Have any of your escorts died before?

[Quincy_7]

I met a guy once back in 2016. We only had the one session but he stuck in my mind because I'd done a bit of snooping after the session and discovered his facebook page. Out of the blue today he popped into my head and I looked him up on facebook and to my horror found that his profile had been memorialized. I found his obituary through google, he was only 23. I'm curious whether you all as clients have had escorts, or even favourites, who passed away.

[MikeBiDude]

Yes ?

[Buddy15]

Unfortunately, I've know 2. Casey Donovan (Boys in the Sand) was one of my first hires. I hired Ben Archer multiple times and then he dropped out of sight. I heard he died but haven't been able to confirm it.

[cany10011]

Sadly, yes. A very cute escort I met in Chicago a few years ago had contacted me about 6 months later stating he was planning to move to New York and needed my advice on neighborhoods. We had a nice chat and he gave me his real name. We met a few times but never hooked up again. I checked his name recently online and there was a memorial page dedicated to him. Much too young.

[+ sync]

Yes. In the late1970's I had settled on a regular who fulfilled me like none other since. Suddenly, he was not answering his phone. Shortly thereafter his phone was taken out of service. I presumed he had abruptly left the business. It was from another escort that I learned the previous escort had been murdered.

[+ Italiano]

Twice, as far as I know.

A gorgeous Russian/Mexican guy in Mexico City in the early 2000s, who shortly after I hired him (twice) started a brief but intense porn career (with a Russian name I can't recall) and who eventually I found out passed away a couple of years later.

 

The most shocking was Arpad Miklos, who took his life a couple of months after I spent a beautiful hour with, and whom I had been from time to time in touch with by texting

[buckguy]

There was a very well reviewed guy in Boston, young, Asian or Eurasian. Saw him once in 2001. Nice guy, but super concerned about hygiene——he called while I was exiting the shower to confirm he was on his way and something about freshening up, so Ifound this more ironic than annoying. He was in his mid to late 20s when he died. He was much missed here.

[+ Cash4Trash]

I had seen Arpad a couple of times as well. He mentioned that for the first time ever he had offered a summer discount and was annoyed that porn was only asking him to play daddy roles.

[+ poolboy48220]

I had a few sessions with a local guy, massage with fun after and a few times just for fun off the books. I got an email a while later from someone who must have gone through his contacts, letting people know he'd died after an abrupt sickness.

[+ nycman]

Yes. Several.

 

The last time I saw one of them, I did my usual goodbye “take care of yourself” as I saw him out the door.

 

He turned abruptly and in a completely serious voice said, “I can’t promise you anything”. Then he turned walked out into the night.

 

He was dead within a few months.

 

Years later, it still haunts me

[+ Charlie]

I hired my first escort more than forty years ago, i.e., before the AIDS epidemic, so of course I have outlived some of them.

[instudiocity]

Something about the Headline of this Thread evokes a different question to me:

 

Have any of your escorts died before?

 

Necromancy, Spirit Beings, but not escorts who have passed away after our appointment.

[+ Pensant]

Yes, he committed suicide about a year after I last saw him. It was well reported in the gay press at the time.

[+ 7829V]

Years ago. A marine I hired that was stationed in Camp Pendleton. He died in combat.

[+ Gar1eth]

There were several guys I have contacted over the years that for one reason or other I never met who then died. One was Cody Foster. He was supposed to be meeting me. At some point communication ceased. I talked to him afterwards, he said he was picked up by the police for something.

 

The only one I think that I actually met who later died was Alexander Gustavo. It was a one time meeting for around an hour. As I recall, he was either going to drive to my hotel or motorcycle. But he ended up taking a taxi, and I ended up driving him back home. So we spent a bit more time together than the usual one hour visit.

 

Gman

[spider]

Arpad for me as well. Great guy, a real hunk, fucked me silly. I’m sure there have been others who’ve dropped out of sight but I haven’t looked.

[+ deej]

Since many denizens of this site are "of a certain age", we've probably outlived more than a few of them. As Charlie mentioned, the AIDS epidemic cut a wide swath through our community. Substance abuse and suicide have also taken a toll, not to mention cancers, traffic accidents. And a few got involved in rough situations.

 

I'm usually more surprised when I learn one of my formers is alive and healthy than learning they have passed.

 

I'm still in touch with many of them, and wish I was in touch with others. And then there are those where you just don't know. And that's how it's supposed to be.

[+ carlos45]

I only hired him once, but one unforgettable man was Haus Weston. I think of our brief time together, and I am grateful, he was a kind and personable man. Whenever I pass by the hotel where we met, I think of our time together.

[Old Blue]

Androkid (presumably an assortment of medications, barely in his 20's if that),

Rod Roddick (unspecified heart disease)

Billy Herrington (car accident)

Campus dancers (Ricky, Ray)

 

Fond memories.

[Epigonos]

Yes. Josh Weston. A super nice guy.

[geoffk]

Yes. Josh Weston. A super nice guy.

I met him once in NYC. Yes he was very nice to be with. There have also been some dancers I was aquainted with that passed and a couple of guys from Niteflirt. One guy from Ohio I was talking to almost every day and the he just stopped texting.

I presume he died of something but i can't confirm it. Another guy recently died in a road rage incident in Fla. that was a shocker.

[Rod Hagen]

years ago I or someone else started a thread about escorts who have died just in the 20 years this website has been around. it was a very long list with Haus and Josh Weston and many many others. Very sad. BUT the list was a nice memorial too.

[MikeBiDude]

Forgot about Haus that makes 3 for me ? two lesser known, one OD’d in bathtub and drowned, another took his own life. All shook me up when I heard....all were in porn industry

[+ Coolwave35]

4. One I think about daily.

[+ Tygerscent]

Yes. Josh Weston. A super nice guy.

Josh Weston, arpad, cole Ryder... portland Bill, Blue Blake, Wilfred Knight, many more... (not just an escort thing though... also saw this often in the medical field).

Edited February 28, 2020 by Tygerscent