Oral Top. Bottom or Both

[+ purplekow]

I have not run across a gay or bi man who would not go down on a man. Similarly, I have not run across a man who would refuse oral as part of sex.

Are there members of the forum who are exclusive givers or receivers or I am I mistaken in the belief that most gay and bi men are versatile in this regard at least.

[caramelsub]

Oral bottom here. I’m definitely an exclusive giver. I never enjoyed guys going down on me. I get pleasure from satisfying others during sex.

[MaybeMaybeNot]

My S.O. will not give oral sex. Truthfully, I have not always enjoyed giving oral and have to be in the right mood to want to do it. When I do it, I don't like doing it for long. I get bored. And, I have only done it to completion on my S.O.

[+ MysticMenace]

I guess I am not exclusive with either anal or oral. While I prefer to bottom anally, I do prefer receiving oral vs. giving it. Or maybe I'm just lazy ?‍♂️

[jjkrkwood]

Its no secret or surprise that I am TOTAL oral.... I have been saying it for decades here. I do oral top, bottom and sideways, BUT only as a giver.... I LOVE BIG cock....

 

I do not enjoy guys going down on me. I get no feeling from it... I love being in oral control, seeing AND hearing my partner (whomever) enjoying my machinations, whether I am slurping on his slab, or eatting out his hole. ?

 

(YES, have done anal, many, many years ago, hated it, stopped, and never looked back)

[MscleLovr]

I’m a lazy selfish top with a dominant streak. I adore receiving oral, especially from a talented cocksucker who brings me to completion and swallows my load.

 

Some might say I’m versatile as I’ve sucked 4 different cocks in my life. But it was only when I was in bed with a very hot muscleboy-bottom and feeling philanthropic.

 

More than a few times, bottom-guys have told me they found it very hot that I so obviously enjoy being serviced AND do not reciprocate.

[liubit]

I am totally versatile as far as oral is concerned. I love both giving and receiving, most probably 50-50. Sucking cock, making love to it with my tongue and swallowing its load is bliss, but a skilled sucker that gets me to shoot in his mouth can quickly bring me to paradise. Equal opportunity here. ?

Edited February 14, 2021 by liubit

[+ Hoover42]

I only give, never receive. I have a phobia about being touched there! ?

[Mjonis]

I'm just a whore/slut (haha). I love to suck cock and be sucked. I love to have a cock in my ass and I love to put my cock in an ass. I love to rim and be rimmed.

[BuffaloKyle]

I'm a top so definitely love to receive head but equally love to give it as well. I did have one bottom who I hooked up with a few times all he wanted was for me to fuck him. He wouldn't suck me off at all and he wanted nothing else done to him other than for me to get hard and to top him.

[Guest]

I may be a strange bird, but I don't enjoy getting sucked off. It totally does nothing for me, and could even make me lose my erection. I do enjoy sucking if my partner enjoys it.

[KrisParr]

More blessed to GIVE than to receive, so that’s me. Love to lick ‘em from head to toe and everything in between.

[SweetCherry1]

On 2/12/2021 at 2:31 AM, caramelsub said:

Oral bottom here. I’m definitely an exclusive giver. I never enjoyed guys going down on me. I get pleasure from satisfying others during sex.

Then you’re a receiver  simply because you receive the cum from the guy you’re sucking. 

[Isrhunter]

I am selfish top only like to receive

[EZEtoGRU]

I definitely prefer performing oral on others.  I used to be 50/50 regarding giving versus receiving but as I've aged, I now always want to be the one who is sucking.

[Luv2play]

One has to read these posts carefully because people use the term receiver in oral in one of two ways. Either to receive head or receive cum. The former is a top and the latter a bottom. But "receiver" can be either.  

[guy7777]

I really like getting head more than giving it, but guess I would still consider myself versatile.

It totally depends on the individual I'm with

[CatDaddy]

I like to receive more (especially from a skilled guy who loves to suck), and I will reciprocate and do my best.  However, I'm not great at it,  but I'll do it, and swallow their load. 

Edited April 10, 2022 by CatDaddy
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[+ nycman]

I’m 50/50 when it comes to oral. 

In fact 69 with both guys working their hardest to "out perform" the other….is one of my favorites. 

[jtwalker]

I like to receive head and am willing to give head.  I don't particularly enjoy giving.

[Rand]

I'm well rounded whore. I do it all and love it all (except pain, gore etc.). It's all depends on person I'm with at the moment. Couldn't even count how many gallons I pumped in assholes and how many miles of dicks I've sucked. Meanwhile, keeping my completely innocent face and not pretending being a whore deliberately. Just enjoying good fuck with good people. Sucking each others dick or eating each others hole in 69 position is one of my all time favorite. From this point it can go one way or another lol

Although, I do prefer to bottom lately because I finally discovered how to relax and enjoy it properly. Even had anal orgasm hands-free. It blew my mind completly. And that comes from person who thought it's an urban myth. All thanks to a very talented top with just right dick.

Conclusion: try it all, do it all, stick to whatever keeps you coming back for more. We all have off-an-on switches in different places. Find yours and nibble on that sucker really good.

[alrajee]

I am not very good at giving oral (self-assessment); enjoy receiving it however.

Exclusively a top but if my partner wants to toss salad, I welcome it. Just don't try to put anything inside.

[Rudynate]

As a young man, I was an oral top - loved to get my dick sucked.  Didn't like doing it too much. 

Then I went through a decades-long stage of being versatile - loved it either way.

Now, I'm kind of bored with oral - I just want to get on with the butt sex.

I can say, though, that when I suck a man's dick, he finds it pretty memorable.

Edited April 21, 2022 by Rudynate
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[Luv2play]

As I've gotten older I enjoy trying deep throating any and all partners. The bigger the size, the more of the challenge to get right down to the pubes. And hold it there while my eyes are streaming. Ah, ecstasy.

[tanman4u]

I'm 50/50 too.  Just wondering though how many guys can cum just by being sucked.  I can.  Maybe I'm being prejudiced by porn but it's seems like all the porn guys have to jerk off to get off.  I'm not a fan at all of getting face-painted.  I'd love to find an escort who could get off by oral alone and maybe teach me to be a better cock-sucker.  I don't have a tremendous amount of experience so finding an escort who specialized in teaching a guy how to become an expert cock-sucker would be amazing.

Edited April 21, 2022 by tanman4u