Client best practices

[dbar123]

If you plan to play safe, make it clear with the provider as to who will be supplying condoms and lube. If your escort asks you to bring condoms, make sure you know what brand/size works for them.

[Jamie21]

I give great service to clients who are respectful, turn up on time, are clean and who agree the services beforehand. Anyone late, unhygienic or who makes unreasonable demands gets no extra time and a perfunctory service. Fortunately it’s possible to identify the time wasters and disrespectful clients when they contact to book (I’ve an algorithm for it!) so I can avoid accepting those bookings. There aren’t many bad clients luckily.

[cany10011]

I booked a multi day session so I was hoping he might plan something special for that particular day.

Perhaps a morning blowjob without asking???

[Islesguy]

Perhaps a morning blowjob without asking???

Sounds like a great way to start the day especially if he wakes me up doing it. ?

[cany10011]

Sounds like a great way to start the day especially if he wakes me up doing it. ?

A russian escort i met in copenhagen did that to me on an overnight...and I had to work meeting the next day at 8 and he woke up before me at 6:30, washed himself, rinsed and came back to bed and serviced me without even being asked ... i was so thrilled that i gave him a big tip

[CheckCar]

I think being early is good as long as there's good communication and no expectations. I've set up a few appts saying I might be early. And other times when I arrive faster than expected, I just let them know I'm nearby and they can let me know when they are ready. I mean really, if they are available and can free up 10-15 min on the other end of the appt, why not? Twice I've encountered traveling escorts/masseurs who were running appts back-to-back and were obvious about it. That's their fault for scheduling so tight. With the masseur in question, I passed the previous client in the hotel hallway on my way in and the next client as I was leaving. (Saw them leaving/entering the masseur's room.)

Tangent: the back-to-back scheduling is a huge pet peeve.

[thedanNYC]

A russian escort i met in copenhagen did that to me on an overnight...and I had to work meeting the next day at 8 and he woke up before me at 6:30, washed himself, rinsed and came back to bed and serviced me without even being asked ... i was so thrilled that i gave him a big tip

 

Just the tip?

[NikoLeto]

When I arrive early (often 10-15 minutes), I usually text the provider something like "Parking was easier than I expected, and I'm nearby. Text me when you're ready... no rush."

 

Is this appropriate, or am I still guilty of a social faux pas?

 

Living in the middle of a big city, clients tend to arrive in a large window of time (as much as 30 minutes early and 15 minutes late). I personally never stack clients if it can be helped. I like anywhere between 30 minutes to an hour and 30 minutes between clients, if for no other reason than to collect myself and reboot. I would appreciate the notice, and the "no rush" signals to me that it's OK if I keep you waiting 10 minutes and the appointment begins on time, or if I bring you up immediately and the session begins early.

 

Now, if I set kissing/rimming/anal as my prearranged request and then I say I want to add bondage into the mix after we get started, then that's on me.

 

lol, forgive me, who decides that they're feeling like a little (edit:) bondage in the middle of a session.

Edited September 29, 2020 by NikoLeto

[Daverwr]

Okay, I want an honest answer. None of this “anything is appreciated” crap. I want to really know what is a decent tip on a rate of say, $300. What would be a bummer of a tip? And what would be an amazing remembered tip? Be honest!

[cany10011]

Okay, I want an honest answer. None of this “anything is appreciated” crap. I want to really know what is a decent tip on a rate of say, $300. What would be a bummer of a tip? And what would be an amazing remembered tip? Be honest!

I gave the russian escort who woke me up with a morning BJ a 100$ tip. He didn’t expect it and Was very happy. Normally, i don’t tip, but just give repeat business.

[+ jrhoutex]

Okay, I want an honest answer. None of this “anything is appreciated” crap. I want to really know what is a decent tip on a rate of say, $300. What would be a bummer of a tip? And what would be an amazing remembered tip? Be honest!

 

$50 is a reasonable tip. Of course, I'm sure $100 would certainly be remembered.

[urbanfetish]

lol, forgive me, who decides that they're feeling like a little bo

 

I just meant if I forgot to include a want/desire in my initial request and brought it up after meeting. Could be anything - kissing, sucking, fucking, fisting, role play, etc. ?‍♂️

[NikoLeto]

I just meant if I forgot to include a want/desire in my initial request and brought it up after meeting. Could be anything - kissing, sucking, fucking, fisting, role play, etc. ?‍♂️

 

Ah, that sounds much more feasible. I feel like bondage requires certain physical elements that must be brought with: ropes, handcuffs, etc.

[+ JEC]

Here are a few suggestions:

• Don't waste the providers time with too many txts. Try to get to your confirmed appt in a few txts.
  
• Be clear (communicate) about what you want out of the appointment, be as specific as possible.
  
• Be respectful. While it is a client/provider relationship; both are humans, have needs and deserve to be respected.
  
• Always use the term "donation for your time only" when asking rates.
  
• Shower just before your appt if you are able, and use breath mints or mouthwash.
  
• Ask permission before doing things which might be considered disrespectful - like spitting, slapping, being verbal etc.
  
• Ask about and respect likes/dislikes and if anything is off limits, for example some ppl don't like nipple play, being tickled, cologne, etc.
  
• Generally, don't wear cologne, avoid deodorant unless you have a BO problem. Nothing worse than someone reeking of bad cologne.
  
• I generally try to provide some info about my stats. This will be controversial to some as there have been active threads on this topic, but my MO is there should be no surprises.
  
• Check in during your appt - How are you doing? Everything OK?
  

[Alex93108]

I agree with don't be early. 

Always give the provider the option.  Sometimes I offer a pic of myself non sexual for identification purposes. 

 

You should have specified what you plan to do. If its a duo this needs to be spelled out. 

Also if its a Brazilian provider - just assume you're paying for uber to from unless otherwise specified. 

As for tipping : I follow practices local to a place. I don't tip just because I'm from US.   I travel a lot and the tipping thing ( as soon as everyone hears American accents ) has TOTALLY gone out of control 

Edited January 25, 2022 by jetlow

[+ Tygerscent]

On 9/10/2020 at 8:23 AM, 7829V said:

Hello... I was wondering what would be the best practices for a client, so they make a good impression on the escort.

 

I can think of the following:

 

Arrive on time

If late notify ahead of time

Don't discuss money in exchange of sexual activities

 

Any others...?

Respect your own and their boundaries. Don’t negotiate wages once there: Iron all that out before hand. Allow yourself and the other person to have fun. Treat each other like human beings not like fuck machines or atm’s, be flexible: if you’re expecting everything to go exactly the way you have it planned in your head you will probably find yourself disappointed on some level. Sometimes the most magnificent Time shared with another person can be those that are completely unplanned and unexpected…

[+ Tygerscent]

On 9/28/2020 at 2:26 PM, urbanfetish said:

 

I just meant if I forgot to include a want/desire in my initial request and brought it up after meeting. Could be anything - kissing, sucking, fucking, fisting, role play, etc. ?‍♂️

Fishing and roe play~? Niccccccce~ Mmmmmmm… and kissing~ Mmmmmm

[xyz48B]

On 2/6/2022 at 5:04 AM, Tygerscent said:

be flexible: if you’re expecting everything to go exactly the way you have it planned in your head you will probably find yourself disappointed on some level. Sometimes the most magnificent Time shared with another person can be those that are completely unplanned and unexpected…

This is good advice. I’ve learned to share a broader explanation of what I’m looking for, and if there’s confusion, provide an example. It’s best to just go with flow after that and hope for the best. Especially if it’s an overnight BFE. You can program and script every moment. You’re not shooting a storyline porno.