Falling in love with a scort

[thetruth]

I mean with a hot scort. How bad is it?

[+ Topseed]

Not any worse than any other ill-advised adventure. (Kidding here, gents.)

 

It can happen. It does happen.

 

Communication, realistic expectations and having a healthy sense of personal worth are essential.

[+ Lucky]

Scort?

Edited December 5, 2020 by Lucky

[Leyte2019]

I mean with a hot scort. How bad is it?

 

VERY bad. Avoid at all costs

[+ bigjoey]

[+ WestGuy]

That topic has been discussed at some length around these parts. Here is a thread:

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/what-to-do-if-your-falling-in-love-with-your-regular-masseur-or-escort.160183/post-200519

[Luv2play]

Not any worse than any other ill-advised adventure. (Kidding here, gents.)

 

It can happen. It does happen.

 

Communication, realistic expectations and having a healthy sense of personal worth are essential.

Whenever I think I might be falling in love with an escort, it’s my healthy sense of personal worth that reminds me I can’t afford it. Lol

[sexymonk]

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!

[Gymowner]

Sexymonk I couldn't have said it any better!

Helping another "person" in life is one of gods gifts he gave to us. But it has to be genuine and real. Not a self meditated "brokered" relationship. In other words, if the person left you tomorrow, would you still be proud and satisfied that you helped that person better himself in some way? Or will you be distraught that your deeds werent reciprocated?

 

Be careful guys.

[kaboom35]

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!

 

this is so true. I have accepted and ok with hiring is transactional and a lustful hobby. I’ve hired my share of plentiful guys over the years but only fell hard for one. I was with him three times but I’m so glad he disappeared otherwise it would have been a bad situation. I even told him I was falling for him.

I still haven’t hired since pandemic and I’m ok with that because it’s all just lust. If I was looking for love with an escort, I would be damn near suicidal at this point. Lol.

[Gymowner]

I think that many men blend lust with intimacy and then throw in a sprinkle of dominance/possessiveness and call the whole ball of wax a "relationship."

[Echoes2018]

If the escort felt that your falling for him, I think they see an opportunity on how he can control the relationship. You better get out while you can this type of feeling either gives you the lust or brake your bank....

[caliguy]

I mean with a hot scort. How bad is it?

Sounds like you're mistaking lust for love.

[orville]

I mean with a hot scort. How bad is it?

Just an illusion. You can't think straight because of

that make you feel great when you're with him.

There is nothing wrong with feeling great. Your best reality check is looking at your bank account after you have had sex with him.

[+ nycman]

I mean with a hot scort. How bad is it?

I feel like we’re dancing around the same bush over and over again.....

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/how-to-tell-if-a-scort-is-really-into-you-enjoying-his-work-or-if-hes-just-a-really-good-performer.161681/

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/what-not-to-do-when-hiring-a-scort.161677/#post-2024119

 

If all these threads you started yesterday are serious, I think you should reconsider pursuing this hobby.

I‘m not sure you’ve got the maturity to handle it and I honestly don’t think it’s going to end well.

[Gymowner]

bravo nycman...bravo!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I feel like we’re dancing around the same bush over and over again.....

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/how-to-tell-if-a-scort-is-really-into-you-enjoying-his-work-or-if-hes-just-a-really-good-performer.161681/

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/what-not-to-do-when-hiring-a-scort.161677/#post-2024119

 

If all these threads you started yesterday are serious, I think you should reconsider pursuing this hobby.

I‘m not sure you’ve got the maturity to handle it and I honestly don’t think it’s going to end well.

 

This. 100%.

 

The multitude of posts along with the silly slang already make it feel like it's trolling.

[littlenut]

[Luv2play]

I think it terrible she’s keeping her drummer up after his bedtime.

[+ sync]

"Looking for love in all the wrong places."

[sutherland]

Go to 4:22 on the youtube video link below. Tim from Adonis Lounge tells why falling in love is a no-no

 

[thetruth]

This. 100%.

 

The multitude of posts along with the silly slang already make it feel like it's trolling.

 

Why trolling? These accusations are not healthy.

[thetruth]

I feel like we’re dancing around the same bush over and over again.....

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/how-to-tell-if-a-scort-is-really-into-you-enjoying-his-work-or-if-hes-just-a-really-good-performer.161681/

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/what-not-to-do-when-hiring-a-scort.161677/#post-2024119

 

If all these threads you started yesterday are serious, I think you should reconsider pursuing this hobby.

I‘m not sure you’ve got the maturity to handle it and I honestly don’t think it’s going to end well.

 

I know.

 

Yesterday I asked the mod to delete two of those threads via the report button but it seems he didn't get it.

[former lurker]

I know.

 

Yesterday I asked the mod to delete two of those threads via the report button but it seems he didn't get it.

 

So why start yet another one?

[robberbaron4u]

A traditional receipe for unhappiness complimented by misery. . .