Overnighters... What do you do?

[Lazarus]

17 hours ago, The Dude said:

My first, and so far only, overnight was with a provider I never met before.  His personality was so different between when I was booking him and when I met him.  He seemed to have a great sense of humor, but when he got to my place he was so negative and complained about everything (not the overnight, just life in general).  We ended up just watching TV most of the night, some play time, sleep, and more playtime in the AM before he left.   I wasn't sure what to schedule, so I didn't schedule any outdoor time.

 

 

Was it worth the money you spent & would you repeat?

[pubic_assistance]

I don't like sleeping alone ...

But I'm married ...so I rarely do.

That said....when I am traveling separate from my wife. I don't think I would want a stranger in my bed. Maybe that's because my cuddle-quotient is already taken care of ...but still ..the idea of overnights with a stranger is a hard NO THANKS for me. 

I HAVE however, offered to buy dinner for masseurs when I am traveling alone ...and I do appreciate the company after a session. If they aren't booked for another client ...a free meal ( and a nice tip ) are appreciated by some massage+ providers. Escorts however have the clock ticking at every minute.( Which is one of the many reasons I don't generally hire them.)

 

Edited March 8, 2022 by pubic_assistance

[The Dude]

On 3/8/2022 at 1:38 PM, Lazarus said:

Was it worth the money you spent & would you repeat?

No, not with this guy; and I don't know how to make sure it would be more fun with someone else.

Edited March 19, 2022 by The Dude

[+ nycman]

On 3/8/2022 at 2:43 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Escorts however have the clock ticking at every minute.

Not all of them. I’ve said it before, but when I’m traveling on business
I often coordinate my escort sessions to end round dinner time. 
If I like the guy, I extend a dinner reservation "off the clock". 

Yes, the vast majority decline. But a few graciously accept. If dinner
goes well (and it usually does, some of these guys are fascinating),
then we often end up back in my room on the clock.

One caveat, you won’t be eating at a 5 star restaurant. The escort just
won’t be dressed for it. Now, the smart ones show up on repeat visits
dressed to kill. Those are the keepers. 

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, nycman said:

Not all of them

Of course. Everyone is unique. I recall one handsome young man who I hired for a massage while in London. Invited him to dinner after the massage. We had such a nice evening chatting that he came back to my hotel for another couple of hours of "off the clock" fun.

[Rudynate]

Im exactly that guy Kevin referred to.  Overnights are not for me.   I like other people in small doses, I like daytime sex, and I like to sleep alone. For me, the perfect encounter is 2-3 hours in the afternoon.   I don't think I would ever do an overnight.

[Rod Hagen]

On 3/8/2022 at 11:43 AM, pubic_assistance said:

That said....when I am traveling separate from my wife. I don't think I would want a stranger in my bed. Maybe that's because my cuddle-quotient is already taken care of ...but still ..the idea of overnights with a stranger is a hard NO THANKS for me. 

I've never been intimate with a woman, but many married, and formerly-married, men have told me that being held by (or holding) a man all-night is entirely different.   Give. It. Some. Thought.  If you get two beds then you can always shift back and forth.  No need to respond, just trying to help :-)

[pubic_assistance]

On 3/20/2022 at 7:52 PM, Rod Hagen said:

Give. It. Some. Thought

I didn't say I've never slept with man...I said I have no desire to sleep with a stranger.

[Rod Hagen]

10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I didn't say I've never slept with man...I said I have no desire to sleep with a stranger.

Got it.  Well, sleeping with Strangers can be fun too, and the two beds advice still holds.  But, duh, stupid me :-)

[BuffaloKyle]

On 3/19/2022 at 1:02 PM, Rudynate said:

Im exactly that guy Kevin referred to.  Overnights are not for me.   I like other people in small doses, I like daytime sex, and I like to sleep alone. For me, the perfect encounter is 2-3 hours in the afternoon.   I don't think I would ever do an overnight.

I'm the exact same way. My bed is my safe haven basically where I can unwind, destress, and relax. I don't enjoy someone being in that personal space all night. A couple hours for some hot play yes of course. Plus I'd rather spend the money for an overnight on a couple hours of play with three different guys instead of all of it on one guy. 

[big-n-tall]

For me, depending on the person I hire, what happens on overnights can vary greatly. By whatever twist of fate, most of the guys I have seen for overnights seem to enjoy the same extracurricular activities (outside the bedroom) that I do. So it's easy for me to find things to do for us that we'll both enjoy. We can even talk for hours about our mutual interests.

You also have to factor in how sexual the guy is and how strong the mutual attraction is. If I'm really attracted and turned on by the provider, I probably can have a lot of bedroom fun in a given period. Even this can go in many directions. Just because I could go at it multiple times doesn't mean the provider can or wants to. Vice-versa there are some guys who want to go at it more than I can handle. One of my frequent hires actually told me after our initial meeting, he was thinking of dropping me as a client. He said he couldn't handle me physically and I left him too sore to work. Another semi-regular hire, we had so much bedroom fun the day/night previously, that when we got up the next morning, he wanted more and I just couldn't. LOL!

 I'm a loner by nature, but I kind of like having someone sleeping with me... sometimes. 😛 I am not a long term sleeper and I can run hot physically. I don't mind if a provider needs to sleep more than I do... most people do. Although I can cuddle initially, unless the room is cold, eventually I have to pull away because I start to overheat. With most of my hires, especially the ones I've seen multiple times, sleeping habits haven't really been an issue. Only one provider complained to me about my sleeping habits. However, we have so much fun together. Since we still see each other, it seems he overlooks any weird sleeping habits I have.

Edited March 23, 2022 by big-n-tall

[Midtownguy99]

I’ve done a few overnights. All of them have been great. I’ve even done a three night weekend hire which was awesome. 
 

We went to dinners, shows, events, shopping, workouts, and sightseeing. It helps to have the same interest and also the right companion. Luckily he was the perfect hire for me. But I think it’s important to ask whomever you choose what they envision your time together like and then you can build on it from there. 
 

I don’t want to share my list of hires, but if you want details PM me. 

[Guest]

On 3/20/2022 at 4:52 PM, Rod Hagen said:

 men have told me that being held by (or holding) a man all-night is entirely different.   Give. It. Some. Thought. 

can confirm

[Luv2play]

Ive done quite a few overnights especially during the pandemic, as I was limiting the frequency of hires. Now that we are coming out of the restrictions, I am less inclined to do them and am doing multi hour sessions which include dinner or just even one hour get togethers.

With overnights, my experiences have varied. Some I would never repeat but a few were pure magic.

Edited March 29, 2022 by Luv2play

[Midtownguy99]

On 3/19/2022 at 10:30 AM, nycman said:

Not all of them. I’ve said it before, but when I’m traveling on business
I often coordinate my escort sessions to end round dinner time. 
If I like the guy, I extend a dinner reservation "off the clock". 

Yes, the vast majority decline. But a few graciously accept. If dinner
goes well (and it usually does, some of these guys are fascinating),
then we often end up back in my room on the clock.

One caveat, you won’t be eating at a 5 star restaurant. The escort just
won’t be dressed for it. Now, the smart ones show up on repeat visits
dressed to kill. Those are the keepers. 

It would definitely be helpful to notify a provider or actually anyone in the world if you are planning to take them out to a 5 star dinner, so that they can dress appropriately. 

[JTtorretto]

It's funny that no one, until now, has mentioned easily THE most popular activity that actually occurs on overnight appts (after s*x) ... 

If this was Family Feud and the question was "list the most popular activities that take place during an overnight escort appt" = number 2, after s*x, would NOT be sleep; it'd be partying / pnp.   
 

Apparently, the truth is sometimes considered a "taboo" subject matter? 

 

 

[CalTec]

On 1/24/2022 at 7:50 AM, Jamie21 said:

In my experience the company is really the reason for an overnight, not 12 or so hours of action. It’s about being with someone you feel comfortable with to chat, eat, relax, bathe, walk, and of course get intimate with each other over the course of the session. Clients book it as an escape from normal life. 

This guy clearly overnights, and gets it. Hotel, shows, workouts, etc (I rarely do in-home o/n's).  Not necessarily the best idea to jump into an overnight without having a prior session, or 2. 

[Jamie21]

22 hours ago, JTtorretto said:

It's funny that no one, until now, has mentioned easily THE most popular activity that actually occurs on overnight appts (after s*x) ... 

If this was Family Feud and the question was "list the most popular activities that take place during an overnight escort appt" = number 2, after s*x, would NOT be sleep; it'd be partying / pnp.   
 

Apparently, the truth is sometimes considered a "taboo" subject matter? 

 

 

No drugs on overnights. If a client wants to pnp or take drugs on an overnight then I’m not their guy. I’m not dealing with clients off their head etc. I think you’re right though, lots do want that. 

[+ keroscenefire]

I've done overnight and definitely do not party. And in fact turned what was supposed to be an overnight into a two-hour session when an escort brought drugs and insisted on partying. It almost always ends up with them trying to figure out how to get more drugs, how to get more money from you, etc. Just not worth it.

Weed and poppers are cool but that's about it for me.

Edited June 6, 2022 by keroscenefire

[JTtorretto]

18 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

I've done overnight and definitely do not party. And in fact turned what was supposed to be an overnight into a two-hour session when an escort brought drugs and insisted on partying. It almost always ends up with them trying to figure out how to get more drugs, how to get more money from you, etc. Just not worth it.

Weed and poppers are cool but that's about it for me.

Just fyi Keroscenefire... this is the "ask the PROVIDER (escort) Forum". 
 

We, the escorts, have this section to respond and provide our insight to both our fellow colleagues and to curious clients who care to hear from our perspective.   
 

🤐

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

On 6/5/2022 at 7:38 PM, JTtorretto said:

It's funny that no one, until now, has mentioned easily THE most popular activity that actually occurs on overnight appts (after s*x) ... 

If this was Family Feud and the question was "list the most popular activities that take place during an overnight escort appt" = number 2, after s*x, would NOT be sleep; it'd be partying / pnp.   
 

Apparently, the truth is sometimes considered a "taboo" subject matter? 

 

 

Not in my world.

No drugs.  Ever.

[JTtorretto]

4 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Not in my world.

No drugs.  Ever.

That sounds very exciting

 and sexy Benny!  

🥱Sobriety🥱

✅24/7/365✅

every-single-day-of-your-entire-life.     

🐓

 

You are in the minority and fit a very specific niche market (i.e. the majority of clients who post on this website, how convenient).  

On the other hand; 

95% of my clients don't frequent this website, enjoy partaking illicit substances on occasion & 100% of my  illustrious reviews have been from these same clients.  (Some are school teachers, one is a billionaire so they don't fit any sorta cliche niche). 

[Guest]

I must still be a sweet, innocent thing. Drugs are a hard no, and if a client does anything (except snoring, we're all human and the escort gods made earplugs for a reason) that prevents me from getting my 7-8 hours when we spend the night together, it's gonna impact my decision to see them again. 

[+ keroscenefire]

21 hours ago, JTtorretto said:

Just fyi Keroscenefire... this is the "ask the PROVIDER (escort) Forum". 
 

We, the escorts, have this section to respond and provide our insight to both our fellow colleagues and to curious clients who care to hear from our perspective.   
 

🤐

"An area to learn what makes a good encounter with a provider. No arguments allowed."

 

  

On 1/23/2022 at 6:50 PM, Rick M said:

I ask both providers and clients: how do you keep yourselves entertained for 6 to 8 hours?

Edited June 8, 2022 by keroscenefire

[CalTec]

On 6/6/2022 at 5:59 PM, Jamie21 said:

No drugs on overnights. If a client wants to pnp or take drugs on an overnight then I’m not their guy. I’m not dealing with clients off their head etc. I think you’re right though, lots do want that. 

With cannabis being legal here in Toronto, I have been asked about edibles as some use it as a sleep aid, which I get.  I also make custom edibles which are sometimes requested but as far as drugs go, that's the limit.  No smoking it near me as I have issues with smoke intake.  I also don't move forward with any new appts involving cannabis without knowing how they are on it and if it's legit prescribed for pain/sleep or just "lets pop an eddy and enjoy the ride" type experience. 

As with o/n's, it's important to get an idea of what experience / intention they have going into that type of longer session with cannabis specifically.

It just boils down to being responsible and taking care of your client on all fronts.