If client provides free lodging, will it be an overnight charge?

[marylander1940]

This is off-topic but I once hired an escort for an overnight who did exactly what you did after a post-dinner session. He stayed on his side of the bed all night and wouldn’t let me cuddle with him.

 

I love to cuddle but I just cannot fall asleep with someone touching me

[Trick]

I love to cuddle but I just cannot fall asleep with someone touching me

 

That’s what the escort told me the next day, which I perfectly understood. Lesson learned - I need to ask about cuddling and spooning when booking overnights.

[marylander1940]

That’s what the escort told me the next day, which I perfectly understood. Lesson learned - I need to ask about cuddling and spooning when booking overnights.

 

I wish I could change it... I costed me 2 relationships with guys who couldn't understand why I wasn't able to sleep hugging/being hugged like they do in movies...

 

You MUST be cuddling while sleeping all the way to the morning? Most escorts become late night because of the schedule of their profession and sometimes it takes time for them to fall asleep

[instudiocity]

I’m a traveling sales person with friends all over my territory who invite me to stay, but I don’t because it’s very limiting to me. I have to be hospitable. I can’t go to my room shut the door and work. I can eat what I want when I want, and the next morning my departure is limited by my host’s morning routine, breakfast?, coffee, even departure time. Staying overnight with someone I find very limiting.

Edited July 20, 2019 by instudiocity

[marylander1940]

I’m a traveling sales person with friends all over my territory who invite me to stay, but I don’t because it’s very limiting to me. I have to be hospitable. I can’t go to my room shut the door and work. I can eat what I want when I want, and the next morning my departure is limited by my host’s morning routine, breakfast?, coffee, even departure time. Staying overnight with someone I’d very limiting.

 

You can always adapt your routine and be more easygoing... but obviously not if you're out of town for work.

[GTMike]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

As many have said previously it really really depends on the unique situation between you and the gentleman. It can be very awkward at first to broach that subject and if you bring it up, or seem eager to push it or encourage it too fast it could be interpreted as way to cheaply spend more time with the person and not necessarily completely helpful and altruistic on your part.

 

With that said i have a similar situation and over the years have met and have prolly half a dozen "friends" that now that we know each other and have that trusting relationship we just determine and schedule what is "on" and what is "off" the clock and they know they have the option to hang out based on our schedules. It is not unusual at all that they commonly stay over with no strings attached. So my suggestion to you would be not to rush it and let those situations evolve organically over time.

[cany10011]

I love to cuddle but I just cannot fall asleep with someone touching me

 

 

Me too.. i prefer to sleep in a different zip code after the act

[+ pitman]

I'm sure the answers to all of these questions can be found in the works of Emily Post.

[BluDay]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

 

I did this with an escort who is no longer in the business. He would travel to my area, we'd schedule a session and he'd use one of my guestrooms for the night. Before we started, we had established a relationship and he knew I would limit the "escort-time" to just our session. He could arrange other appointments, nap, do other business in any part of the house and not have to feel like he was on duty. It worked because he knew I wouldn't ask for anything of him outside of our session than I would any regular houseguest. He was, and still is (we're still in contact), comfortable with me.

 

If you have a good relationship with the escort, it may work, as he knows he'll want to let his guard down. I think it would be more difficult to convince an escort you don't have a non-escort type relationship to go for it.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

 

as many have said, it would be wise to discuss this with the guy in question, and get clear on what the offer is and the expectations are

 

personally, i have done this with clients - visited them, stayed with them in a separate room, and had some paid time together - the nice thing was that i had a nice place to stay with folks i liked and was free to come and go and see clients outside of the house, i got paid by the clients for our defined time together, and we got to have some off the clock social time when i wasn't seeing other folks - it can certainly be a win-win, but it does take being very open and communicating clearly

[bendable2019]

This is off-topic but I once hired an escort for an overnight who did exactly what you did after a post-dinner session. He stayed on his side of the bed all night and wouldn’t let me cuddle with him.

 

Yikes! lol. I want a cuddle post-sesh ?

[KeepItReal]

as many have said, it would be wise to discuss this with the guy in question, and get clear on what the offer is and the expectations are

 

personally, i have done this with clients - visited them, stayed with them in a separate room, and had some paid time together - the nice thing was that i had a nice place to stay with folks i liked and was free to come and go and see clients outside of the house, i got paid by the clients for our defined time together, and we got to have some off the clock social time when i wasn't seeing other folks - it can certainly be a win-win, but it does take being very open and communicating clearly

 

I was gonna say this in response to this thread:

But you, sir, are a class act...now I am reconsidering!!!

[+ Steve yabsley]

This is off-topic but I once hired an escort for an overnight who did exactly what you did after a post-dinner session. He stayed on his side of the bed all night and wouldn’t let me cuddle with him.

 

Me too.....those are definitely not repeat hires for me?

[+ purplekow]

I have had one escort who has stayed at my home for several days at a time. We have sessions during that time but they are not overnights and he leaves to go see other clients as his business needs require. He has a separate bath so he is free to come and go as he pleases.

One problem with this situation is that he is very attractive and if he does not have another appointment, he will walk around naked from the shower, come to my home office and stand there with little or nothing on and generally strut and show off. Invariably, my resolves weakens and we are off for another session. paid for by the hour.

Edited July 21, 2019 by purplekow

[GTMike]

I have had one escort who has stayed at my home for several days at a time. We have sessions during that time but they are not overnights and he leaves to go see other clients as his business need require. He has a separate bath so he is free to come and go as he pleases.

One problem with this situation is that he is very attractive and if he does not have another appointment, he will walk around naked from the shower, come to my home office and stand there with little or nothing on and generally strut and show off. Invariably, my resolves weakens and we are off for another session. paid for by the hour.

Lol. From direct experience I know exactly what you're talking about damnit!! Hahaha.

[KeepItReal]

I have had one escort who has stayed at my home for several days at a time. We have sessions during that time but they are not overnights and he leaves to go see other clients as his business need require. He has a separate bath so he is free to come and go as he pleases.

One problem with this situation is that he is very attractive and if he does not have another appointment, he will walk around naked from the shower, come to my home office and stand there with little or nothing on and generally strut and show off. Invariably, my resolves weakens and we are off for another session. paid for by the hour.

[LaffingBear]

Ive had a guy finish a session with me and move into my guestroom overnight afterwards. I respected his privacy 100% after our time together. I literally didnt see him from 9pm until I showed him out at 630am.

 

Had seen him previously, and offered the guestroom previously, which he'd declined. But he got jammed up on the subsequent visit and asked to stay.

 

I think its important to expect a very broad and generous interpretation of the concept of paying for their time if considering these situations. Dont expect them to hang out, share meals, parade unclothed, etc. If they do, its at their discretion; not a lonely client trying to barter lodging for free companionship or eye candy. Once you know a guy, and demonstrate respect for the boundaries, you can have friendly time off the clock.

Edited July 22, 2019 by LaffingBear

[+ Eric Hassan]

I was gonna say this in response to this thread:

But you, sir, are a class act...now I am reconsidering!!!

 

thank you! also, it's ok to have a man AND wine

[+ JEC]

One problem with this situation

I see no problem with this situation at all :p:p

[+ VictorPowers]

I have an open invite for Vancouver Canada totally free in a great location. Am I accepting? Nope. I appreciate the offer but in the end it’s a bit of control I’d rather keep to myself. I’d much rather let people rent out their air BnB for profit over accommodating us for free!