Have any of your escorts died before?

[+ azdr0710]

Haus Weston

Colton

[Geriatric Otter]

I met a guy once back in 2016. We only had the one session but he stuck in my mind because I'd done a bit of snooping after the session and discovered his facebook page. Out of the blue today he popped into my head and I looked him up on facebook and to my horror found that his profile had been memorialized. I found his obituary through google, he was only 23. I'm curious whether you all as clients have had escorts, or even favourites, who passed away.

Arpad, Andy Dill,Buck

[+ carlos45]

Arpad, Andy Dill,Buck

I'd forgotten about Andy Dill. He was such a sweet man.

[LaffingBear]

Not while with me, but yes

[+ purplekow]

Rod Roddick had broken up with his fiancé and stayed at my home for a few weeks. I helped him to find an apartment in NYC Within two weeks, he called me to tell me he was in the ER and that he wanted advice as to what to do. I spoke with his doctor. I then told Rod I was coming to the ER. By the time I arrived, he was already headed to ICU. After several weeks in the hospital he made it home. I visited him and he was in great spirits and he had just adopted a puppy. Within two weeks he was gone.

[Muscle Lover 2]

Arpad here also. I saw Erik Rhodes several times. Both deaths hit me hard. Both were beautiful, kind men but no one ever knows the demons people are struggling with.

[handiacefailure]

There were several guys I have contacted over the years that for one reason or other I never met who then died. One was Cody Foster. He was supposed to be meeting me. At some point communication ceased. I talked to him afterwards, he said he was picked up by the police for something.

 

The only one I think that I actually met who later died was Alexander Gustavo. It was a one time meeting for around an hour. As I recall, he was either going to drive to my hotel or motorcycle. But he ended up taking a taxi, and I ended up driving him back home. So we spent a bit more time together than the usual one hour visit.

 

Gman

 

I met Alexander just a couple weeks before he commited suicide. I had a lot of fun with him, very nice guy and chatted with me for a good half hour after. I am a diabetic and wear an insulin pump and CGM and he is an RN and was asking me questions about them. He told me about his nursing career and how he had an awful motorcycle accident and for some reason that made him go into porn and how he was planning on going back into nursing if his porn career faded and was keeping his RN license current. We are both cat lovers and both of us had Bengal cats at one time and were talking about that as well. Really surprised me after our conversation about that that he would commit suicide a couple weeks later.

 

He was an escort I was planning on hiring whenever I was in Vegas.

[+ Yellowrod]

Yes, one of my faves in the Portland area. I miss him. He was such a sweetheart.

[Luv2play]

Only one that I know. I met him and his real life lover in Montreal two years ago about this time. His porn and escort name was Jay Dymel and besides escorting he and his mate were doing porn, which had brought them to Montreal from LA. I had dinner with the two of them and then two hours of intense pleasure back at my hotel room. I saw the two of them the next day in the Gay Village having a meal in the same restaurant I was in and I said hi to them on the way out.

 

He died in June in Los Angeles a few months later, I take it from a drug overdose. There was no hint of using drugs when I was with them or suggestion of PNP, which I would have declined. He was such a sweetheart that I broke down and cried when I read the news. I think he was only 23. Such a waste of a life where so much remained to be done.

[Lookin]

Not to the point of embalming, no, but there was a guy I saw in the City twenty years back who was as close as I'd ever seen.

 

He opened the door and was chatty as can be until we moved to the bedroom. He then settled down supine on the duvet and didn't move a muscle for the next thirty minutes. I tried everything I knew to get some kind of interactive response but to no avail. I was tuckered out by the time the hour was over.

 

He continued to lie there while I got dressed and headed for the door. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw his arm reach for the envelope on the nightstand and I think I heard him counting under his breath as the door closed behind me.

 

When I got home, I doubled checked his ad and it was only then that I noticed the word 'passive' was underlined.

Edited March 29, 2021 by Lookin

[Kevin Slater]

Escorts never die, they just let you know their time is up.

 

Kevin Slater

[marylander1940]

Only one that I know. I met him and his real life lover in Montreal two years ago about this time. His porn and escort name was Jay Dymel and besides escorting he and his mate were doing porn, which had brought them to Montreal from LA. I had dinner with the two of them and then two hours of intense pleasure back at my hotel room. I saw the two of them the next day in the Gay Village having a meal in the same restaurant I was in and I said hi to them on the way out.

 

He died in June in Los Angeles a few months later, I take it from a drug overdose. There was no hint of using drugs when I was with them or suggestion of PNP, which I would have declined. He was such a sweetheart that I broke down and cried when I read the news. I think he was only 23. Such a waste of a life where so much remained to be done.

 

unfortunately that's not uncommon and sometimes clients know and enable that habit.

[Luv2play]

unfortunately that's not uncommon and sometimes clients know and enable that habit.

You’re assuming he had a drug habit. It may have been suicide.

[BaronArtz]

Yes ... twice.

 

Joey from Show Palace died of a drug overdose.

 

TJ from Gaiety also passed away.

 

These are the two that I am aware of. Sadly, there could be more.

[excelntsvc]

like several posters, i was saddened when Arpad ended his life ... i had met him when he was in Miami and we enjoyed both playtimes and the occasional dinner .. he was a classical music fan and I can remember the stir when i took him to a concert on lincoln road ... hot as hell, bright and educated ... it was a loss

[+ jessmapex]

Yes, I met an incredibly beautiful guy ( green eyes, brown hair, James Dean style looks) via backpage in 2016. We met several times while he lived in San Francisco. Although he never told me this, some minor internet sleuthing revealed he was the son of a pastor from the Midwest, a college graduate with a decent day job, and a large social circle. I really fell for him. But alas, he moved to NYC. I followed him on his Insta. He would post almost daily. One day all these RIP messages started pouring on his last Insta post. When I messaged the poster of one of those messages, I learned my guy passed away in NYC at 33 .. either suicide or accidental OD. I couldn't get out of bed for days. I remember him to this day. Such a tragedy!

Edited March 31, 2021 by jessmapex

[alexslaveboy]

Yes, one of my favorites from 2016-2017 was a Bergen county NJ based escort named Simonrexxx (not the MTV v-jay/actor/amateur porn guy.

 

This guy was 6'2" 235lbs blond tatted muscle Adonis who I was lucky enough to meet for multiple occasions!

He was a flakey hire but when he showed up they were kinky, wild mind blowing (and other things....) sessions....definitely in my top ten of meetups

 

He passed away in Florida in January 2019 at 34 sadly of a drug addiction.

[Guest]

Shouldn't the title of this string be "Have any of your escorts died later?"?

[myophile]

Yes — Big C / Colton. I only saw him a couple of times, but they were mind-blowing experiences, physically, and he was also a really sweet guy. I was very, very sad to learn that he had passed.

[+ sniper]

Not to the point of embalming, no, but there was a guy I saw in the City twenty years back who was as close as I'd ever seen.

 

He opened the door and was chatty as can be until we moved to the bedroom. He then settled down supine on the duvet and didn't move a muscle for the next thirty minutes. I tried everything I knew to get some kind of interactive response but to no avail. I was tuckered out by the time the hour was over.

 

He continued to lie there while I got dressed and headed for the door. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw his arm reach for the envelope on the nightstand and I think I heard him counting under his breath as the door closed behind me.

 

When I got home, I doubled checked his ad and it was only then that I noticed the word 'passive' was underlined.

Did this guy dance at the Gaiety by any chance? I think he went by Lance?

[+ Lucky]

One of my escorts was born again, or did someone beat me to that joke?

[Jaguar1]

Joel Curry and I met in a gay bar before he started making films or escorting. A nicer guy did not exist. We spent a few nights together before he moved to California. I still shiver when I think of his committing suicide while home for his mother's funeral.

[+ Yellowrod]

Joel Curry and I met in a gay bar before he started making films or escorting. A nicer guy did not exist. We spent a few nights together before he moved to California. I still shiver when I think of his committing suicide while home for his mother's funeral.

Joel Curry - one of my earliest porn crushes. God knows how many times I lost it watching his scene in "Dynastud".

[Guest]

Joel Curry - one of my earliest porn crushes. God knows how many times I lost it watching his scene in "Dynastud".

Another Dynastud actor who passed away young....

http://www.texasobituaryproject.org/090798christopher.html

[hotsmoothguy69]

Two that I know of have passed away. The first was a very sweet guy that went by William Cox/WC. He was from North Carolina. The second was a nice young man that went by the name Evan James.