To douche or not to douche

[+ Hoover42]

Eewwww Hoover, TMI

OK, deleted!

[craigville beach]

i have a toto washlet. I clean up after every visit to the toilet.

[+ Italiano]

i have a toto washlet. I clean up after every visit to the toilet.

That's great, but I doubt it's guaranteed for an internal inspection of a dick which ends without brown particles...

[DMICS]

I actually tried bottoming for the 1st time recently. All the wrong circumstances where I wasn’t thinking because it was a guy I’ve been trying to have a moment with for a while.

 

It was a spur of the moment thing. I just tried to remember what to do when bottoming and eventually the top hit a sweet spot where he could get half of his hung dick in there.

 

While nothing came out (thankfully, considering I never douched) an odor started to arise so we had to stop.

 

A little pain, not too sore. But over the next few months learning to douche, and using poppers will probably help my next experience.

[jjkrkwood]

 

Asking for a friend that just started bottoming,  and since I am NOT a bottom fan I cant advise him....

What is the best liquid for "anal douche" ?  Is there a specific product on the market designed for males ?   I went online and did some research for him, but all I found was "use warm water, or add apple cider vinegar to water"....  WTF, you aint making a salad  !

I wonder if my go to trusted grooming expert @Benjamin_Nicholascan weigh in.  He is the Dr Fauci of Grooming and hygiene....

Thank you

[KeepItReal]

3 hours ago, jjkrkwood said:

 

Asking for a friend that just started bottoming,  and since I am NOT a bottom fan I cant advise him....

What is the best liquid for "anal douche" ?  Is there a specific product on the market designed for males ?   I went online and did some research for him, but all I found was "use warm water, or add apple cider vinegar to water"....  WTF, you aint making a salad  !

I wonder if my go to trusted grooming expert @Benjamin_Nicholascan weigh in.  He is the Dr Fauci of Grooming and hygiene....

Thank you

I discussed this with my primary care physician many years ago.  He advised that luke warm water was the best liquid to use - avoid soaps, salt or oils of any kind.  Almost all additives can be harmful or have long term effects.  Do use plenty of lube when you insert the tube.  

[+ jeezopete]

3 hours ago, jjkrkwood said:

I went online and did some research for him, but all I found was "use warm water, or add apple cider vinegar to water"....  WTF, you aint making a salad  !

Well...... https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Tossing Salad  😜

[jjkrkwood]

1 hour ago, jeezopete said:

Well...... https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Tossing Salad  😜

I suppose then IF he uses the cider vinegar I just may HAVE TO toss HIS salad ?  

Why waste a good vinaigrette ?  😏

[jjkrkwood]

2 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

I discussed this with my primary care physician many years ago.  He advised that luke warm water was the best liquid to use - avoid soaps, salt or oils of any kind.  Almost all additives can be harmful or have long term effects.  Do use plenty of lube when you insert the tube.  

Interesting, thank you....But with water only, how do you get to smell like a "Summers Eve " ?   🤔

[HotWhiteThirties]

Apple cider vinegar? What the actual hell? Sounds like a recipe for more than salad. Sounds like ASS-id burn!!! Don't know how anyone would bottom after that. 
 

Luke warm water. That's all. 

[HotWhiteThirties]

3 minutes ago, jjkrkwood said:

Interesting, thank you....But with water only, how do you get to smell like a "Summers Eve " ?   🤔

Ummm. Hopefully you shower after the douche is complete. Go to town with some mild soap and water. Clean is king, but it doesn't hafta smell like a soap factory. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

On 7/16/2021 at 3:41 PM, jjkrkwood said:

 

Asking for a friend that just started bottoming,  and since I am NOT a bottom fan I cant advise him....

What is the best liquid for "anal douche" ?  Is there a specific product on the market designed for males ?   I went online and did some research for him, but all I found was "use warm water, or add apple cider vinegar to water"....  WTF, you aint making a salad  !

I wonder if my go to trusted grooming expert @Benjamin_Nicholascan weigh in.  He is the Dr Fauci of Grooming and hygiene....

Thank you

I'd steer clear of ACV.  It's acid profile is too harsh for the lining of a rectum.

I've heard guys rave about mixes like Future Method, but still think that warm water or a balanced saline solution works best and doesn't cost an arm and a leg.

Best advice:  Use a lot of lube, work slow and don't freak out if shit happens.  To err is human

[jeezifonly]

On 7/16/2021 at 9:12 PM, HotWhiteThirties said:

Ummm. Hopefully you shower after the douche is complete. Go to town with some mild soap and water. Clean is king, but it doesn't hafta smell like a soap factory. 

This is eye-safe Face wash with no fragrance at all - your local TJ’s might have it. No irritation. Absolutely neutral-clean hole result - it’s all I use.

Nourish All in One

 

[+ RJD]

2 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

I'd steer clear of ACV.  It's acid profile is too harsh for the lining of a rectum.

I've heard guys rave about mixes like Future Method, but still think that warm water or a balanced saline solution works best and doesn't cost an arm and a leg.

Best advice:  Use a lot of lube, work slow and don't freak out if shit happens.  To err is human

I've read that using plain water depletes the rectum's pH level.  Similarly, an overly acidic liquid, like ACV, increases it. I use Fleet enemas since it contains the appropriate sodium additives to maintain the proper pH level and it's easy to administer.  

[+ E.T.Bass]

Having that mother/daughter conversation?

 

I bought a kit on Amazon, made in Australia!

Works for me.  Got tired of bringing home Fleet.

A follow up in the shower with 2 soapy fingers for that extra confidence.😁

 

[+ nycman]

On 7/16/2021 at 6:41 PM, jjkrkwood said:

Asking for a friend

Sure you are…..Bottom

 

On 7/16/2021 at 6:41 PM, jjkrkwood said:

and since I am NOT a bottom

Whatever…..Bottom

 

On 7/16/2021 at 6:41 PM, jjkrkwood said:

  I went online and did some research for him

Sure you did….Bottom

 

On 7/16/2021 at 6:41 PM, jjkrkwood said:

all I found was "use warm water, or add apple cider vinegar to water"

Oh Christ, now he’s sticking vinegar up his ass….I take it back….stick to topping….you big ol’ Bottom.

[jjkrkwood]

8 hours ago, nycman said:

Sure you are…..Bottom

 

Whatever…..Bottom

 

Sure you did….Bottom

 

Oh Christ, now he’s sticking vinegar up his ass….I take it back….stick to topping….you big ol’ Bottom.

 

Charming, stick to your Day job !   😒

[jjkrkwood]

12 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

I'd steer clear of ACV.  It's acid profile is too harsh for the lining of a rectum.

I've heard guys rave about mixes like Future Method, but still think that warm water or a balanced saline solution works best and doesn't cost an arm and a leg.

Best advice:  Use a lot of lube, work slow and don't freak out if shit happens.  To err is human

THANK YOU !

[FrancisCA]

For the longest time ive always used this guide (bookmarked on my computer for maybe 4 years now) ! And its in most languages so anyone can read it

https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com/

[jeezifonly]

The eagerness to enjoy being penetrated rushes past the natural ability to learn about our own insides. Look at anatomy drawings. Make some notes about your own cycle of elimination. Assess fiber in diet(add more), water intake, find what foods in last 8hrs that always give discomfort. Pay attention.

Take it from someone who took way too long to get it. Input affects output. Lots of good reasearch out there. Once you’ve made the right dietary adjustments for your body digestive cycle, douching is a smaller role, mostly limited to shallow and quick.
There will be foods you love that may in fact make things worse in your gut. You figure out how long you must abstain from those things - and if the greater enjoyment of penetration is worth the sacrifice
Occasionally I must use my shower douche and a narrow well-lubed toy to feel confident  about the sigmoid. Only if I plan to invite my gentleman caller to come all the way through the lobby, down the winding corridor and softly knock on the door at the end of the hall.

Fleet is great to grab for travel - empty and refill with filtered water. Some small % saline is ok, but not preservatives.

[+ MysticMenace]

Travis Bryant and Jeff Kasser are demonstrating prep steps for bottoming 

 

Edited July 21, 2021 by JoeMendoza

[jjkrkwood]

12 hours ago, JoeMendoza said:

Travis Bryant and Jeff Kasser are demonstrating prep steps for bottoming 

 

 

Try to convince me the blondie is a "beginner" ? 

[+ Italiano]

On 7/21/2021 at 2:22 PM, Francis said:

For the longest time ive always used this guide (bookmarked on my computer for maybe 4 years now) ! And its in most languages so anyone can read it

https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com/

That's my bible for bottoming too! 😉

[+ Tygerscent]

On 2/18/2019 at 12:52 PM, Axiom2001 said:

 

By all means- "DOUCHE" prior to having anal sex! I like to bottom when with a hot escort and one who knows how to please the guy who's occupying the "bottom bunk." If you don't douche and have an accident, neither of you will have enjoyed the play session!

 

If the top really desires to "plow the field" deeply-- he wants to do this w/o encountering any unnecessary and undesirable "weeds" !!

Well said~!