Deceased Escorts

[Andie40]

Have you ever hired an escort and then found out within a short time ( less than 5 years) that they’ve passed away? I experienced this with Sean Cody model Noah Storm. I met him in Phoenix in 2014 and he was one of the most beautiful men I’ve ever hired. He was so good looking that I didn’t know what to do with him. lol I think I spent a good 10 minutes simply staring at due to sensory overload. Attached are a few pictures of him. I hired him when I was 24 and have no regrets.

I found out 5 years later that he passed away. It just felt so weird to me to know that he’s gone at such a young age. I’m not quite sure how he died. 

Has anyone experienced anything similar? If so, did it feel strange?

 

 

Moderator Note:  Nude pictures have been removed from this post.  

 

[+ Pensant]

I hosted Caleb several times and we always had a hot time. Sadly, he committed suicide. Thinking back, I did recall some deeper level of sadness at times when we caught up by phone. 
https://pornstarbabylon.wordpress.com/2009/03/08/24-year-old-gay-porn-star-caleb-carter-commits-suicide/

[+ poolboy48220]

back in the late 90's I met with a masseur and later just for play time, I got an email a while later that he'd died.  someone must've bulk emailed his contacts.

[Kevin Slater]

Escorts never die, they just let you know their time is up.

Kevin Slater

[crushme99]

6 hours ago, Westsideguy said:

https://www.google.com/search?q=rob+sager+nude&client=safari&hl=en-us&prmd=ivnx&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwixlsLuwuD1AhUdIUQIHfDaBBsQ_AUoAXoECAIQAQ&biw=820&bih=1073&dpr=2#imgrc=hQMw-cbmxU63UM
 

he died 2 days after we met. Such a nice guy. 

I came close to having a meet with Rob.  We had been negotiating a date (by email if I recall correctly) but the date that worked for me was the same as a big college football game which he said was a long tradition of his family attending together.  The fact that family took priority over an appointment impressed me.  It's wonderful that you had time with him.  I think he would have been remarkable to be with and to get to know, if even just a little bit.  Thanks for sharing your recollection, Westsideguy.

[dutchal]

We could put together a long list of gay escorts who died well before their time, some from drugs, some from suicide, even at least one from murder.  Might even already be one somewhere here in this forum. 

[Guest MikeThomas]

Depressing topic

[caliguy]

Makes sense. Escorting has a way higher rate of drug addiction and mental illness then society in general. Just like porn. 

I don't think it causes it but that's just where they seem to end up. 

[Guest Looking4MuscleInSD]

That seems to be true from my experience. The majority of guys I’ve hired had one or more of the following issues:

• Addiction issues
• Psychological issues (bi-polar, depression, pedophilia)
• Financial problems
• Criminal backgrounds (including prison time)

[+ Lucky]

2 hours ago, Looking4MuscleInSD said:

That seems to be true from my experience. The majority of guys I’ve hired had one or more of the following issues:

• Addiction issues
• Psychological issues (bi-polar, depression, pedophilia)
• Financial problems
• Criminal backgrounds (including prison time)

Yet you still hire them?

[robberbaron4u]

Dying and death are part and parcel of the contract of life, and, The Maker always insists upon performance. I am not "religious", if you will, but my nightly prayer is for those who have gone before me; I keep a small book in which I memorialize the names of deceased family members, friends, benefactors, those who have shown my some small kindness in life lest I forgot; two pages, sadly, are now devoted too young men who were "escorts"; the business is, as a matter of fact, neither "easy" nor glamorous in the long run, and, n my opinion, "Lucky" has summed up,correctly, the issues which they faced in life.

[Guest Looking4MuscleInSD]

1 hour ago, Lucky said:

Yet you still hire them?

No, not anymore. Not for two years now. There are a couple I recommend to other people because they were exceptions.

[uclablueyes]

I met Jay Dymel a couple of times in West Hollywood. He was a veteran and one of the sexiest and more sexually charged people I have met. I was taken aback when I heard of his passing. He was so young. 
 

https://meaws.com/blogs/gay-porn-performer-jay-dymel-dies-at-just-27-years-old/amp/

[MikeBiDude]

From my way back machine, say 80-90’s….I discovered long after hiring two different individual  young men that they had passed. One by his own hand, and one apparently drowned in his own bathtub from a drug induced passing out. 

While there was no vector/connection to my hiring them and their deaths…it disturbed me. 

I’m cautious to avoid anyone who might have addiction, or mental health issues. But frankly, I’m not sure how any of us could be sure? I know (whether this is fair or not) that I have avoided some providers after during the first visit they indicated they may be on some sort of medication to control their mental health.

 

[FunGuyUS]

23 minutes ago, uclablueyes said:

I met Jay Dymel a couple of times in West Hollywood. He was a veteran and one of the sexiest and more sexually charged people I have met. I was taken aback when I heard of his passing. He was so young. 
 

https://meaws.com/blogs/gay-porn-performer-jay-dymel-dies-at-just-27-years-old/amp/

Same for me - I have seen his ex RyanStone - but some time ago

[+ DrownedBoy]

For the broad picture: gay men in general have higher rates of addiction, psychological problems, and suicide. 

[Gymowner]

My feelings are we are not involved in marriage, offspring and the benefits of raising a family with the SACRIFICES of such. Hedonism, me me me with no need for the most part to go from getting in life to giving all of a sudden slams the door on the outlook of the future. For many it's too scary a thought of very little if no family in the future when we need family the most.

This is not only the gay world. Our society has become since the 1960's more and more with each generation a self entitled  "it's all about me" culture. And we wonder why anti-depressants are now catagorized as a vitamin?

[sutherland]

When Arpad Miklos took his life I thought about the clients who had seen him during the previous week.  Did they see the writing on the wall?  If I had detected a sign of serious depression what would I be, morally, expected to do?    I have always viewed encounters with escorts to be business transactions; not a friendship. It's a tough spot to be in.

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, uclablueyes said:

I met Jay Dymel a couple of times in West Hollywood. He was a veteran and one of the sexiest and more sexually charged people I have met. I was taken aback when I heard of his passing. He was so young. 
 

https://meaws.com/blogs/gay-porn-performer-jay-dymel-dies-at-just-27-years-old/amp/

I had a session with Jay and his then boyfriend and partner Ryan Stone 2 months before he died. He was a real sweetheart and sexy as hell. We also had dinner together that evening and I met them again the next day in another restaurant dining by themselves. I said Hi on leaving, never thinking he would be gone so soon.

Edited February 2, 2022 by Luv2play

[Luv2play]

I actually burst into tears when I learned of his death. Such a terrible waste of a human life. I had no idea during our few hours together that there might be something lurking beneath the surface that would result in such an outcome. I'll never forget his kisses.

[Buddy15]

Years ago I hired Ben Archer a few times in Chicago.  About 6 months after the last hire I called him and his phone was no longer in service.  I heard that he had died but wasn't able to confirm or find any information.

[robberbaron4u]

3 hours ago, Luv2play said:

I actually burst into tears when I learned of his death. Such a terrible waste of a human life. I had no idea during our few hours together that there might be something lurking beneath the surface that would result in such an outcome. I'll never forget his kisses.

That the poor lad worked his ass off, literally and not firguratively, in his lifetime, and, his "final expenses" were paid by a GoFundMe campaign is a sad statement on the rewards of "porn" and "escorting" as career choices. 

[twinkielover]

One of my all time favorites passed away a number of years ago from cancer.

He was truly a beautiful guy inside and out.  He simply went by WC or Will.

[builder boy]

Depressing topic 

[jeezifonly]

1 hour ago, builder boy said:

Depressing topic 

Yes, but better acknowledged here than at Aunt Steph’s book club…