Jay DC

[TABLE] [TR] [TD]Stars might be overstating some of the honored players below, but it was great fun. One of the gentleman below asked if we could watch his videos during our time together. I never play a provider’s videos while they are there. Seems tacky, but he told some funny and/or hot stories from the productions. Another accidentally showed me a picture on his phone of a naked A-list actor. The provider was horrified. He was showing me a renovation project he did and had forgotten he had hidden the photo in that file. He had signed a non-disclosure and didn’t mean to share, even though it was hot. I won’t reveal any of the names from above, but below is my list. Allen Silver-Total pleasure. Comfortable in his own skin. Could not have been any sexier. And such good manners. Easy to book and genuinely handsome. And charm to spare.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD][/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Jake deckard-long ago, but wow. Hot, great conversationalist. I did almost have a heart attack when a cat jumped on me[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Matt Cole-more than an hour late, but stayed 90 minutes. Hot, but a little distracted[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Matt Stevens-total pro. Total hotness and a sense of humor.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Dereck Atlas-one of my favorites. I know he gets bad marks, but not from me. Seen twice. Very punctual, arrived clear eyed and incredibly into it. Once came back 30 minutes later because he had walked off with my phone charger and wanted to return it. We had a drink at the bar and played some games of chance. My experiences have been awesome.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Johnny Hazzard-A+. We were almost to the end of our time, and I asked if he could stay a little longer (for additional $ of course). He said yes but that he had to make a phone call. He dialed and I heard him say, Ma, I am going to have to call you tomorrow. Good to his mother and sexy af. What more do you want? Genuinely charismatic and so much more than his porn career[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Blue Bailey-so enthusiastic. Boyishly handsome and hung out for a while afterwards. Visiting my then city and I think wanted company. Nice.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Jason Crew-arrived a few minutes early. Took a while to get to full staff, but he did and it was worth the wait. This was early in his career [/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Preston Johnson-early in his career. So fit, radiated good health.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Zachery Scott-another great experience. Still a looker and genuinely fun.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Jett Rink-by chance, was staying at the same hotel as me. When I asked him what time was convenient, he said I’m one floor down. Anytime after 10 minutes is good for me. A little introverted, but we had a good time.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Tommy Regan-an hour early, knocking on my next door neighbors door. I was horrified I had texted the wrong info, but I hadn’t. Great fun[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Cliff Rhodes-one of the few who arrived needing a shower, but worth the wait.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Joey Milano-Incredibly handsome. terrific, clean, smelled great. Very sexy and such a good time. Seen a few times-to date.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Brendan Cage-had an appointment cancel and I contacted Brendan short notice. He said yes and showed up looking better than in his films. Fit, trim. Said about 5o times that he was straight, often while doing some pretty gay things.[/TD] [/TR] [TR] [TD]Buster Sly-even sexier in person. Total pro and good sport. Really good communication.[/TD] [/TR] [/TABLE]

i read this discussion with great interest and want to add one additional point. As a long time client, I’ve had the pleasure of meeting many providers in many cities over the years. I agree with the comment that most providers want to do a good job and value their reputations. The vast majority of my experiences have been extremely positive and I really value the time spent. But shit happens. Once, I was getting ready for a provider‘s arrival and nicked my ball sac trying to do a quick touch up with a new razor. I was really looking forward to meeting this person, but the tiny cut hurt and threw me off. We had a good time but no where near where I thought it would be. And adding insult to injury, it healed within hours and I ended up jerking off all by myself which I can do for free. If the roles were reversed, I still would have paid the full amount even if he couldn’t meet expectations. And while 30 minutes of a three hour appointment is tough, I still think it’s the right thing to do. I feel strongly about this because I have heard horror stories about the flakey clients who seem to invent ways not to pay Or they want to barter and offer a belt or something stupid in exchange. The grocery store is not going to accept your belt for food, no matter how cool it is. I don’t think that is the case here, I do think it’s important to build a social safety net for these providers who have to put up with so much shit. The number of inquiries that convert to appointments must be low. I would even guess that some of the inquiries are used to get off or waste time, without any intention of actually ever booking any time. As long as there was a good faith effort from the provider to perform the service when the appointment was booked, pay him. It makes us all look good. If there is a safety issue or an intentional scam, it’s a different story. But as I said, shit happens and I would hope good clients would step up and do the right thing, even if only to help make amends for the nightmare clients. Even the best of us can have an off night and deserve a little empathy.

These are awesome responses. Thanks for taking time to share your insights. As I think about it now, I think the reception guy was just an asshole. If I had told a million other people about fees, I still would not have told him. Or maybe I’m the asshole. No, had to be him.

I recently relocated to Palm Springs where I have met some great local escorts, and actually have become friends with a few. But in PS, everyone know your business. I was in a local store and saw two former hires who were not there together. I was delighted to see both and since they were on their own, I said hello. A few days later, another man I didn’t know approached me at a reception telling me we had a mutual friend—one of the escorts who he saw me hug at the store! He immediately wanted to know how much I compensated my escort friend. Even though he told me his payment, I didn’t offer up the info because I think the ultimate fee determination is a private conversation between me and my provider. That’s how the provider makes a living, not my business to compare with strangers. And yet, I might have been more forthcoming with a range if the man was considering hiring the gentleman for the first time. That’s potentially building my provider’s client base, but the “compare and contrast“ seemed tacky. I may be overthinking this and I’m usually open and uninhibited. I can be naked and do the deed in front of strangers, but the talk of money between strangers seemed too private. I don’t mind making recommendations of superior providers with their permission! And I ask if they are okay with me sharing a recommendation when I meet them. (I’m surprised how many prefer I don’t). And I am lucky to have had a positive experience with nearly every provider I’ve ever met (and we‘re in the hundreds now) but this price comparison hit me wrong. I feel like I owe some discretion since I ask for the same. Could l make a longer post out of a simple question? I just jumping back in to the forums-I’ll do better and shorter in the future. What say you providers? Yes to discussing your fees with other clients? Is it different if it’s a prospective client? Should I just get over myself and believe that all publicity is good and be forthright? Or how would you like the information presented?

Ha. Great answers. Has anyone actually met him?

Any info? https://rent.men/boytoynxtdoor/

That's my best Uber story. I do use Uber quite a bit. Not perfect, but has served me well. I prefer cabs in New York because they know where they are going and Uber drivers can be glued to the GPS and at a loss if there is something blocking the route, which happens in NYC. But, there are times of day where getting a cab is impossible -- 4:15 in the financial district--impossible, so I do use Uber. But on the actual topic, I have used Uber to pick up an escort. Never had any issue, but I did have an escort decline to be picked up because he was concerned about his privacy. After we met, he had no issue taking one home.

Definitely a good time. Saw him in DC last year. Well worth it

I actually had a good experience with him in DC. I don't do any drugs and he didn't while we were together (that I could tell). Sexy and nice to boot.

True story. I was at a hotel in Tucson AZ and hired a gentlemen caller for a midnight appointment. The next morning, I called Uber for a ride to the airport and the driver was my playmate from the night before. Fortunately, I was traveling alone and it was not awkward at all. Only Uber driver I have seen naked.