newdad Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Or do masseurs typically say no to this? Marc in Calif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Under no circumstances would I even consider making out with a masseur. I go for a massage. Happy ending is nice if available ...but I would need to have some sort of romantic connection with someone before I felt the desire to kiss them. I suppose escorts offer BFE experience. I've never had a masseur try and kiss me ( Lick my ass ..yes ) 🤣 newdad, + azdr0710, + ButchAtl and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixpack Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Does licking the lollipop count TorontoDrew, musclestuduws, HAL_9000 and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OCDallas Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 I don’t like it. If a masseur goes in for the kiss I usually don’t return. pubic_assistance, newdad and musclestuduws 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixpack Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Just now, OCDallas said: I don’t like it. If a masseur goes in for the kiss I usually don’t return. What about a sucking newdad, musclestuduws and Tactile Daddy 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OCDallas Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 (edited) 1 minute ago, Sixpack said: What about a sucking A sucking? Sure lol kissing is more intimate in my opinion. edit: I will say though that I prefer a massage first and foremost and if the masseur starts pushing more erotic/intimate movements on me within 10-15 mins I usually just cum, leave, and don’t return. It separates the men from the boys in terms of a proper massage service. Keep me on the edge of the table for 55 minutes then make me cum. Don’t turn it into an escort session. Edited February 20, 2023 by OCDallas Dr.Daddy, bichiguy, pubic_assistance and 8 others 3 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 I think that Kissing (in any situation) is extremely YMMV…. So many factors involved, extending far beyond general attraction… specifically dental health and oral hygiene. A lot of guys simply don’t brush, floss and rinse enough… you’d never notice until you get close enough to kiss them. rhh33 and newdad 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JayinHKNYC Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 What chapter is this here? Marc in Calif, dcguy20, allyouknow and 4 others 1 1 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bashful Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Not anything I'd ever expect. However, one masseur I met previously, we had a brief (no french) make out session when I arrived, and when saying good-bye. Then the pandemic, so I haven't been able to see him since. + Vegas_Millennial, newdad and pubic_assistance 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allyouknow Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 " a dad wants to know" - an expose on the massage industry this month in Vanity Fair. "when asked, gay men preferred no kissing during a massage, but a "handy' is ok, what gives?" coming up in the next issue of Vanity Fair. Dr.Daddy, Bluefin, Tactile Daddy and 8 others 2 1 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted February 20, 2023 Author Share Posted February 20, 2023 4 hours ago, bashful said: Not anything I'd ever expect. However, one masseur I met previously, we had a brief (no french) make out session when I arrived, and when saying good-bye. Then the pandemic, so I haven't been able to see him since. Well, since pandemic's been lifted, maybe it's time to reconnect. 😉 + bashful and Tactile Daddy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Becket Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Had one massage where the guy leaned down and kissed me. Said I had "really good energy." Made me feel good. Alas, he, like all my favorites, has retired. + Just Sayin, Medin, + robear and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Most clients don’t seem to want to kiss. It’s very intimate and wouldn’t be part of 90% of the massage. I think for the majority of my clients they’re looking for a great massage that slowly builds up the sexual tension. If you do that right then some clients can be so turned on by the end that they do want to kiss. If I think he’s looking to kiss I will work my way up his torso kissing the nipples, neck, and then ear before whispering “do you like to kiss?”. That usually results in him turning his head to kiss or turning away if not. He’s in control that way. newdad, Cruiser7, Njguy2 and 10 others 12 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Italiano Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Well of course it is not something I expect when I hire a masseur for a sensual/erotic massage. But yes it has happened a few times during the massage that I realized that the masseur and myself were into each other and from a massage we have transitioned to a full "escort" experience, kissing (to me essential when having sex), fucking, sucking, licking included. I can't say I did not enjoyed those times. musclestuduws, + robear, + bashful and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ robear Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Love it the few times it has happened, but certainly don't expect it and wouldn't ask for it. Def the masseurs call. musclestuduws, + Just Sayin, newdad and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhh33 Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 11 hours ago, newdad said: Or do masseurs typically say no to this? If into him, yes newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ newatthis Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 5 hours ago, Jamie21 said: Most clients don’t seem to want to kiss. It’s very intimate and wouldn’t be part of 90% of the massage. I think for the majority of my clients they’re looking for a great massage that slowly builds up the sexual tension. If you do that right then some clients can be so turned on by the end that they do want to kiss. Pretty much describes me...although not because it's "very intimate"...somehow the progression of a massage, no matter how erotic it gets, doesn't seem to lend itself to kissing. In the back of my mind, kissing is what happens at the beginning as you lead into other things, while massage leads you there in a different way. Kissing at the end of an intense session, especially if both of us have climaxed, seems natural, however. musclestuduws, newdad, + Just Sayin and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 I know women like a lot of intimacy in their sex life. But, as a man, I actually prefer an occasional sexual encounter without the emotional complications of intimacy. A provider is a hire, not a boyfriend. A masseur is a masseur, not an escort So the introduction of making-out during a massage with a provider would feel extremely awkward for me. OCDallas, dcguy20, + Italiano and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sense Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Great topic -- thanks. I'm one who really values kissing at the right points in a great session. I do NOT look for an escort, don't want or expect penetration or sex. But I love the intensity of a really sensual and erotic session, and for me that brings on the kiss. Certainly I can't require it of a provider, but I want to find a guy who is open to following our energy that way as it develops. I'm upfront at the start about loving that if it works for us both, and often it does. Tactile Daddy, newdad, thomas and 6 others 4 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwine56 Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 16 hours ago, Sixpack said: What about a sucking Now you've made me an offer, I can't refuse! 😜 musclestuduws 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sf westcoaster Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 When I hire a provider I state that kissing is a must, however when booking a massage I have never mentioned kissing, but have on multiple occasions had sessions that have included kissing. + robear, Tactile Daddy, musclestuduws and 4 others 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NativeNewYorkGuy Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 It doesn't happen very often, but when it does, it's usually because the sensual/erotic component of the massage has progressed to a level of intimacy and trust that only chemistry can bring both parties to. And when it does, it's pretty special. + Italiano, newdad, + EVdude and 3 others 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JSRCWY Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 Absolutely! newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dfwmassagelover Posted February 20, 2023 Share Posted February 20, 2023 don't expect it, but it can be a nice surprise. dbar123, newdad, + robear and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bashful Posted February 21, 2023 Share Posted February 21, 2023 17 hours ago, newdad said: Well, since pandemic's been lifted, maybe it's time to reconnect. 😉 Just waiting for his return to town. newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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