Jay DC

I have always approached r/m reviews with a grain of salt. The odd questions they ask reveal little about an actual encounter. I was excited to figure out how to read the narrative part but found the overwhelming number of cloying accounts not to be very helpful either—“I never knew what love was until I met xyz”. Lots of reviews also don’t necessarily equal lots of insight. I was looking at someone who had many reviews but there were 22 (yes I counted) from the same person. Many reviews but, as it turns out, only from three different people. I do look at who leaves reviews because there are a few who I know and a few whose narratives are genuinely insightful. If they endorse a provider then I’m good to go. I also do a search here to see if they have been discussed and that has been more helpful. I’ve had a great time with providers with no reviews but I do tend to book those with at least one review. I’m also a little relieved not to be able to leave reviews on r/m any more. I once had a client of a provider reach out to me demanding I compensate him for a bad appointment he had with someone I had reviewed well. He said if it hadn’t been for my review he would not have booked the appointment. And another time, I gave a four star review and then had some guy reached out to me demanding I retract my review, apologize and not slander the provider who “is the best that’s ever been”. He sent me a questionnaire he wanted me to fill out so that he and the provider’s other fans could see where I went wrong. And if I didn’t comply, I’d pay the price. This wasn’t from the provider. It felt like someone trying to curry favor with the provider. On a four-star review! I contacted r/m and they shut down his account. reviews can be a good resource but they can’t determine chemistry. And just because I had a great time with a provider doesn’t mean everyone will. I put more stock in what a potential provider has written in his profile and how he communicates. I try to be very clear about what I’m looking for, where and when-all in the first message. I’m serious about hiring and don’t use the communication as part of the decision making process. They don’t have to interview for my position. Although I’m a talker, I try to get an appointment booked in three texts or less using as few words as possible. These guys are busy and don’t need lots of questions from me spread out over dozens of texts or email. Having said that, there have been a few times where the communication has steered me away from someone. I just tell them my plans have changed and apologize for wasting their time. I’ve only gotten a few negative responses back but I can live with being called a flake if it doesn’t feel right. I sometimes get questions from them but they have to do their due diligence also so I don’t mind. And while I’m glad not to leave reviews, I would feel obligated to get the word out if I ever felt threatened, cheated or unsafe with a provider. I’m lucky that has never been the case.

I think you’re probably right but I give a little more latitude. Once when flying cross country, I realized at the airport that I had left my laptop and iPad at home. On my phone, I reached out to a couple of providers asking if they had availability in the next few days. I explained I was traveling and would check back when I arrived at my hotel. Traveling to the hotel, I left both my personal and professional phones in the taxi never to be seen again. I was like an Amish girl trying to survive in the big city. And the provider’s never heard back from me. Shit happens and we all have moments that don’t show us at our best. I’ve never been such a doofus before or after that trip but nobody’s perfect and a little compassion never hurts.

I don’t often look for quick availability but have done so on occasion-usually when a flight cancelled or business required me to stay an extra day or two while traveling. When I got up those mornings I didn’t realize I was going to have availability and, of course, had not made any inquiries. I’m probably going to get chastised for admitting this, but in these last minute requests, I usually send out identical inquiries to 2 or 3 different providers (marked as Available Now). It is rare that I get two quick responses. In the first hour, I usually get one. If I book that appointment, I respond immediately to later responders by apologizing and admitting I jumped the gun and am not available after all. The second response is usually 4 or 5 hours later, which is reasonable but didn’t fit my time frame. There is always one who doesn’t respond. I have gotten some criticism from the ones who responded but didn’t get booked. Called a time waster or flake or alleged that I jerked off and had no intention of booking. I’m sure I’ve been a flake and God knows I jerk off but it seems a little harsh to me for a single text I sent hours earlier and a single text they sent. But I can’t imagine how few inquiries convert into appointments. And it must be maddening to get inundated with repeated messages and questions from a single person that leads nowhere. That’s why I only send one message to each person and respond the second I get a response from them. I suppose it would be more honorable to make one inquiry and wait for the response before moving to the next candidate. But honestly if I did that I wouldn’t book half of the last minute appointments I’ve had. And they have been some of the best. There have been a very few times when someone responded very quickly and said, “Send me the address, I’ll be there in 15 minutes”. I’ve had to ask for more time so I can get my act together and occasionally they’ve been irked and told me to forget it. Good thing I had a back up. I apologize to those whose time I’ve wasted and I don’t hold a grudge to those who never responded. I know I’m just looking for fun and that it’s the provider’s livelihood but life happens, let’s give each other a break.

I agree that there is no right or wrong answer. If you object to deposits, don’t do them. I have done a few over the years-maybe five out of a few hundred. And I have offered the deposit. I’m less inclined to consider one if it’s demanded. Never say never but I’d rather tip a little more rather than submit a deposit. I usually do one so the person can arrange Uber or other transportation to come see me. I offer to send a car but some people feel better making their own arrangements. I never had an issue or regretted doing the few deposits I’ve done. I also am in the minority because if I’m doing an electronic payment, I like to do it as soon as they arrive. Most providers are aghast and try to assure me that we can settle up at the end. I’m always concerned I’m going to mess it up so I feel better doing it upfront. And a couple of times I have messed it up (usually by not realizing my bank sent a fraud alert and I didn’t respond in time). The bank locked my card and I had to walk with the provider to an ATM to get old fashioned cash. Since I’ve retired, I no longer worry so much about a paper trail and I’ve never been one to carry cash so I like electronic payments. Plus it’s easier to tip or pay to extend our time. And I was the one who was aghast when I learned some electronic apps withhold hefty fees from the payment for using their service. If paying electronically, always add the fee payment on top of the agreed rate. The provider shouldn’t get short changed because I’m too lazy to go to the bank. I’ve never had an issue with prepaying. I understand there’s some risk, but it’s right for me. I get it if it’s not right for others and I’d never judge them just like I shouldn’t be judged for usually refusing deposits and paying my providers upfront. I’m sure when I get burned by my habit of prepaying, I’ll be singing a different tune but life is full of risks. Choose the ones you can live with and let me choose mine.

Great guy. Always reliable when I met him.

A little more generosity of spirit might be called for. Even though I traveled extensively for work, I never developed a sense of direction. I compensated by trying to overprepare, triple check my routes and get my shit together before heading out. But life happens. When I lived in Washington DC, I left for an appointment at the provider’s hotel. Left in plenty of time, should have been able to park and still have 20 minutes to spare. As it turns out, there was a state dinner and many motorcades and processionals closed many routes and I couldn’t move for 45 minutes. Of course it was my fault, I didn’t think to check and see if the Queen of England was cruising around the capital. My provider was very understanding and I tipped well to apologize. Life is hard sometimes. If your so busy that you can’t find compassion for someone running late, maybe find another hobby.

A charmer. Be clear what you’re looking for and he’ll deliver.

I have two very close friends (one straight, one gay) who I have spoken with about my pro friends. I’ve known both for 25+ years and trust them completely. When I first started hiring, I used to let one of them know where I was going because I was inexperienced in hiring and was sure I was going to get murdered or lose a kidney. At least my friend could give the info to the police if I was never heard from again. After my first few hires, l realized almost all the pros I met were trustworthy and ethical, more so than some of the “civilian” friends I’ve met. My friends never judged me and understood that my hiring was part of a journey for me. Plus I sometimes travel with these friends (separately) and they now understand if I make private plans for an hour or two-it’s nice not having to lie or sneak around One friend wanted to try hiring based on my outstanding experiences. Even though we live 2,000 miles apart, this is now another shared interest we have. Having a friend to discuss it with is fun and sort of liberating in a way. If it’s the right friend, it’s good to have someone to confide in and learn from each other’s experiences. But, since my hobby may have elements that could be construed as illegal by some people, there is a trust issue about sharing the info with just anyone. I retired early but if I wanted some kind of job, I wouldn’t want a reputation as someone who pursues illegal activities. Law enforcement seem mainly concerned with human trafficking/exploitation (rightly so) but don’t seem to care much about m4m companionship unless a network of hard drugs or physical abuse are part of the picture. After the rentboy raid, I wondered if there would be a crackdown on exchanging money for time, but I haven’t seen it. If only consenting adults in a private location without any drugs are participating and I called law enforcement to report a suspected prostitution crime, I think they’d tell me to mind my own business. All these words to say I think a trusted friend or two to share with is good and can be a safety net but only sharing with a very limited of people is the judicious way to go.

I had a great time with a provider in LA once and afterwards we were chatting about some renovations I was planning for my home. He said he had done something similar once. He got his phone out and pulled up pictures of the project (which was well done). He handed me his phone and said I could scroll through because he kept any Indiscreet photos in a locked file that needed both a passcode and a fingerprint to open. Of course as I was looking at the project up popped a pic of a very high-profile actor, totally naked, clearly high and sporting a respectable semi-erection. I handed the phone to him letting him know he had a stray pic. He was genuinely horrified. He had signed an NDA and all electronic devices were collected upon arrival by the actor’s security detail — so it begged the question to me how had his locked phone file and the security detail both fail? Turns out he had visited several times and as he was leaving after the 6th or 7th visit, the actor allowed the pic to be taken after security had returned the electronics to the escort. the actor walked the escort to the door and security was none the wiser that a pic had even been taken-good judgement is not always this actor’s claim to fame. The provider said he intentionally did not put the picture in the secure file because people always want to look there and rather than risk it, he buried in the one file he was sure no one would ever want to look at—only I’m nerdy enough to ask to see this hot studly escort’s shade structure. And that’s not a euphemism. I also mentioned to him that NDA’s can be hard to enforce but his lawyer said it’s a moot point because this actor has the resources to keep the issue tied up in the court system for years The agreement also called for the provider to put a ridiculous amount of money in escrow in the event the court rules in the actor’s favor and it would be returned if the court ruled in the provider’s favor. And the escort was responsible for both sides legal fees. If the agreement fails in court (and they almost always fail) it would run up big legal bills, open the provider up for prosecution of any illegal activities, alert the whole world (including his mom) about his professional activities and consume so much energy that the provider loses no matter the legality. Whether it’s enforceable or not doesn’t matter. Look how much it’s been debated in this thread with nothing at stake. And this guy took it seriously and pleaded with me not to ever reveal the actor’s name. He said I didn’t have to pay for our session as a token of his appreciation I told him to keep the money as a token of my respect (and the provider was awesome). I told him if he wanted me to sign an NDA, I would. He finally laughed and felt better. I have told this story before but not the actor’s name. The provider moved from LA to someplace I can’t remember and I’ve never connected with him again, although I would if the timing ever worked out—and if he’s even still in the business. It’s really integrity that should drive the conversation, not legality. If you sign your name promising to do or not do something—mean it—or you’re just a liar. This escort meant it and I respect him for it. And beyond the enforceable or not enforceable document, this provider had earned the actor’s trust and friendship and wasn’t going to betray him

If I’m using any type of e-payment (cash app, etc.), I ask to pay up front in case there is any issue. I’ve had network issues and issues with any particular site being down for maintenance. And a surprising number of providers who can’t remember their login for the payment. I don’t use epayments very often, cash is still king. But if I do, I feel better not wondering if everything is going to be okay. I’ve never had an issue or regret. I can’t remember if I have ever been asked for money up front—seems sort of tacky.

I think it’s bad form not to pay the full price. I’ve said before that if I go see a well-reviewed movie and am disappointed or dislike the experience, I don’t demand that Steven Spielberg or Meryl Streep cough up a refund. And for what I’ve paid to see lousy Broadway shows, I could have funded a much better time with a provider. And providers have to deal with so many flakes who waste their time and energy that always paying the agreed upon fee is the right thing to do, even if we are dissatisfied. And it makes us all look a little better. Plus I still feel guilty that many years ago I met an obliging fellow at Stella’s in NYC. We stopped at the atm walking back to my hotel where I placed the money on the dresser. When I was packing to check out the next morning, I found $40 on the floor behind the dresser. To this day, it pains me that there is a great guy out there who thinks I’m a lying cheap-ass cheat. No cells phones then, no email, I had no way to find him. I suppose if I had ever been in a dangerous situation or felt threatened, I might feel differently about that isolated incident, but fortunately I never been anywhere close to that kind of experience. And I treat my expenditures like I do playing at casinos-I decide how much I want to play and stop when I hit that limit. When or lose, I had a good time and don’t demand a partial refund because blackjack took all my money. I hope no one is overspending what they can afford or deliberately trying to short change the provider. That’s just tacky and a bad path to take. And if we feel entitled to withhold payment for service we deem substandard, then providers should feel to ask for more when we are late or rude or spent hours asking a million bullshit questions or were too drunk to string together a complete thought or unhygienic or just plain obnoxious. I know I’m over the top on this, but follow through on your commitment and honor your word-even when it’s hard or feels unfair. Especially if it’s hard or feels unfair. Don’t be a cheapskate like I was.

I remember the moon landing and MLK shooting. I also remember when Judy garland died (which speaks volumes). It wasn’t actually Judy I remember but a television announcer who said that Dorothy died. I was my dad’s television remote before the corded remote became an option. I remember looking at my older brother’s Playboys that he tried to hide. Little Annie Fannie anyone? One issue had a picture of a full frontal nude Harry Reems of Deep Throat fame. It was the first non family man I saw naked. I realized then that the world might be a little different than I had previously imagined. Mark Spitz confirmed that feeling-or it might have been vice versa. Imagine what happened when I saw my first After Dark and PlayGirl magazines. And the bicentennial seemed to consume 1976 with Betty Ford doing the last bicentennial minute. There was literally a line around a city block to see Barbra’s A Star is Born. Saturday night was All in the Family, Bob Newhart, Mary Tyler Moore and Carol Burnett. There must have been another show but I don’t remember it. Saturday was the only day we watched television—cartoons in the morning, and then little league and the library took up the day. Diary Queen was in between the field and the library— heaven on earth. Although the kids in my family only got to watch TV on Saturday it seemed like my parents always watched it. In high school, swim team practice started in the nude because we began so God awful early, way before the sun came up, and no one was there to unlock the laundry room. Laps were naked but the assistant coach retrieved the bundle of micro suits that we wore for the rest of practice. They seemed to accentuate the big dicks that some lucky boys sported. Coach threw the suits at us in the water because we had to put them on before the girl’s joined us in the pool. They had shorter practice and seemed to use only a tiny part of the pool which may be why I remember title ix emerging. I took a royal manuel typewriter to college. I constantly used the card catalog so I could type my papers. My junior year I got an IBM selectric typewriter with a black ribbon AND a correction ribbon. I was convinced that technology could go no further. I took a computer programming class, but it was keypunch card, garbage in/garbage out process and you had to learn two numerical languages. I was unimpressed and predicted computers would never catch on. I could have bought Apple early on. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Funny that the topic was what was I old enough to remember and I took myself through college. Some people, they just cant follow directions.

I remember the moon landing and MLK shooting. I also remember when Judy garland died (which speaks volumes). It wasn’t actually Judy I remember but a television announcer who said that Dorothy died. I was my dad’s television remote before the corded remote became an option. I remember looking at my older brother’s Playboys that he tried to hide. Little Annie Fannie anyone? One issue had a picture of a full frontal nude Harry Reems of Deep Throat fame. It was the first non family man I saw naked. I realized then that the world might be a little different than I had previously imagined. Mark Spitz confirmed that feeling-or it might have been vice versa. Imagine what happened when I saw my first After Dark and PlayGirl magazines. And the bicentennial seemed to consume 1976 with Betty Ford doing the last bicentennial minute. There was literally a line around a city block to see Barbra’s A Star is Born. Saturday night was All in the Family, Bob Newhart, Mary Tyler Moore and Carol Burnett. There must have been another show but I don’t remember it. Saturday was the only day we watched television—cartoons in the morning, and then little league and the library took up the day. Diary Queen was in between the field and the library— heaven on earth. Although the kids in my family only got to watch TV on Saturday it seemed like my parents always watched it. In high school, swim team practice started in the nude because we began so God awful early, way before the sun came up, and no one was there to unlock the laundry room. Laps were naked but the assistant coach retrieved the bundle of micro suits that we wore for the rest of practice. They seemed to accentuate the big dicks that some lucky boys sported. Coach threw the suits at us in the water because we had to put them on before the girl’s joined us in the pool. They had shorter practice and seemed to use only a tiny part of the pool which may be why I remember title ix emerging. I took a royal manuel typewriter to college. I constantly used the card catalog so I could type my papers. My junior year I got an IBM selectric typewriter with a black ribbon AND a correction ribbon. I was convinced that technology could go no further. I took a computer programming class, but it was keypunch card, garbage in/garbage out process and you had to learn two numerical languages. I was unimpressed and predicted computers would never catch on. I could have bought Apple early on. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Funny that the topic was what was I old enough to remember and I took myself through college. Some people, they just cant follow directions.

I love that you can take meat from the freezer directly to the insta pot. It adds a few minutes to the cook time, but not defrosting needed.

I posted this before so the repeat is not senility, I just love telling the story. When I was in Tucson several years ago, I hired a provider to join me in my hotel room. The next morning, I ordered Uber for a ride to the airport and it was the same guy. Not many providers or Uber drivers back then but he was equally adept at both. And once in Sacramento, I asked the hotel concierge where I could buy a disposable razor. He was helping someone else and said he’d call me as soon as he finished with them. About 20 minutes later there as a knock on my door and he was there with a razor. i asked him in so I could get a tip and he saw the adult all-male website on my computer screen. He said he was off in an hour and for 50 bucks we could play with his giant cock. And we did.

And I know I sound like a pious Pollyanna. Love me despite my failings.

I’ve learned so much. These gentlemen helped me vision what the next phase of my life was going to look like. After leaving a long time marriage that was totally monogamous I knew the future was going to be unlike my past. I’ve been so impressed how my providers take pride in their work and want to do a good job. It made sex fun, exciting and liberating—no shame, no apologies. They reminded me the value of clear, concise communication and to be comfortable in my own skin. In addition to their obvious physical attributes, it’s their generosity of spirit that proved revelatory. They made me feel like I am good at the physical part (and I know better) but more importantly they made me feel I was good at the human being part. Its now been dozens and dozens of hires over the years and while they weren’t all home runs, I don’t regret any (maybe one). I used to marvel what it would be like to have a job where everyone is glad to see you because I’m always glad to see them. They have earned my respect and gratitude.

[TABLE] [TR] [TD]Stars might be overstating some of the honored players below, but it was great fun. One of the gentleman below asked if we could watch his videos during our time together. I never play a provider’s videos while they are there. Seems tacky, but he told some funny and/or hot stories from the productions. Another accidentally showed me a picture on his phone of a naked A-list actor. The provider was horrified. He was showing me a renovation project he did and had forgotten he had hidden the photo in that file. He had signed a non-disclosure and didn’t mean to share, even though it was hot. I won’t reveal any of the names from above, but below is my list. Allen Silver-Total pleasure. Comfortable in his own skin. Could not have been any sexier. And such good manners. Easy to book and genuinely handsome. And charm to spare.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD][/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Jake deckard-long ago, but wow. Hot, great conversationalist. I did almost have a heart attack when a cat jumped on me[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Matt Cole-more than an hour late, but stayed 90 minutes. Hot, but a little distracted[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Matt Stevens-total pro. Total hotness and a sense of humor.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Dereck Atlas-one of my favorites. I know he gets bad marks, but not from me. Seen twice. Very punctual, arrived clear eyed and incredibly into it. Once came back 30 minutes later because he had walked off with my phone charger and wanted to return it. We had a drink at the bar and played some games of chance. My experiences have been awesome.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Johnny Hazzard-A+. We were almost to the end of our time, and I asked if he could stay a little longer (for additional $ of course). He said yes but that he had to make a phone call. He dialed and I heard him say, Ma, I am going to have to call you tomorrow. Good to his mother and sexy af. What more do you want? Genuinely charismatic and so much more than his porn career[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Blue Bailey-so enthusiastic. Boyishly handsome and hung out for a while afterwards. Visiting my then city and I think wanted company. Nice.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Jason Crew-arrived a few minutes early. Took a while to get to full staff, but he did and it was worth the wait. This was early in his career [/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Preston Johnson-early in his career. So fit, radiated good health.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Zachery Scott-another great experience. Still a looker and genuinely fun.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Jett Rink-by chance, was staying at the same hotel as me. When I asked him what time was convenient, he said I’m one floor down. Anytime after 10 minutes is good for me. A little introverted, but we had a good time.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Tommy Regan-an hour early, knocking on my next door neighbors door. I was horrified I had texted the wrong info, but I hadn’t. Great fun[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Cliff Rhodes-one of the few who arrived needing a shower, but worth the wait.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Joey Milano-Incredibly handsome. terrific, clean, smelled great. Very sexy and such a good time. Seen a few times-to date.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Brendan Cage-had an appointment cancel and I contacted Brendan short notice. He said yes and showed up looking better than in his films. Fit, trim. Said about 5o times that he was straight, often while doing some pretty gay things.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Buster Sly-even sexier in person. Total pro and good sport. Really good communication.[/TD] [/TR] [/TABLE]

i read this discussion with great interest and want to add one additional point. As a long time client, I’ve had the pleasure of meeting many providers in many cities over the years. I agree with the comment that most providers want to do a good job and value their reputations. The vast majority of my experiences have been extremely positive and I really value the time spent. But shit happens. Once, I was getting ready for a provider‘s arrival and nicked my ball sac trying to do a quick touch up with a new razor. I was really looking forward to meeting this person, but the tiny cut hurt and threw me off. We had a good time but no where near where I thought it would be. And adding insult to injury, it healed within hours and I ended up jerking off all by myself which I can do for free. If the roles were reversed, I still would have paid the full amount even if he couldn’t meet expectations. And while 30 minutes of a three hour appointment is tough, I still think it’s the right thing to do. I feel strongly about this because I have heard horror stories about the flakey clients who seem to invent ways not to pay Or they want to barter and offer a belt or something stupid in exchange. The grocery store is not going to accept your belt for food, no matter how cool it is. I don’t think that is the case here, I do think it’s important to build a social safety net for these providers who have to put up with so much shit. The number of inquiries that convert to appointments must be low. I would even guess that some of the inquiries are used to get off or waste time, without any intention of actually ever booking any time. As long as there was a good faith effort from the provider to perform the service when the appointment was booked, pay him. It makes us all look good. If there is a safety issue or an intentional scam, it’s a different story. But as I said, shit happens and I would hope good clients would step up and do the right thing, even if only to help make amends for the nightmare clients. Even the best of us can have an off night and deserve a little empathy.

These are awesome responses. Thanks for taking time to share your insights. As I think about it now, I think the reception guy was just an asshole. If I had told a million other people about fees, I still would not have told him. Or maybe I’m the asshole. No, had to be him.

I recently relocated to Palm Springs where I have met some great local escorts, and actually have become friends with a few. But in PS, everyone know your business. I was in a local store and saw two former hires who were not there together. I was delighted to see both and since they were on their own, I said hello. A few days later, another man I didn’t know approached me at a reception telling me we had a mutual friend—one of the escorts who he saw me hug at the store! He immediately wanted to know how much I compensated my escort friend. Even though he told me his payment, I didn’t offer up the info because I think the ultimate fee determination is a private conversation between me and my provider. That’s how the provider makes a living, not my business to compare with strangers. And yet, I might have been more forthcoming with a range if the man was considering hiring the gentleman for the first time. That’s potentially building my provider’s client base, but the “compare and contrast“ seemed tacky. I may be overthinking this and I’m usually open and uninhibited. I can be naked and do the deed in front of strangers, but the talk of money between strangers seemed too private. I don’t mind making recommendations of superior providers with their permission! And I ask if they are okay with me sharing a recommendation when I meet them. (I’m surprised how many prefer I don’t). And I am lucky to have had a positive experience with nearly every provider I’ve ever met (and we‘re in the hundreds now) but this price comparison hit me wrong. I feel like I owe some discretion since I ask for the same. Could l make a longer post out of a simple question? I just jumping back in to the forums-I’ll do better and shorter in the future. What say you providers? Yes to discussing your fees with other clients? Is it different if it’s a prospective client? Should I just get over myself and believe that all publicity is good and be forthright? Or how would you like the information presented?

Ha. Great answers. Has anyone actually met him?

Any info? https://rent.men/boytoynxtdoor/

That's my best Uber story. I do use Uber quite a bit. Not perfect, but has served me well. I prefer cabs in New York because they know where they are going and Uber drivers can be glued to the GPS and at a loss if there is something blocking the route, which happens in NYC. But, there are times of day where getting a cab is impossible -- 4:15 in the financial district--impossible, so I do use Uber. But on the actual topic, I have used Uber to pick up an escort. Never had any issue, but I did have an escort decline to be picked up because he was concerned about his privacy. After we met, he had no issue taking one home.

Definitely a good time. Saw him in DC last year. Well worth it