What have you learned from an escort?

[MidAndy]

Some things you learn as a result of social interaction. Sometimes this knowledge is very useful.

 

My example. A guy taught me a simple cocktail: whisky, cola, AND frozen cherries instead of ice cubes (it's very good).

 

What have you learned from your encounters?

[D21howie]

I have learned to relax and be more open

[MikeBiDude]

That I can have fun and enjoy gentlemen that are outside my usual “type”.

[+ azdr0710]

how to hook up a personal phone/laptop to the big hotel room TV to watch porn during a session....

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

The advantages of using a car service vs waiting in line at the cab stand at LaGuardia.

[+ MysticMenace]

how to hook up a personal phone/laptop to the big hotel room TV to watch porn during a session....

 

I actually showed / taught this to the provider. ?‍♂️

[KrisParr]

That the vast majority of the men I’ve hired over the past 25 years or so (I’m very picky) are intelligent, honest, thoughtful and had a sense of direction. Granted, a few were not quite so focused, but I’ve met some great guys and I’ve remained in contact with them and trust that they’ve benefited in some way or another. A few are still in the business, some have retired, some went into various fields, etc. I have given serious thought to writing a book one day about my adventures.

[+ MysticMenace]

What have you learned from your encounters?

• how to kiss
  
• douching and shower shot
  
• how to relax (deep breath in, breathe out)
  
• it is okay to moan as long as it is genuine
  
• the dangers or precautionary tales of misusing trimix
  
• dry shampoos exist
  
• what a Kentucky Klondike Bar is...
  
• what a rosebud is...
  
• CBD oil
  
• Carter Woods was a cool and chill guy to work with on scene.
  
• Quentin Gainz and Markie More had a thing
  
• A 10.5x8 provider top I met preferred to bottom for another provider top
  
• OnlyFans content uploads can be scheduled
  
• MAL exists
  

[PetetKsfo]

That the vast majority of the men I’ve hired over the past 25 years or so (I’m very picky) are intelligent, honest, thoughtful and had a sense of direction. Granted, a few were not quite so focused, but I’ve met some great guys and I’ve remained in contact with them and trust that they’ve benefited in some way or another. A few are still in the business, some have retired, some went into various fields, etc. I have given serious thought to writing a book one day about my adventures.

 

 

Lovely. Thank you for sharing these kind words.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I have learnt to feel good about myself, and that my kinky interests are fine and to be celebrated.

 

I have learnt that i can enjoy intimacy outside of my marriage, and it does not impact on my love for my husband, just exploring and tasting a different flavour of life.

 

I have learnt that sex workers work in a wonderful profession, giving pleasure and opportunities to others.

[MidAndy]

• what a Kentucky Klondike Bar is...
  
• what a rosebud is...
  

 

This is something I'd like to unlearn and unsee. I was considering hiring Hoss Kado (https://rent.men/HossKado) for a long time, but the rosebud in some oh his videos made so memorable impression on me so I decided to pass. I know I am irrational and illogical, but I can't help it.

[dbar123]

...that they are normal people with normal problems just like the rest of us.

[MidAndy]

That the vast majority of the men I’ve hired over the past 25 years or so (I’m very picky) are intelligent, honest, thoughtful and had a sense of direction. Granted, a few were not quite so focused, but I’ve met some great guys and I’ve remained in contact with them and trust that they’ve benefited in some way or another. A few are still in the business, some have retired, some went into various fields, etc. I have given serious thought to writing a book one day about my adventures.

 

You must have a rare gift of finding guys who are in that zone where they need a little support (financial or advice) and it gets them on a path where they can live a happy life.

[Maximiliam]

Thought me how to be polite and more comfortable

[+ keroscenefire]

That I have a "second hole." Haha.

 

Early in the hobby, I actually had a couple of great escorts that taught me a lot about how to be a good/safe client. Very practical stuff like having a Google voice number, not paying until the end of the session, meeting in the hotel lobby instead of in the room, etc. The few times I've had bad experiences, it was actually because I wasn't following some of these guidelines.

[samhexum]

I have learned to relax and be more open

And to open more?

[D21howie]

And to open more?

Not to be afraid to try more things

[lonely_john]

how to hook up a personal phone/laptop to the big hotel room TV to watch porn during a session....

Ok, I need the tutorial!

[lonely_john]

I learned that I can take more than I thought.

[+ Lucky]

That I can have fun and enjoy gentlemen that are outside my usual “type”.

And that can be a hard lesson to learn. Speaking for myself, I discounted many people who I thought were not my type. Thankfully several persisted and taught me differently. It's sad that the lines of a person's face can determine attractiveness. That's a shallow approach I used to follow.

Edited January 12, 2021 by Lucky

[+ poolboy48220]

When I took the Body Electric bondage workshop, they ended by asking everyone to share something they'd found out about themselves during the session. I was at a loss (as I usually am with those types of questions). I'd just gone to have a good time. One attendee said "I learned I could top".

[Merboy]

I've learned 1 hour is not enough to really get to know anyone... and it requires a full night to really get anything out of the experience in terms of conversation.

[jawjateck]

In the first 10 years, that our world is filled with many awesome, talented men.

In the second 10 years, that many men have received no ROI from a college education.

[+ nycman]

That there are things about me that are attractive....beyond my body.

 

That intimacy is more important and more dangerous....than fucking.

 

That clubbing in Berlin with an Uber kinky German man....is heaven.

[Jay DC]

I’ve learned so much. These gentlemen helped me vision what the next phase of my life was going to look like. After leaving a long time marriage that was totally monogamous I knew the future was going to be unlike my past. I’ve been so impressed how my providers take pride in their work and want to do a good job. It made sex fun, exciting and liberating—no shame, no apologies. They reminded me the value of clear, concise communication and to be comfortable in my own skin. In addition to their obvious physical attributes, it’s their generosity of spirit that proved revelatory. They made me feel like I am good at the physical part (and I know better) but more importantly they made me feel I was good at the human being part. Its now been dozens and dozens of hires over the years and while they weren’t all home runs, I don’t regret any (maybe one). I used to marvel what it would be like to have a job where everyone is glad to see you because I’m always glad to see them. They have earned my respect and gratitude.