Jump to content

The Psychology of Eating Ass

Quincy_7

By Quincy_7
in The Lounge

 Share
This topic is 1418 days old and is no longer open for new replies.  Replies are automatically disabled after two years of inactivity.  Please create a new topic instead of posting here.  

Recommended Posts

marylander1940 Grand Master

marylander1940

Posted
Posted (edited)

Never done it. Don't really plan to. I fast forward or turn off porn when they stead spending too much time on rimming, stretching, or fingering themselves. But it's not just ani. I'm not that fond of giving head or the taste of cum either although I'm a lot more likely to give head (and have occasionally) than I am to rim.

 

Gman

 

We know... you've already told us several times.

This ain't the first time there's a thread about rimming and you post to say how gross it is to do it and the fact that you never done and never will. If there was a thread about fisting I wouldn't even open it to say that I've never done and I don't want to ever try it as a top or a recipient. I would just ignore it.

 

Straight guys eat pussy to give pleasure to their partner.

 

Sex with you would be so boring.

 

Escorts can handle most type of sex.

Edited by marylander1940
Link to comment
Share on other sites
  • Replies 78
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Popular Days

Top Posters In This Topic

Popular Days

bendable2019 Mentor

bendable2019

Posted
Posted

Did I mention I really really dislike the idea of kissing someone who is into rimming-even if it's me that they just rimmed. I try to forget that they have probably been rimming others.

 

Gman

Oh dear. From your ass into your mouth wanting to kiss... yikes

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Snbrd Experienced

+ Snbrd

Posted
Posted (edited)

I think that eating ass, as many aspects of sex, is about power. The top is basically getting the bottom ready to be fucked, even if that does not happen, the power to prepare him for sex in that manner is an exertion of power. Even if the bottom is enjoying it, the power of bringing the bottom joy in this manner is also a power turn on. I rarely get my ass eaten and I rarely bottom. When I go have my ass eaten, I still try to take a dominant role by grabbing his head and forcing him deep into me. I will also pushy ass back and a favorite is to sit on his face and smother him with my ass.

When I am the one doing the eating, rarely do the bottoms try to dominate, though I wish they would because if they cannot succeed, that would be an even bigger turn on.

 

I guess you might infer I like power and control. But while feeling of power is a big turn on, I do not have to be in control to feel that way. My partner's enjoyment is very empowering to me.

Wow purplekow! What an amazing insight on this interesting thread. I'm not crazy about rimming and usually give or receive more to please a partner than myself. However, some of the very best, take control, high stamina tops I've been with were big ass eaters. And I got into it. Before your thread I hadn't connected the dots.

When I was young and inexperienced I used to play with a hung guy but got nervous looking at his big tool. After he vigorously rimmed me I was begging for it!

Edited by Snbrd
Link to comment
Share on other sites
KrisParr Mentor

KrisParr

Posted
Posted

My first plunge between the cheeks happened many years ago when I had a “date” with a college-aged escort at his place. The only furniture in his apartment was a sheet-covered mattress on the floor in the living room, and not much else. He was gorgeous with curly golden hair and chiseled bod. I was new to the game and so was he. After a little hug and kiss, he reclined on the “bed” where I proceeded to give him my best oral effort on his magnificent tool. After a bit, my jaw was getting a little tired so we took a break. A beer later, we were ready to resume when he flipped over. I was more than ready to oblige in the traditional style when he asked me to eat his ass. Holy shit - er, uh, I mean, okay, why not. I started with some long licks down the crack and it was great. But then he took his fingers and spread those plump buns wide open and hell, I nose-dived right on in. I ate him like a sweet melon, and his encouragement never stopped. Finally, he was practically begging for phallic penetration which I gladly provided. We met several more times, and each ass buffet just got better and better. Has been a regular menu item since then. Which reminds me, I hope Victor Powers is reading this.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
TruthBTold Grand Master

TruthBTold

Posted
Posted

and to make him want him to fuck him. He just can't say no after that. Is similar to a guy eating pussy to make her desire him more.

 

There is a little bit of so much that has been discussed, at least for me. The first thing is that I want to please him and to know that I am pleasing him. I want to hear him moan and to rim harder and deeper. And then I am so pleased because I have pleased him. I do not necessarily have to fuck him but in general I think that at this point he figures that is what I want to do so he does those things that get me ready to fuck him. But if I really want it to go the other way, I just rim and suck him. And then go to just sucking him and that usually revs him up so that he gets ready to fuck him. (Hope it is not too explicit.) At any rate, for me, it really is not about power because he has a lot of control over the situation. I suppose in a way it is a versatile control but a mutual pleasure. And, of course, I would have asked him before we even got together if he enjoyed it because it is so much of my enjoyment that I do not think I would want to force him into that situation.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
TruthBTold Grand Master

TruthBTold

Posted
Posted

and to make him want him to fuck him. He just can't say no after that. Is similar to a guy eating pussy to make her desire him more.

 

There is a little bit of so much that has been discussed, at least for me. The first thing is that I want to please him and to know that I am pleasing him. I want to hear him moan and to rim harder and deeper. And then I am so pleased because I have pleased him. I do not necessarily have to fuck him but in general I think that at this point he figures that is what I want to do so he does those things that get me ready to fuck him. But if I really want it to go the other way, I just rim and suck him. And then go to just sucking him and that usually revs him up so that he gets ready to fuck him. (Hope it is not too explicit.) At any rate, for me, it really is not about power because he has a lot of control over the situation. I suppose in a way it is a versatile control but a mutual pleasure. And, of course, I would have asked him before we even got together if he enjoyed it because it is so much of my enjoyment that I do not think I would want to force him into that situation.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Rudynate Grand Master

Rudynate

Posted
Posted

Eating my bottom's ass is one of my favourite parts of sex. The thing is, before I became sexually active and when I was just in high school watching porn I always used to get really turned off by rimming. It always just seemed "icky" to me. With one of the first few guys I messed around with I just remember being really enamoured with how big his ass was and without thinking I just dove my tongue into his hole. Since then I've been hooked.

 

One thing I've never been able to explain to myself is why I enjoy eating ass. Has anyone ever thought about the psychology of rimming and what makes it so attractive to the giver?

I had a FB a long time ago. I was in my mid twenties and he was a little older, maybe early 30s. This guy was extremely attractive-as we had sex, I would look at him and couldn't believe that I got to do it with him, not once but over and over. The thing was, all he wanted to do was lay there with his legs in the air and get rimmed. It seemed kind of one sided to me and not that satisfying. I couldn't say no to him-he was too hot. I found though that the more I rimmed him, the better I liked it until I actually looked foward to the next time I could lick his ass.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Rudynate Grand Master

Rudynate

Posted
Posted

Eating my bottom's ass is one of my favourite parts of sex. The thing is, before I became sexually active and when I was just in high school watching porn I always used to get really turned off by rimming. It always just seemed "icky" to me. With one of the first few guys I messed around with I just remember being really enamoured with how big his ass was and without thinking I just dove my tongue into his hole. Since then I've been hooked.

 

One thing I've never been able to explain to myself is why I enjoy eating ass. Has anyone ever thought about the psychology of rimming and what makes it so attractive to the giver?

I had a FB a long time ago. I was in my mid twenties and he was a little older, maybe early 30s. This guy was extremely attractive-as we had sex, I would look at him and couldn't believe that I got to do it with him, not once but over and over. The thing was, all he wanted to do was lay there with his legs in the air and get rimmed. It seemed kind of one sided to me and not that satisfying. I couldn't say no to him-he was too hot. I found though that the more I rimmed him, the better I liked it until I actually looked foward to the next time I could lick his ass.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
CuriousByNature Grand Master

CuriousByNature

Posted
Posted

I don't want to sound like prude, but....

 

How does one get past the knowledge of what comes out of that orifice? No matter how squeaky clean a person might be, somewhere up that digestive tract is something most people would never want near their mouth. And wouldn't there be some unpleasant smell wafting down from further up? I find that taste is highly affected by smell, so thats why I'm asking.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
CuriousByNature Grand Master

CuriousByNature

Posted
Posted

I don't want to sound like prude, but....

 

How does one get past the knowledge of what comes out of that orifice? No matter how squeaky clean a person might be, somewhere up that digestive tract is something most people would never want near their mouth. And wouldn't there be some unpleasant smell wafting down from further up? I find that taste is highly affected by smell, so thats why I'm asking.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Rudynate Grand Master

Rudynate

Posted
Posted

Those concerns are all symptoms of being stuck in your head. Truthfully, they're not unreasonable concerns, but they will keep you from ever enjoying licking a guy's ass. There are some guys who are into dirty smelly butts, but for most people into rimming, a foundational requirement is a clean butt. Other than that, you just have to get out of your head and into that beautiful ass. It also helps if you just really love mens' asses.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Rudynate Grand Master

Rudynate

Posted
Posted

Those concerns are all symptoms of being stuck in your head. Truthfully, they're not unreasonable concerns, but they will keep you from ever enjoying licking a guy's ass. There are some guys who are into dirty smelly butts, but for most people into rimming, a foundational requirement is a clean butt. Other than that, you just have to get out of your head and into that beautiful ass. It also helps if you just really love mens' asses.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
maninsoma Grand Master

maninsoma

Posted
Posted

I don't want to sound like prude, but....

 

How does one get past the knowledge of what comes out of that orifice? No matter how squeaky clean a person might be, somewhere up that digestive tract is something most people would never want near their mouth. And wouldn't there be some unpleasant smell wafting down from further up? I find that taste is highly affected by smell, so thats why I'm asking.

 

If someone is clean, it doesn't smell or taste bad. If someone doesn't clean thoroughly, then I don't want to put my face there. It doesn't need to be deep cleaned like it would in preparation for penetration by a cock or dildo because there's no way for me to stick my tongue in there as far as either of those things would go, but one should be able to probe a little without "shit" happening.

 

I think some women don't like going down on men because pee comes out of there (and maybe some because ejaculate comes out of there). And some straight men probably don't want to lick a woman's pussy because of what can come out of there. Hell, some people have bad breath due to poor oral hygiene and I don't want to kiss them. Cleanliness is all that matters, to me anyway.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
maninsoma Grand Master

maninsoma

Posted
Posted

I don't want to sound like prude, but....

 

How does one get past the knowledge of what comes out of that orifice? No matter how squeaky clean a person might be, somewhere up that digestive tract is something most people would never want near their mouth. And wouldn't there be some unpleasant smell wafting down from further up? I find that taste is highly affected by smell, so thats why I'm asking.

 

If someone is clean, it doesn't smell or taste bad. If someone doesn't clean thoroughly, then I don't want to put my face there. It doesn't need to be deep cleaned like it would in preparation for penetration by a cock or dildo because there's no way for me to stick my tongue in there as far as either of those things would go, but one should be able to probe a little without "shit" happening.

 

I think some women don't like going down on men because pee comes out of there (and maybe some because ejaculate comes out of there). And some straight men probably don't want to lick a woman's pussy because of what can come out of there. Hell, some people have bad breath due to poor oral hygiene and I don't want to kiss them. Cleanliness is all that matters, to me anyway.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
 Share
Go to topic listing

  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.

Contact Info:

The Company of Men
5834 C. North Kings Hwy #4343
Alexandria, VA 22303

Email: moderators@companyofmen.org

Help Support Our Site

Our site operates with the support of our members. Make a one-time donation using the buttons below.

$10 $25 $50 $100 $200

Make a recurring donation

Additional Resources

×
×
  • Create New...