Once-in-a-lifetime hookups?

[Nodalguy]

Have you ever met up with a guy and realized during it or shortly afterward, "Damn, this is literally a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I will never meet someone so _____ again"?

I was in another thread where I alluded a bit ago to an event that happened to me and made me think of this topic. I have a few experiences that begin to approach once-in-a-lifetime, but for me there is one clear guy in my mind who never be beaten.

I was in South Carolina for work and browsing Grindr in my hotel room at night, and I made contact with this barely-legal bi-curious guy. He wouldn't send a facepic, but the photos he did send showed he had a great body. He came over to my hotel room that night, and I just couldn't believe it. Pretty deep voice given his age, dark blond hair, really handsome face, flawless smooth tanned skin, very masculine and muscular (without being too muscular) and really lean. He had a thick, meaty cock and big balls and a really cute but beefy butt. I spent the first ninety minutes literally just massaging, rimming, sucking, and generally worshipping every millimeter of his body.

I am confident it will never happen to me again. I think I've had more actually fun sexual things happen (obviously I didn't party with the blond stud, and he wasn't experienced or very adventuresome), but I am speaking just in physical terms.

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, Nodalguy said:

I made contact with this barely-legal bi-curious guy.

Thanks for further supporting my claim that bi guys are better in bed. 🥳

[maninsoma]

Not a hook-up (well, we first met in a bar and went home together), but nearly four decades ago before I moved to San Francisco I met a guy about two months before I was scheduled to leave.  I told him the second weekend we spent together that I was moving across the U.S. soon and he cut off all contact with me.  Prior to that, things were very hot and heavy.  I've occasionally wondered what would have happened had I changed my plans and stayed there.  Would it have worked out between us, or would it have fizzled soon anyway?  All I know is that he remains one of the hottest guys I ever had sex with who wasn't an escort (I was a fairly skinny mid-20s guy at the time and he was a very slightly older, well built jock type).  He seemed really into me and I reciprocated those feelings.  That hasn't happened for me many times in my life.

[Nodalguy]

2 hours ago, maninsoma said:

Not a hook-up (well, we first met in a bar and went home together), but nearly four decades ago before I moved to San Francisco I met a guy about two months before I was scheduled to leave.  I told him the second weekend we spent together that I was moving across the U.S. soon and he cut off all contact with me.  Prior to that, things were very hot and heavy.  I've occasionally wondered what would have happened had I changed my plans and stayed there.  Would it have worked out between us, or would it have fizzled soon anyway?  All I know is that he remains one of the hottest guys I ever had sex with who wasn't an escort (I was a fairly skinny mid-20s guy at the time and he was a very slightly older, well built jock type).  He seemed really into me and I reciprocated those feelings.  That hasn't happened for me many times in my life.

There haven't been many people who honestly loved me, outside of blood relatives. But with one of those few, I had a similar thing come up. We had been boyfriends for a while when I ended up moving to a different state (and he ended up moving away as well shortly after me, although it's not clear to me whether he might have stayed if I had). I sometimes wonder about what would have happened if I had not moved and we remained together. I can tell you my life would have been very different. That is the only certain thing in my mind.

[Nodalguy]

I just remembered one nice detail. At the end he told me that it's true, guys do do it better 🥰. I was a little proud, but then honestly how many different girls or women could a teenage high school boy possibly have been with? Not to mention who the competition themselves are.

[+ JEC]

My husband and I were walking home after the clubs one night, and decided to walk past an area guys were known to cruise; we were in our late 20's/early 30's then.  A very cute muscular guy walked past us and into an alleyway giving us "the look".  "Tony" (his real name) was a muscular, compact, italian-american god.  We followed him into the alley started making out.  After a few minutes pulled his cock out of his pants, this boy was hung 10", his cock had a beautiful slight upward curve to it....and he had HUGE balls: I'm talking legit XL egg-sized balls.  After a few minutes of play others were trying to get into our tryst; we wanted Tony all to us so we decided to head back to our apartment a few blocks away.  Tony it turns out is quite piggy in the bedroom, and despite his huge fuck tool was ALL BOTTOM.  We played for probably 2+ hours, in every possible position.....especially ones where we could suck on his huge cock and balls.  He was insatiable.  That was 30 years ago, and there has not been one as good since.  We saw him once or twice after that, and each time was just as hot.  Even now, from time to time, one of us will say "remember Tony" and roll our eyes back into our head.....as if....Tony was the pinnacle.

Edited September 10, 2023 by JEC
added detail

[Rudynate]

On 9/7/2023 at 4:26 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Thanks for further supporting my claim that bi guys are better in bed. 🥳

That is a HUGE generalization.  I happen to have a thing for Bi and DL guys, but that is more about me than about them.  In my mind, their appeal is that they are slightly exotic, but sex with them is no different than with gay guys - some great, some not so great.    It is true that DL guys traveling on business with wives at home are extra hungry.

[pubic_assistance]

20 hours ago, Rudynate said:

That is a HUGE generalization

Really ?

How shocking. 

🙄

[GTMike]

On 9/7/2023 at 2:19 PM, Nodalguy said:

Have you ever met up with a guy and realized during it or shortly afterward, "Damn, this is literally a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I will never meet someone so _____ again"?

I was in another thread where I alluded a bit ago to an event that happened to me and made me think of this topic. I have a few experiences that begin to approach once-in-a-lifetime, but for me there is one clear guy in my mind who never be beaten.

I was in South Carolina for work and browsing Grindr in my hotel room at night, and I made contact with this barely-legal bi-curious guy. He wouldn't send a facepic, but the photos he did send showed he had a great body. He came over to my hotel room that night, and I just couldn't believe it. Pretty deep voice given his age, dark blond hair, really handsome face, flawless smooth tanned skin, very masculine and muscular (without being too muscular) and really lean. He had a thick, meaty cock and big balls and a really cute but beefy butt. I spent the first ninety minutes literally just massaging, rimming, sucking, and generally worshipping every millimeter of his body.

I am confident it will never happen to me again. I think I've had more actually fun sexual things happen (obviously I didn't party with the blond stud, and he wasn't experienced or very adventuresome), but I am speaking just in physical terms.

I had one this summer that I'm praying to any deity or spiritual entity listening, that it won't be just that one time!!   (Admittedly the initial intro/connection was through SA) yet all we did was chit-chat about generic stuff without any specifics related to SA type situations. So not sure if this counts as a hook-up?

He's finishing College far away this year but grew up ~hour away and we randomly discovered we were close by each other one random evening.

He was out with a "girlfriend"( legit long-legged hot model beach blonde) though insisted I meet them out with the flimsyiest of cover stories i'd ever heard of.

He's literally the prototypical great looking 21/22 year old uber athlete hot jock college frat bro.  Early on after meeting, when we had a brief private moment he tells me he want's to fool around.

I'm so skeptical to the point that i literally laughed out loud.

We all legit have a blast time out at dinner and bar hopping but the entire time I'm thinking i get it, they'll just fleece me for dinner and drinks and ditch me later. That's the hustle. So I'm going with the flow but totally resigned to that fate.

We do all end up organically splitting up in the mayhem of bar hopping.

As Bar's are closing I run into him. Says he's annoyed that hours earlier I didn't take him seriously about hooking up.

I'm literall confused af.

Then i think oh i get it, i busted him as he thought i had already left and he needs to update his "ditching" excuse.

Turns out after more drunken clumsy misunderstandings we end up in my bed blissfully fooling around the rest of the night way past sunrise. In fact he introduced me to awesome things I've never done prior or after.

Next morning as he's leaving I awkwardly have to brooch the subject that since we met over SA yet never discussed anything specific what were his expectations?

He looks at me and says, "what are you talking about?" 

I'm like wtf!!

Given being on summer break from school and college student I did feel completely obligated yet happy to donate for his books. He never looks at what i gave him and asks me repeatedly am I sure and he didn't expect anything and am i ok with it.

He never once looks at what i gave him and as he's leaving he never looks back but says "That was great, i had a blast, text me sometime" and 2 weeks later goes back to school for Senior year.

I'm way more excited for him to graduate college than i was for myself 3 to 4 decades ago! 

[maninsoma]

12 hours ago, GTMike said:

I had one this summer that I'm praying to any deity or spiritual entity listening, that it won't be just that one time!!   (Admittedly the initial intro/connection was through SA) yet all we did was chit-chat about generic stuff without any specifics related to SA type situations. So not sure if this counts as a hook-up?

He's finishing College far away this year but grew up ~hour away and we randomly discovered we were close by each other one random evening.

He was out with a "girlfriend"( legit long-legged hot model beach blonde) though insisted I meet them out with the flimsyiest of cover stories i'd ever heard of.

He's literally the prototypical great looking 21/22 year old uber athlete hot jock college frat bro.  Early on after meeting, when we had a brief private moment he tells me he want's to fool around.

I'm so skeptical to the point that i literally laughed out loud.

We all legit have a blast time out at dinner and bar hopping but the entire time I'm thinking i get it, they'll just fleece me for dinner and drinks and ditch me later. That's the hustle. So I'm going with the flow but totally resigned to that fate.

We do all end up organically splitting up in the mayhem of bar hopping.

As Bar's are closing I run into him. Says he's annoyed that hours earlier I didn't take him seriously about hooking up.

I'm literall confused af.

Then i think oh i get it, i busted him as he thought i had already left and he needs to update his "ditching" excuse.

Turns out after more drunken clumsy misunderstandings we end up in my bed blissfully fooling around the rest of the night way past sunrise. In fact he introduced me to awesome things I've never done prior or after.

Next morning as he's leaving I awkwardly have to brooch the subject that since we met over SA yet never discussed anything specific what were his expectations?

He looks at me and says, "what are you talking about?" 

I'm like wtf!!

Given being on summer break from school and college student I did feel completely obligated yet happy to donate for his books. He never looks at what i gave him and asks me repeatedly am I sure and he didn't expect anything and am i ok with it.

He never once looks at what i gave him and as he's leaving he never looks back but says "That was great, i had a blast, text me sometime" and 2 weeks later goes back to school for Senior year.

I'm way more excited for him to graduate college than i was for myself 3 to 4 decades ago! 

I'm way more confused by your reactions in this story.  From your account, this mega hottie keeps giving you evidence that he's into you but instead you doubt him at first, then give him money as he's leaving even though he says he isn't expecting it, and then let two weeks go by before he leaves town without texting him even though he said "that was great, I had a blast, text me sometime."  I understand the initial skepticism on your part, but I 100% don't understand why you wouldn't have gotten together with him over the next two weeks.  Or did you reach out to him to ask to get together again and that didn't happen, but you just didn't include that detail in your story?

[GTMike]

14 hours ago, maninsoma said:

I'm way more confused by your reactions in this story.  From your account, this mega hottie keeps giving you evidence that he's into you but instead you doubt him at first, then give him money as he's leaving even though he says he isn't expecting it, and then let two weeks go by before he leaves town without texting him even though he said "that was great, I had a blast, text me sometime."  I understand the initial skepticism on your part, but I 100% don't understand why you wouldn't have gotten together with him over the next two weeks.  Or did you reach out to him to ask to get together again and that didn't happen, but you just didn't include that detail in your story?

Fair questions. I'll try and provide more context.

1) In the interests of respecting respective privacy and length of the original post, I know plenty of contextual details were left out but tried to convey the story as best as I could.

2) For the first ~3 hours it was never clear what their current personal relationship status was other than that they had grown up together (as early as elementary school age) and that they had been hangin out all day at a beach and impromptu on a whim decided to "go out in LA" ( ~ hour drive) and she had driven them.

3) He had privately relayed that his only prior encounter with a dude was an unexpected drunken night after a long week of Football practice with a High School teammate when he was 17.

4) His solution to my skepticism regarding the logistics of hooking up privately, without her knowing, was simply that if she wasn't sober to drive home, that she would have no problem sleeping on my couch/extra bedroom and they'd uber back to car in morning. (Mind you we've only met for a few hours at this point and he has no idea how my place is and whether that could make sense from a privacy perspective and never probed that). 

5) I reconfirmed that she wasn't supposed to know that anything was happening and he maintained it simply wasn't really in her nature to ask any questions. (Huh??)  So for several hours my perspective was without his knowledge of my place, it was a ridiculous proposition and solution, and that besides conveying early interest and attraction, the overall situation was illogical. (Hence my comment that i came to the conclusion that it was a hustle to flirt and just get dinner, multiple drinks/party all night, then collectively ditch)

6) Regarding "texting" afterwards. He uses "text" and "snap" interchangeably. We Snap which has advantages/disadvantages versus texting in some cases. In this case based on our friend status with the App we can see status of messages "sent, delivered, opened/read, and conversely received". I did reach out to chat/meet up etc again.. and can verify those messages were delivered, but have never been opened. And yes i have confirmed that we are still "active friends" in good standing but there hasn't been any further direct communication.

7) Regarding knowing when he went back to School, he told me where he attends and had been open providing social media, which as friends, publicly and easily verify's everything he's said regarding school, athletics, fraternity life etc..

And fyi before he came over, I learned she felt she got too inebriated and ubered to a friends place who lived closer and was gonna get car in morning.

Edited September 24, 2023 by GTMike
Grammar correction

[+ EVdude]

21 hours ago, GTMike said:

Admittedly the initial intro/connection was through SA

SA? 

[MikeBiDude]

46 minutes ago, EVdude said:

SA? 

Seeking Arrangements would be my best guess.

[GTMike]

1 hour ago, MikeBiDude said:

Seeking Arrangements would be my best guess.

Yes that's correct.

[Marc in Calif]

On 9/23/2023 at 3:00 PM, MikeBiDude said:

Seeking Arrangements would be my best guess.

After originally being called "Seeking Arrangement" for many years, it's now called merely "Seeking." 

www.seeking.com

 

[MikeBiDude]

23 minutes ago, Marc in Calif said:

After originally being called "Seeking Arrangement" for many years, it's now called merely "Seeking." 

www.seeking.com

Yes of course thanks...I'm there just about every day! 

[Marc in Calif]

4 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

Yes of course thanks...I'm there just about every day! 

Wanna be my houseboy? 😇

[DaddyMike]

I was in HS. I had this great history teacher. He invited me to Washington DC for a POW march in DC. The bus was full of Vietnam Vets. Once in the Hotell room we were drinking out of the minibar we talked about sex, girls experimenting with guys, once I reluctantly admitted I had been fucked and sucked by a man, he had his 8'' cock out and was encouraging me to suck. As I worshiped his uncut cock he was saying he wished he had me younger. It was so dirty, he made me admit to being a boy slut. Mr. M. . He filled me with over 10 loads over the weekend. I got an A+. My father was so proud of his boy when I got home.