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alrajee

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  1. Although she did not get her start on YouTube, I absolutely love Nigella Lawson and the Nigella Bites series. People love to hate on food shows that weave a story to each episode, but I think when done right, it works. Personally, her eloquence is what sold me with the series. (Subsequent shows didn't have as much charm as Nigella Bites, admittedly.)
  2. I've always been curious about their Endless Shrimp but never got around to trying it. My local Aldi's has a one-poind bag of 13-15 shrimp for $13, and I can make a dupe of all of RL's preparations. I can see why people like it though.
  3. I paid $19,000 for my Trax. I’m happy that I haven’t had a car payment for two years now. And with my job being fully WFH, I expect to hang on to my vehicle for at least another five years. Cars for me serve one purpose: To take me from point a to point b. Even if I had the funds to buy a luxury vehicle, I still wouldn’t. If someone were to gift it to me, I’d be peeved at the tax. 😅
  4. If it’s my first time hiring you and we only have an hour, we’re making out naked. Subsequent hires (meaning I like you) will always be for at least three hours, so we can take our time.
  5. alrajee

    Grindr Rant

    Hear, hear. I was in Europe for two months, going through 7 countries. Of the number of times I had sex, only a third were from Grindr. (And this is with me showing my face and a relatively fit body.) I’d set up with someone for after his work, and once I ask if we’re still on, I get blocked. To be fair, the hookups that did happen were at least good, and a few were great that we met up again. The worst offenders for me were the major cities: London, Brussels, Paris, and Copenhagen. I ended up hiring at these four because it was easier.
  6. The Lion King in Las Vegas. I cried at “Endless Night.”
  7. If the vibes are right and you’re both clear on what your friendship entails, then sure, it’s possible.
  8. Same policy with me. I take PrEP and I clarify the same before agreeing on a meeting, even if he lists it on his profile. If he doesn’t list it, I assume he’s positive.
  9. That’ll be a dud of a session for me. I also probably would not have hired him in the first place since I make it clear when initiating contact that I require kissing and oral. Sidebar: I have hired one guy who had limits: Only kissing and mutual masturbation. He was smoking hot though and I was thinking with my small head so I agreed. Holy moly he made up for the no-oral, no-anal thing with how good he kissed. I hired him a second time after a month, and although the makeout session was still great, I knew that we reached the ceiling there.
  10. I'm simple: We both should be clean and freshly showered (as circumstances permit) before meeting. Perfumes don't bother me if we're not in bed, e.g. on a date, but once we're being intimate, I get sneezing fits with most EDTs. If I am hosting, I'll offer my bathroom. And I will ask if I can join him, too. I met up with a pretty popular escort many years ago, and it was obvious that he was taking a few clients that day because he has not had a chance to freshen up between appointments. I stopped mid-deed to politely ask him to shower, as the smell down there was overbearing.
  11. I got off the subway two stops too early en route to an appointment. i got to his place 10 minutes late, and he clearly saw that I huffed to his apartment. He had me sit, gave me a bottle of iced tea to help calm me down, and gave me my very first foot worship session. I had no idea I would love it so much.
  12. Update – we had a great time together, and although I wanted a second meeting before I left, our schedules no longer matched up. We didn't engage in enough conversation, and I didn't think it necessary to talk about his social media.
  13. Just randomly showed up, as far as I am concerned.
  14. Thanks for everyone's replies. I'm going to continue with the booking but I won't mention that his personal account got suggested to me. (Just hope I don't slip and call him by his real name. 😅) If we end up having a good time that I book him for another meeting while I'm in town, I'll probably mention it then, but only if we feel comfortable with each other's company.
  15. Initially, I felt awkward when his account got suggested to me. (It's his personal account, not a work account.)
  16. Wait, they're back together despite getting thrown in jail for violating a restraining order she had for him?
  17. I am visiting my hometown for two weeks and decided to hire a guy for an evening. I don't know what powers the Zuck has, but not long after I book the guy (using my hiring email/Google Voice number/"naughty" browser [Microsoft Edge]), his personal account shows up on my Instagram. I'm trying to figure out whether I should cancel and tell him why, or tell him so that the ball is on his court. It doesn't look like he runs in the same social circles as my friends back home, so I do not have any problems going through with the meeting if he's comfortable. Providers and clients, what would you do were you in my situation?
  18. My passport only had two months left before it was to expire, and I didn’t submit renewal docs in time. Since leaving the country isn’t important, I decided to stay stateside. My Spanish level isn’t at the level yet that I would be able to distinguish among Latin American “flavors” unfortunately. Although you’re probably right that they tend to swallow their words more than others.
  19. I don’t have an answer to the OP but I’d like to share my experience. The closest I’ve done to a Spanish immersion is the six weeks that I spent in Puerto Rico, working remotely. Great experience, and my command of the language improved because of it. I study Spanish through italki. My first tutor was from Vitoria, then when he stopped offering lessons after a year, I went with a mix of Venezuelan, Mexican, and Colombian tutors. I still lisp at times and say vosotros instead of ustedes, but it’s not a big deal—at least my interlocutor says as much. The most important part of language learning, for me, is forcing yourself to make conversations, irrespective of length and vocabulary. That’s why I could never get behind apps since it’s passive; I’m not being asked to think on my feet. Admittedly, I had to switch to English a few times when I was in Puerto Rico, either by fatigue or I simply did not know enough relevant words to string together a sentence, but at least I got into the zone of thinking and comprehending in Spanish. Aside 1: I learned French from France. While I can talk to the Belgians, Swiss, or Luxembourgers no problem, I have yet to do such with a Quebecois. Aside 2: Do they speak Spanish in the Philippines? @Unicorn your maps have me wondering if Spanish is more than just a lexifier in the country…
  20. I did not go through with my plan to meet him when he was still in NYC. He quoted $400/hour in 2018/19. He has done collaborations with a few OF guys. I don't know how much of his reel performance spills to real life as an escort, but I'm wasn't excited.
  21. Quite important. I scroll past Rentmen and Grindr/Tinder profiles that don't show their face. They don't have to be Ryan Gosling levels of handsome (because that's unreasonable); a pleasant face with a nice smile are all you need to get my attention.
  22. Back in 2019 I used to go to a sugarer in NYC to get my dick and my crack sugared. The first time was painful but it was understandable...I had no idea what to expect. I came back every six weeks, the average length of time for my pubes to get long enough. I tried out an at-home sugaring kit during the time when the pandemic shut businesses down. The first time was a messy disaster. Eventually though, I got used to the sting and I got my technique down pat. Nowadays, I self-sugar every 7-8 weeks while watching porn. (In my experience, an erect penis helps in removing hair at the base and at the shaft.)
  23. It's either ham or duck in my Thanksgiving table, and whenever it's my turn to host, I make it a point to tell everyone that. I find turkey to be underwhelming for the amount of effort. I made it once and never thought to do it again. (My friend threw a traditional Friendsgiving over the weekend. I went for the turkey leg and filled up on the sides.)
  24. Doritos cool ranch Blue Crab Spread from Costco with Tostitos Scoops Prosciutto and celery
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