind sharing certain information via direct message, but yeah...be a gentleman and introduce yourself first. thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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