Westsideguy Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 I would never initiate kissing during a massage. But, fortunately, recently, it’s been happening a lot. thomas, Cliff, Tactile Daddy and 5 others 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonedoc Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 Never! It grosses me out to even consider it. I am there for a massage. kyleham and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lohengrin1979 Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 It's happened a couple of times and, both times, it knocked me out of relaxation mode. I found it so out of character for a massage setting it was almost jarring. More power to those that like it but kissing during a massage does not work for what I'm trying to accomplish in a session. pubic_assistance and kyleham 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ The Big Guy Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 The only time it happened to me was during the happy ending. I happened very naturally and yes I liked it. Tactile Daddy, Marc in Calif, Dallas Jayson and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 For me, it depends on the provider and the situation. It can be really hot, or it can be awkward. newdad, kyleham and + glennnnn 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted February 21, 2023 Author Share Posted February 21, 2023 10 hours ago, Westsideguy said: I would never initiate kissing during a massage. But, fortunately, recently, it’s been happening a lot. you must be kissable then. 🤭 Redwine56 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixpack Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 If it is a regular masseur I like to start with a big hug and a quick kiss but nothing intimate. It kind of breaks the ice and has at times then led to an erotic slow dance. musclestuduws, kyleham and newdad 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 As the customer. No. I do not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karch Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 I do not expect it, but a few times I have encountered it, and I enjoyed it a great deal. I have never initiated it, but when offered, I have responded enthusiastically. I find that it is especially enjoyable while receiving a two fingered prostate massage. newdad, + sf westcoaster, Redwine56 and 6 others 4 1 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LOLO Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 I've experienced it not infrequently and have almost always enjoyed it Karch, Medin and rhh33 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JSchorr Posted February 24, 2023 Share Posted February 24, 2023 I love kissing but never expect it during a massage. I’d say it happens half the time or less. Usually at the end, the masseur may climb on top of my body and cuddle .. and might kiss/nibble an ear and I respond with kissing his neck, ear, or cheek. Sometimes it ends there, sometimes not. pubic_assistance, Tactile Daddy, Gramercy smiles and 4 others 2 1 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kyleham Posted February 24, 2023 Share Posted February 24, 2023 It's happened to me a couple of times. A peck on the cheek or neck. On the lips is a little too forward for a massage newdad and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PecLuvr Posted February 24, 2023 Share Posted February 24, 2023 To me, a massage with lots of body on body contact, with kissing, would be an ideal experience. Am not usually interested in any kind of penetration, but kissing and body contact, plus the massage elements, pushes me over the edge.... Medin, thomas, rhh33 and 7 others 6 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 If kissing is important to you, be sure to ask your provider if kissing is ok, ideally beforehand or otherwise in the session. When the answer is no, please respect that and try not take it personally. It’s always a bit awkward to the provider for a client to initiate a kiss on the table and not have consented to it. Some providers kiss, some do not. Some providers do for a higher fee, perhaps with other offerings. The last time you want to discuss fees is in the middle of the session when you’re trying to relax and enjoy your time. newdad, Karch, Tactile Daddy and 3 others 3 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PittGuy Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 This is all about preferences, not for everyone I’m sure. With me it’s about chemistry with the provider. If there is a connection, and things start to get hot and heavy towards the end of the session, I’ll move in for the kiss or sometimes I’ll ask in a hushed whisper “can I kiss you?”. Granted it’s not a given by any means, but I can usually tell if it’s going in that direction and as such it’s usually reciprocated. It’s not something I would pay extra for, it has to happen organically and mutually, and when it does it really heightens my enjoyment! Just my opinion based on my personal experience, as with everything ymmv. Karch, newdad and pubic_assistance 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glennnnn Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 (edited) As a novice in erotic massage protocols, I don't have an answer yet, but hope to find out. I do appreciate the the OP for posing the question and the various responders for sharing their thoughts and experience. I have an appointment for a 90 min. Erotic massage this week. My #1 besides the massage is his cock in my mouth, but I'll enjoy whatever. Wish me luck. Edited February 26, 2023 by glennnnn TorontoDrew, Redwine56, Karch and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted February 26, 2023 Author Share Posted February 26, 2023 3 hours ago, glennnnn said: Wish me luck. You got this! Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karch Posted February 27, 2023 Share Posted February 27, 2023 With a masseur, I do not expect or request kissing. I accept it as a treat and tip accordingly. For other providers, not kissing is a dealbreaker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted February 27, 2023 Share Posted February 27, 2023 I've never asked a masseur for a kiss, but I wouldn't turn one away either. Karch, + WestGuy, Cruiser7 and 2 others 1 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cruiser7 Posted February 27, 2023 Share Posted February 27, 2023 I’m not too big into kissing either way, so it doesn’t matter much to me. I have had a kiss that was organic with a then-long term provider, but that’s about it. As others said, either way, it’s not a make or break with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gramercy smiles Posted February 28, 2023 Share Posted February 28, 2023 I do enjoy a kiss if it feels natural! Totally up to the provider however. Karch and Marc in Calif 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 28, 2023 Share Posted February 28, 2023 (edited) Do all you guys looking for a make-out session shop on escorts sites ? Because I've never seen a massage site list BFE as an option . Edited February 28, 2023 by pubic_assistance spelling newdad and Marc in Calif 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ robear Posted February 28, 2023 Share Posted February 28, 2023 17 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Because I've never seen an escort site list BFE as an option . Every listing I've seen on RentMen has included "Boyfriend Experience" under "Rentmen Services." What that MEANS may vary with the provider (and the client), but the catchphrase is very frequently used. newdad and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 28, 2023 Share Posted February 28, 2023 33 minutes ago, robear said: Every listing I've seen on RentMen has included "Boyfriend Experience" under "Rentmen Services." What that MEANS may vary with the provider (and the client), but the catchphrase is very frequently used. Sorry...I meant to type MASSAGE site. Marc in Calif and newdad 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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