Do you prefer your sensual/erotic massage to include kissing?

[Newtdad]

Or do masseurs typically say no to this?

[pubic_assistance]

Under no circumstances would I even consider making out with a masseur.

I go for a massage. Happy ending is nice if available ...but I would need to have some sort of romantic connection with someone before I felt the desire to kiss them.

I suppose escorts offer BFE experience.

I've never had a masseur try and kiss me

( Lick my ass ..yes ) 🤣

[Sixpack]

Does licking the lollipop count

[OCDallas]

I don’t like it. If a masseur goes in for the kiss I usually don’t return.

[Sixpack]

Just now, OCDallas said:

I don’t like it. If a masseur goes in for the kiss I usually don’t return.

What about a sucking

[OCDallas]

1 minute ago, Sixpack said:

What about a sucking

A sucking? Sure lol

kissing is more intimate in my opinion.

 

edit: I will say though that I prefer a massage first and foremost and if the masseur starts pushing more erotic/intimate movements on me within 10-15 mins I usually just cum, leave, and don’t return. It separates the men from the boys in terms of a proper massage service. Keep me on the edge of the table for 55 minutes then make me cum. Don’t turn it into an escort session.

Edited February 20, 2023 by OCDallas

[Monarchy79]

I think that Kissing (in any situation) is extremely YMMV….

So many factors involved, extending far beyond general attraction… specifically dental health and oral hygiene. 

A lot of guys simply don’t brush, floss and rinse enough… you’d never notice until you get close enough to kiss them. 
 

 

[JayinHKNYC]

What chapter is this here?

[+ bashful]

Not anything I'd ever expect. 

However, one masseur I met previously, we had a brief (no french) make out session when I arrived, and when saying good-bye.  Then the pandemic, so I haven't been able to see him since.  

[allyouknow]

" a dad wants to know" - an expose on the massage industry this month in Vanity Fair. 

"when asked, gay men preferred no kissing during a massage, but a "handy' is ok, what gives?" 

coming up in the next issue of Vanity Fair. 

[Newtdad]

4 hours ago, bashful said:

Not anything I'd ever expect. 

However, one masseur I met previously, we had a brief (no french) make out session when I arrived, and when saying good-bye.  Then the pandemic, so I haven't been able to see him since.  

Well, since pandemic's been lifted, maybe it's time to reconnect. 😉

[Becket]

Had one massage where the guy leaned down and kissed me.  Said I had "really good energy."  Made me feel good.  Alas, he, like all my favorites, has retired.

[+ Jamie21]

Most clients don’t seem to want to kiss. It’s very intimate and wouldn’t be part of 90% of the massage.

I think for the majority of my clients they’re looking for a great massage that slowly builds up the sexual tension. If you do that right then some clients can be so turned on by the end that they do want to kiss.

If I think he’s looking to kiss I will work my way up his torso kissing the nipples, neck, and then ear before whispering “do you like to kiss?”. That usually results in him turning his head to kiss or turning away if not. He’s in control that way. 

[+ Italiano]

Well of course it is not something I expect when I hire a masseur for a sensual/erotic massage. But yes it has happened a few times during the massage  that I realized that the masseur and myself were into each other and from a massage we have transitioned to a full "escort" experience, kissing (to me essential when having sex), fucking, sucking, licking included. 

I can't say I did not enjoyed those times.

[+ robear]

Love it the few times it has happened, but certainly don't expect it and wouldn't ask for it.  Def the masseurs call.

[rhh33]

11 hours ago, newdad said:

Or do masseurs typically say no to this?

If into him, yes

[+ newatthis]

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Most clients don’t seem to want to kiss. It’s very intimate and wouldn’t be part of 90% of the massage.

I think for the majority of my clients they’re looking for a great massage that slowly builds up the sexual tension. If you do that right then some clients can be so turned on by the end that they do want to kiss.

Pretty much describes me...although not because it's "very intimate"...somehow the progression of a massage, no matter how erotic it gets,  doesn't seem to lend itself to kissing.  In the back of my mind, kissing is what happens at the beginning as you lead into other things, while massage leads you there in a different way.

Kissing at the end of an intense session, especially if both of us have climaxed, seems natural, however.

[pubic_assistance]

I know women like a lot of intimacy in their sex life. 

But, as a man, I actually prefer an occasional sexual encounter without the emotional complications of intimacy. 

A provider is a hire, not a boyfriend. 

A masseur is a masseur, not an escort 

So the introduction of making-out during a massage with a provider would feel extremely awkward for me.

 

[sense]

Great topic -- thanks.  I'm one who really values kissing at the right points in a great session.  I do NOT look for an escort, don't want or expect penetration or sex.  But I love the intensity of a really sensual and erotic session, and for me that brings on the kiss.  Certainly I can't require it of a provider, but I want to find a guy who is open to following our energy that way as it develops.  I'm upfront at the start about loving that if it works for us both, and often it does.  

[Redwine56]

16 hours ago, Sixpack said:

What about a sucking

Now you've made me an offer, I can't refuse! 😜

[+ sf westcoaster]

When I hire a provider I state that kissing is a must, however when booking  a massage I have never mentioned kissing, but have on multiple occasions had sessions that have included kissing.

[NativeNewYorkGuy]

It doesn't happen very often, but when it does, it's usually because the sensual/erotic component of the massage has progressed to a level of intimacy and trust that only chemistry can bring both parties to. And when it does, it's pretty special.

[JSRCWY]

Absolutely!

[dfwmassagelover]

don't expect it, but it can be a nice surprise.

[+ bashful]

17 hours ago, newdad said:

Well, since pandemic's been lifted, maybe it's time to reconnect. 😉

Just waiting for his return to town.