If client provides free lodging, will it be an overnight charge?

[Yeahman]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

[hypothetically]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

 

It shouldn’t be.

But some will try.

 

Is the escort coming from a long way? I only ask because I’m unsure why an escort would be motivated to stay with a client overnight if he was not working when he could get a hotel and continue to work. Speaking personally, as kind of a gesture as that is, I would much prefer to be in my own space.

[Yeahman]

Yes, if the escort is coming a long way.

[Kevin Slater]

You really need to ask the escort in question. All else is just postulating.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ FrankR]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

That depends. If this is a provider you have seen before and you are both comfortable and there is trust, it could work out well. ? I have done so and mentioned it before here on the forum.

 

If it is a brand new provider, someone you have no history with, he will likely think you are trying to take advantage. ?

 

Are you providing any other amenities? A meal? Laundry facilities? A gym? Things to consider...

[+ FrankR]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

That depends. If this is a provider you have seen before and you are both comfortable and there is trust, it could work out well. ? I have done so and mentioned it before here on the forum.

 

If it is a brand new provider, someone you have no history with, he will likely think you are trying to take advantage. ?

 

Are you providing any other amenities? A meal? Laundry facilities? A gym? Things to consider...

[marylander1940]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

 

Depends... He’ll spend the whole night at your place.

 

Also depends on where are you located.

 

You can cut a deal with some if you offer one hour at 10 PM and one hour after in the morning.

 

Guys flying to the East Coast from the West Coast even if they wake up at early as possible they make it to town around 3 or 4 PM. Maybe some would be interested in having a couple of hours with you that evening and by 10 or 11 AM you driving them to their hotel. They’ll save a hotel night that way.

[marylander1940]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

 

Depends... He’ll spend the whole night at your place.

 

Also depends on where are you located.

 

You can cut a deal with some if you offer one hour at 10 PM and one hour after in the morning.

 

Guys flying to the East Coast from the West Coast even if they wake up at early as possible they make it to town around 3 or 4 PM. Maybe some would be interested in having a couple of hours with you that evening and by 10 or 11 AM you driving them to their hotel. They’ll save a hotel night that way.

[Yeahman]

Depends... He’ll spend the whole night at your place.

 

Also depends on where are you located.

 

You can cut a deal with some if you offer one hour at 10 PM and one hour after in the morning.

 

Guys flying to the East Coast from the West Coast even if they wake up at early as possible they make it to town around 3 or 4 PM. Maybe some would be interested in having a couple of hours with you that evening and by 10 or 11 AM you driving them to their hotel. They’ll save a hotel night that way.

 

What you suggested does sound like a good idea. Thank you.

[Yeahman]

Depends... He’ll spend the whole night at your place.

 

Also depends on where are you located.

 

You can cut a deal with some if you offer one hour at 10 PM and one hour after in the morning.

 

Guys flying to the East Coast from the West Coast even if they wake up at early as possible they make it to town around 3 or 4 PM. Maybe some would be interested in having a couple of hours with you that evening and by 10 or 11 AM you driving them to their hotel. They’ll save a hotel night that way.

 

What you suggested does sound like a good idea. Thank you.

[+ tassojunior]

What you suggested does sound like a good idea. Thank you.

 

Every situation is different. I have a dozen working guys who stay with me when here because we've been friends for years. The first time with a stranger staying you may want to make sure its for their convenience only and when the paid act will occur.

[+ tassojunior]

What you suggested does sound like a good idea. Thank you.

 

Every situation is different. I have a dozen working guys who stay with me when here because we've been friends for years. The first time with a stranger staying you may want to make sure its for their convenience only and when the paid act will occur.

[Rudynate]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

 

 

There are ready-made boundaries in the escort-client relationship - I think of it as a "self-limiting relationship." When both parties respect those boundaries, things can't help but go well. You ignore the boundaries at your risk.

 

This is a blurring of those boundaries. It may be fine, but there's plenty that could go wrong.

[Rudynate]

I live alone, and I can provide free lodging for an escort in a separate bedroom in my apartment after 2 hours of hot action with him. Will this situation be considered an overnight charge?

 

 

There are ready-made boundaries in the escort-client relationship - I think of it as a "self-limiting relationship." When both parties respect those boundaries, things can't help but go well. You ignore the boundaries at your risk.

 

This is a blurring of those boundaries. It may be fine, but there's plenty that could go wrong.

[marylander1940]

What you suggested does sound like a good idea. Thank you.

 

Where are you located?

[marylander1940]

What you suggested does sound like a good idea. Thank you.

 

Where are you located?

[+ tassojunior]

Also, understand that in most situations, if the staying is for his convenience and not an "overnight", then most would assume they are also free to see other clients, at least outcalls, during that stay.

[+ tassojunior]

Also, understand that in most situations, if the staying is for his convenience and not an "overnight", then most would assume they are also free to see other clients, at least outcalls, during that stay.

[mike carey]

As André said, there shouldn't be an overnight charge if you are merely offering use of a guest room, but it's something that you have to discuss and agree on. If the escort wants to charge you, you don't have to agree for him to stay. That said, it's open to you and the escort to agree on any arrangement if he is staying at your house, from sharing a bed to using the guest room. I have shared a bed after a paid session, and NOTHING happened, he didn't need to find separate accommodation. I would have been happy to pay again if that sharing a bed became something else.

[mike carey]

As André said, there shouldn't be an overnight charge if you are merely offering use of a guest room, but it's something that you have to discuss and agree on. If the escort wants to charge you, you don't have to agree for him to stay. That said, it's open to you and the escort to agree on any arrangement if he is staying at your house, from sharing a bed to using the guest room. I have shared a bed after a paid session, and NOTHING happened, he didn't need to find separate accommodation. I would have been happy to pay again if that sharing a bed became something else.

[Trick]

 

I have shared a bed after a paid session, and NOTHING happened,

 

 

Does cuddling and spooning count as NOTHING happened?

[mike carey]

Does cuddling and spooning count as NOTHING happened?

Those would not be 'nothing'. We had a session and then kept entirely to our own sides of the bed thereafter.

[+ FrankR]

Does cuddling and spooning count as NOTHING happened?

No! ? Nor does “morning fun”! ?

[Trick]

Those would not be 'nothing'. We had a session and then kept entirely to our own sides of the bed thereafter.

 

This is off-topic but I once hired an escort for an overnight who did exactly what you did after a post-dinner session. He stayed on his side of the bed all night and wouldn’t let me cuddle with him.

[Rudynate]

This is off-topic but I once hired an escort for an overnight who did exactly what you did after a post-dinner session. He stayed on his side of the bed all night and wouldn’t let me cuddle with him.

 

 

I love to cuddle, but in small doses. When I'm ready to go to sleep, I want to spread out in a king-size bed by myself. For that reason, I don't see myself ever hiring for an overnight. I can almost imagine it in a hotel room with two queen-size beds. Or maybe in a suite where he sneaked into my bed early in the morning and surprised me with a big boner.