What does your provider do when the session has 'completed'?

[+ glutes]

A. Light a cigarette

B. Grab his cellular and starts texting away

C. Runs to the closest mirror to check his hair

D. Asks you, "How was that?"

[+ Keith30309]

Unlock the car doors and let me out.

 

not really

 

It varies widely.

I’ve had guys jump up, get dressed and rush out. And I’ve met others who lounge around, we order room service, etc., all off the clock.

 

A few weeks ago I met a guy at his hotel and he almost immediately picked up his laptop and started tapping away. He literally did not look up as I was chatting, washing up, getting dressed and stood at the door saying goodbye. He’s since messaged me 4 separate times to book again. I’ve chosen to avoid the conversation about why I won’t and simply say I’m unavailable.

[+ ButchAtl]

A few weeks ago I met a guy at his hotel and he almost immediately picked up his laptop and started tapping away. He literally did not look up as I was chatting, washing up, getting dressed and stood at the door saying goodbye. He’s since messaged me 4 separate times to book again. I’ve chosen to avoid the conversation about why I won’t and simply say I’m unavailable.

 

Change the laptop to a iPhone and I had the exact experience with a masseur once.

[+ Keith30309]

Change the laptop to a iPhone and I had the exact experience with a masseur once.

Did you give him any feedback - directly or indirectly?

 

I almost never share my thoughts after a poor experience. I did a few times early in hiring and every time it resulted in a somewhat defensive “I don’t remember that happening but come see me again and I promise a good time.” Giving performance feedback isn’t in my job description.

[BaronArtz]

E. lays down next to you and snuggles

[marylander1940]

Did you give him any feedback - directly or indirectly?

 

I almost never share my thoughts after a poor experience. I did a few times early in hiring and every time it resulted in a somewhat defensive “I don’t remember that happening but come see me again and I promise a good time.” Giving performance feedback isn’t in my job description.

 

Some clients are impossible to please... others just have baggage and an hour/overnight will never catch up. There was a review about someone who didn't like the lubricant used by the escort and didn't say anything at the moment like "I'm going to grab the lub I brought and is right on the table" and actually doing it... yet later took the time to write a review.

 

Some posters go into coulda woulda shoulda and if the same circumstances would happen now they would also shut up and complain about it later. I've given suggestions at the moment and I've always had a good reaction to them. Communication matters, works better than complaining later.

[+ Topseed]

Swallows. :-)

 

Seriously: light chat while we're both dressing. Provide the funds. I hold the door open.

[+ Keith30309]

Some posters go into coulda woulda shoulda and if the same circumstances would happen now they would also shut up and complain about it later. I've given suggestions at the moment and I've always had a good reaction to them. Communication matters, works better than complaining later.

If I am asked for feedback I give it.

However, from my perspective, my meetings are an investment of money and time. I know before he/I walk out the door if we will ever meet again. The money is a sunk cost however I am rarely interested in increasing my time investment when I know I’ll never recoup it and my unsolicited feedback may generate a negative backlash, no matter how constructively it’s delivered.

The laptop guy I mentioned above is a grown-up and not new to escorting AND he is a really book-smart guy. Clearly the perils of ignoring the guy who just left an envelope on your dresser eludes him and I’m not his dad or boss. If he asks I’ll tell him the truth but if he doesn’t care then why should I.

[Studsearcher]

The last year or so I’ve noticed a trend of the full time RM guys getting dressed and ready to leave or for me to leave, but they always seem to get dressed almost immediately after. I think part of this is because I’d been hiring traveling providers who are trying to fit as many appointments into the evening as possible.

 

Guys from other avenues, such as Seeking, have been more accommodating for pillow talk afterwards.

 

If I’m especially attracted to a guy, there is time remaining, and we’re at his place, I will awkwardly stay put until we use the remaining time. I’m awkward enough as it is so this isn’t a problem for me

[+ purplekow]

Usually get up and get a warm wash cloth and clean me up while I bask in the afterglow. Then they get dressed and I watch and as they are almost dressed, I start to dress as well.

[marylander1940]

The last year or so I’ve noticed a trend of the full time RM guys getting dressed and ready to leave or for me to leave, but they always seem to get dressed almost immediately after. I think part of this is because I’d been hiring traveling providers who are trying to fit as many appointments into the evening as possible.

 

Guys from other avenues, such as Seeking, have been more accommodating for pillow talk afterwards.

 

If I’m especially attracted to a guy, there is time remaining, and we’re at his place, I will awkwardly stay put until we use the remaining time. I’m awkward enough as it is so this isn’t a problem for me

 

Sad that they do that...

 

I've been told by some traveling escorts who visit DC about clients here who ONLY hire travelers because of discretion, I'm not saying you do it for that reason. Also some clients don't hire travelers because they have the feeling of a revolving door implanted in their brains already no matter how the escort treats them.

 

Back to subject I've never been done if I don't cuddle.

[robberbaron4u]

"I bet I'm the best you ever had!" is the not infrequent closing line in the script. To which I reply, "O my Gawd yes."

[Guy Fawkes]

E. Invites you to come take a shower with him

A. Light a cigarette

B. Grab his cellular and starts texting away

C. Runs to the closest mirror to check his hair

D. Asks you, "How was that?"

[Clintbr]

Frequently as the client near the end of a session, I am asked “ if I want to use the shower?”

F. Yes, if you join ME in the shower

I think I have a 50% success rate with that. And it is a treat for the provider because I am a FUN time in that shower ??

[+ tassojunior]

I have a feeling as tops we have a little different experience:

 

E. Disappears into the bathroom for 20 minutes to pass gas and "freshen up" down there.

(With an in-call they probably do this after you leave).

[jawjateck]

They can't "grab" the phone when they've never put it down. HA!

[cany10011]

One guy I know, would take the money given to him and go into the bathroom to count it... I found it rude. Didn’t mention to him, and haven’t re-hired... despite the good chemistry.

[Guest MikeThomas]

They beg me to fuck them again and offer to waive their fee.

 

Just kidding.

[blightuponyou]

G. Try to pitch their new business to me.

 

H. Act like they are going to follow you out of the shower and then stay in there for ten minutes. Seem surprised that you did not dine and dash when they find you waiting in the living room.

 

I. Proceed to tell me incredibly detailed sob stories about their failed relationships while I am trying to enjoy the afterglow.

 

J. See I.

 

Mostly a good snuggle, some sweet kissing, a subtle exchange of money, and a lingering hug.

[big-n-tall]

...a whole range of things, but the percentage of them just doing, "wham bam thank you, sir" and out the door is surprisingly low.

 

For most of my life, I've been told (by friends, family, strangers) my demeanor puts people at ease and there is, "something about my face that makes people want to tell me things." (actual quote)

 

Most guys I've hired, even new hires, have wanted to talk (a little or a lot), snuggle in a sweaty messy embrace, shoot the breeze, go eat, or on a rare occasion wanted to go at it again even if my allotted time was up (and not ask for additional funds) afterward. For the most part, it's been all positive, but one occasion it was a pure nightmare. I recounted the story on the forum ages ago so I won't rehash it. LOL!!!

Edited November 13, 2019 by big-n-tall

[+ JEC]

I'll ask them if they want to shower. Ideally, I'll shower with them. If I'm enjoying their company will partake in pillow talk until my time is up. It not, hey thanks it was great see ya next time blah blah. A few times I've offered lunch or dinnner off the clock, response to this has been 50/50 but I'm not paying someone to have dinner with me (unless an overnight).

[LaffingBear]

Exclaim "Holy Crap! I should pay you!"

[hypothetically]

These replies are sweet but certainly not the sentiment of a client in a higher volume city lol.

 

The quintessential New Yorker and Londoner are very “that was lovely but I have shit to do.” ...and so do I lol

[Chad Constantine]

[+ tassojunior]

One guy I know, would take the money given to him and go into the bathroom to count it... I found it rude. Didn’t mention to him, and haven’t re-hired... despite the good chemistry.

 

Always use Ben Franklins in the US. On the table. 20's ok to hand as tips, taxis, etc. Wads of smaller bills can be insulting; like throwing handfuls of change.