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    sjmuktop got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in The demise of kindness and respect?   
    Personally, I haven't noticed any change in dynamics. I tend to stick to a few regular and semi-regular guys, and only occasionally hire someone new. Over many years of hiring, whilst I have indeed come across a few bad eggs displaying impertinent qualities of character, these have been far and few between.
    Most escorts, like people in general, are kind and respectful. I do, of course, speak from anecdotal experiences, which is all I can do. 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from Occasional in Is anyone else noticing a drop in escort pricing?   
    There certainly has not been a drop here in London.
    The going rate here is currently £200 and has been for a long while now. I've noticed an uptick in the number of those charging more (£250), but it's still  only a small handful.  Anything above this is extremely rare (in fact, I have not actually come across any guys exceeding this, ever; they would be narrowing their clientele to such a small niche that they'd be pricing themselves out of the market). 
    It's actually still not all that uncommon to see guys (and yes, they're still very hot and good at what they do, they're not 'lesser' in any way) charging within the £150 - 190 range. It's not widespread, but you still see it (typically among newer guys).
    When you've known an escort for a long time and you've been a regular client of his for a long time, in my experience, he is often (if not usually) happy to charge you a lower rate than he advertises for new clients (the old business custom of rewarding loyalty!)
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Is anyone else noticing a drop in escort pricing?   
    There certainly has not been a drop here in London.
    The going rate here is currently £200 and has been for a long while now. I've noticed an uptick in the number of those charging more (£250), but it's still  only a small handful.  Anything above this is extremely rare (in fact, I have not actually come across any guys exceeding this, ever; they would be narrowing their clientele to such a small niche that they'd be pricing themselves out of the market). 
    It's actually still not all that uncommon to see guys (and yes, they're still very hot and good at what they do, they're not 'lesser' in any way) charging within the £150 - 190 range. It's not widespread, but you still see it (typically among newer guys).
    When you've known an escort for a long time and you've been a regular client of his for a long time, in my experience, he is often (if not usually) happy to charge you a lower rate than he advertises for new clients (the old business custom of rewarding loyalty!)
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from Occasional in When do you consider your client/provider a regular?   
    Client here.
    I suppose after I've been to see an escort maybe 3 or 4 times, and with every intention in my mind of seeing him many more times after that; that is when he has become a 'regular' to me.
    I've had a number of regulars over the years, and have a couple of them at the moment. One of them I have been seeing since early 2018, and the other I've been seeing since early 2024.
    Do I treat my regular guys any differently to any of the other escorts I hire who are not regulars? Nope. The non-regulars receive the same level of respect, kindness, courtesy, and gratitude from me as my regular guys do. 
    What is different is the dynamic that exists between me and my regular guys. What I mean by that, is things like the fact that I can have banter with my regular guys that I wouldn't be able to have with new hires. Also the way I would interact with the regular ones is like how I would interact with old friends. There is familiarity, long and well established rapport, and a general feeling of total ease and comfort. In other words, you 'know' your regular guys, and this is reflected in the dynamics during interactions. 
    Now, this is purely anecdotal, but I also find that it isn't unusual for guys who you've been hiring for a long time (maybe once you've been hiring them regularly for many months or for more than a year), to be OK with letting you see them for a lower rate than they would charge to newer or less frequent / irregular clients. I would never expect that from any of them, but it is appreciated whenever a guy allows me to pay for a session at a reduced rate from the one that he advertises on his Sleepyboy or RentMen profile (suppose it's rewarding customer loyalty, in the same way that traditional businesses sometimes offer loyal customers discounts on products / services). 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from Luv2play in Overnight preference   
    I have been hiring since December 2006, and in all that time (blimey, it isn't far off being two decades!) I have only had about five or six overnight sessions.
    One of those (the first one) was an outcall and the rest were incalls at the escort's place. All times the escort and I slept together in the same bed. I would definitely not have it any other way, and wouldn't entertain the idea of an overnight session if being in the same bed to sleep together was not a possibility.
    I could not imagine sleeping in a separate bed as the escort, as I want the intimacy and physical closeness of cuddling up to him, but it is totally understandable if the client is accustomed to sleeping on their own and cannot sleep with someone next to them. 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Overnight preference   
    Done! I hadn't even noticed that it had gone like that because I use the site on 'dark mode', as my eyes are extremely sensitive to bright artificial light.
    Thank you for bringing it to my attention. I'll have to go back on all my other comments I've recently made and see if they're the same. Bloody hell.
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Overnight preference   
    I have been hiring since December 2006, and in all that time (blimey, it isn't far off being two decades!) I have only had about five or six overnight sessions.
    One of those (the first one) was an outcall and the rest were incalls at the escort's place. All times the escort and I slept together in the same bed. I would definitely not have it any other way, and wouldn't entertain the idea of an overnight session if being in the same bed to sleep together was not a possibility.
    I could not imagine sleeping in a separate bed as the escort, as I want the intimacy and physical closeness of cuddling up to him, but it is totally understandable if the client is accustomed to sleeping on their own and cannot sleep with someone next to them. 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Is anyone else noticing a drop in escort pricing?   
    There certainly has not been a drop here in London.
    The going rate here is currently £200 and has been for a long while now. I've noticed an uptick in the number of those charging more (£250), but it's still  only a small handful.  Anything above this is extremely rare (in fact, I have not actually come across any guys exceeding this, ever; they would be narrowing their clientele to such a small niche that they'd be pricing themselves out of the market). 
    It's actually still not all that uncommon to see guys (and yes, they're still very hot and good at what they do, they're not 'lesser' in any way) charging within the £150 - 190 range. It's not widespread, but you still see it (typically among newer guys).
    When you've known an escort for a long time and you've been a regular client of his for a long time, in my experience, he is often (if not usually) happy to charge you a lower rate than he advertises for new clients (the old business custom of rewarding loyalty!)
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from liubit in Overnight preference   
    Can you see it now?
    I'm not sure what's happened, but I'm having trouble with my text and the colouring. Now when I switch to dark mode (which is more comfortable for my eyes), I cannot see what I've written. As long as others can see it in whichever mode they use the site, that's all that matters.
    EDIT: It would seem I was typing in so-called 'rich text' colour scheme. Not sure how that happened, but I have switched back to 'plain text'.
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from + sf westcoaster in When do you consider your client/provider a regular?   
    Client here.
    I suppose after I've been to see an escort maybe 3 or 4 times, and with every intention in my mind of seeing him many more times after that; that is when he has become a 'regular' to me.
    I've had a number of regulars over the years, and have a couple of them at the moment. One of them I have been seeing since early 2018, and the other I've been seeing since early 2024.
    Do I treat my regular guys any differently to any of the other escorts I hire who are not regulars? Nope. The non-regulars receive the same level of respect, kindness, courtesy, and gratitude from me as my regular guys do. 
    What is different is the dynamic that exists between me and my regular guys. What I mean by that, is things like the fact that I can have banter with my regular guys that I wouldn't be able to have with new hires. Also the way I would interact with the regular ones is like how I would interact with old friends. There is familiarity, long and well established rapport, and a general feeling of total ease and comfort. In other words, you 'know' your regular guys, and this is reflected in the dynamics during interactions. 
    Now, this is purely anecdotal, but I also find that it isn't unusual for guys who you've been hiring for a long time (maybe once you've been hiring them regularly for many months or for more than a year), to be OK with letting you see them for a lower rate than they would charge to newer or less frequent / irregular clients. I would never expect that from any of them, but it is appreciated whenever a guy allows me to pay for a session at a reduced rate from the one that he advertises on his Sleepyboy or RentMen profile (suppose it's rewarding customer loyalty, in the same way that traditional businesses sometimes offer loyal customers discounts on products / services). 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from DMonDude in When do you consider your client/provider a regular?   
    Client here.
    I suppose after I've been to see an escort maybe 3 or 4 times, and with every intention in my mind of seeing him many more times after that; that is when he has become a 'regular' to me.
    I've had a number of regulars over the years, and have a couple of them at the moment. One of them I have been seeing since early 2018, and the other I've been seeing since early 2024.
    Do I treat my regular guys any differently to any of the other escorts I hire who are not regulars? Nope. The non-regulars receive the same level of respect, kindness, courtesy, and gratitude from me as my regular guys do. 
    What is different is the dynamic that exists between me and my regular guys. What I mean by that, is things like the fact that I can have banter with my regular guys that I wouldn't be able to have with new hires. Also the way I would interact with the regular ones is like how I would interact with old friends. There is familiarity, long and well established rapport, and a general feeling of total ease and comfort. In other words, you 'know' your regular guys, and this is reflected in the dynamics during interactions. 
    Now, this is purely anecdotal, but I also find that it isn't unusual for guys who you've been hiring for a long time (maybe once you've been hiring them regularly for many months or for more than a year), to be OK with letting you see them for a lower rate than they would charge to newer or less frequent / irregular clients. I would never expect that from any of them, but it is appreciated whenever a guy allows me to pay for a session at a reduced rate from the one that he advertises on his Sleepyboy or RentMen profile (suppose it's rewarding customer loyalty, in the same way that traditional businesses sometimes offer loyal customers discounts on products / services). 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from Wings246 in When do you consider your client/provider a regular?   
    Client here.
    I suppose after I've been to see an escort maybe 3 or 4 times, and with every intention in my mind of seeing him many more times after that; that is when he has become a 'regular' to me.
    I've had a number of regulars over the years, and have a couple of them at the moment. One of them I have been seeing since early 2018, and the other I've been seeing since early 2024.
    Do I treat my regular guys any differently to any of the other escorts I hire who are not regulars? Nope. The non-regulars receive the same level of respect, kindness, courtesy, and gratitude from me as my regular guys do. 
    What is different is the dynamic that exists between me and my regular guys. What I mean by that, is things like the fact that I can have banter with my regular guys that I wouldn't be able to have with new hires. Also the way I would interact with the regular ones is like how I would interact with old friends. There is familiarity, long and well established rapport, and a general feeling of total ease and comfort. In other words, you 'know' your regular guys, and this is reflected in the dynamics during interactions. 
    Now, this is purely anecdotal, but I also find that it isn't unusual for guys who you've been hiring for a long time (maybe once you've been hiring them regularly for many months or for more than a year), to be OK with letting you see them for a lower rate than they would charge to newer or less frequent / irregular clients. I would never expect that from any of them, but it is appreciated whenever a guy allows me to pay for a session at a reduced rate from the one that he advertises on his Sleepyboy or RentMen profile (suppose it's rewarding customer loyalty, in the same way that traditional businesses sometimes offer loyal customers discounts on products / services). 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from big-n-tall in When do you consider your client/provider a regular?   
    Client here.
    I suppose after I've been to see an escort maybe 3 or 4 times, and with every intention in my mind of seeing him many more times after that; that is when he has become a 'regular' to me.
    I've had a number of regulars over the years, and have a couple of them at the moment. One of them I have been seeing since early 2018, and the other I've been seeing since early 2024.
    Do I treat my regular guys any differently to any of the other escorts I hire who are not regulars? Nope. The non-regulars receive the same level of respect, kindness, courtesy, and gratitude from me as my regular guys do. 
    What is different is the dynamic that exists between me and my regular guys. What I mean by that, is things like the fact that I can have banter with my regular guys that I wouldn't be able to have with new hires. Also the way I would interact with the regular ones is like how I would interact with old friends. There is familiarity, long and well established rapport, and a general feeling of total ease and comfort. In other words, you 'know' your regular guys, and this is reflected in the dynamics during interactions. 
    Now, this is purely anecdotal, but I also find that it isn't unusual for guys who you've been hiring for a long time (maybe once you've been hiring them regularly for many months or for more than a year), to be OK with letting you see them for a lower rate than they would charge to newer or less frequent / irregular clients. I would never expect that from any of them, but it is appreciated whenever a guy allows me to pay for a session at a reduced rate from the one that he advertises on his Sleepyboy or RentMen profile (suppose it's rewarding customer loyalty, in the same way that traditional businesses sometimes offer loyal customers discounts on products / services). 
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from Nue2thegame in Is anyone else noticing a drop in escort pricing?   
    There certainly has not been a drop here in London.
    The going rate here is currently £200 and has been for a long while now. I've noticed an uptick in the number of those charging more (£250), but it's still  only a small handful.  Anything above this is extremely rare (in fact, I have not actually come across any guys exceeding this, ever; they would be narrowing their clientele to such a small niche that they'd be pricing themselves out of the market). 
    It's actually still not all that uncommon to see guys (and yes, they're still very hot and good at what they do, they're not 'lesser' in any way) charging within the £150 - 190 range. It's not widespread, but you still see it (typically among newer guys).
    When you've known an escort for a long time and you've been a regular client of his for a long time, in my experience, he is often (if not usually) happy to charge you a lower rate than he advertises for new clients (the old business custom of rewarding loyalty!)
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Overnight preference   
    Can you see it now?
    I'm not sure what's happened, but I'm having trouble with my text and the colouring. Now when I switch to dark mode (which is more comfortable for my eyes), I cannot see what I've written. As long as others can see it in whichever mode they use the site, that's all that matters.
    EDIT: It would seem I was typing in so-called 'rich text' colour scheme. Not sure how that happened, but I have switched back to 'plain text'.
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    sjmuktop reacted to Mark_fl in Overnight preference   
    This looks great! Thank you.
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    sjmuktop reacted to Kuppusami in Still follow through after slight annoyance?   
    Well that's a lovely anecdote. Do always live the renew your faith in humanity type of stories. 
    Personally I would not pay for an Uber or cab. Leaves a paper trail, and sets a bad president for the next guy they wanna try it on. 
    I have however picked up and dropped off providers on multiple occasions. 
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    sjmuktop reacted to + Jamie21 in Law enforcement?   
    Tell me you’re from England without telling me you’re from England: Starting a sentence with ‘mind you…’ 😂.
    That’s so English. My dear old thing you are quite correct, it’s perfectly legal to sell or buy sex here, within certain parameters - for example it’s not legal to do so from the street or in a brothel but then neither of those are my cup of tea…I prefer to work independently in a more salubrious environment for discerning gentlemen of good character. 
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    sjmuktop reacted to Luv2play in canned salmon   
    There’s a cafe on the canal in Ottawa that does this on a heated crusty bun. Lovely with a glass of chilled white wine on a summer lunch occasion. Served with crisp fries. Yum.
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from ChelseaBoy in London recommendations   
    Do you like Latino men? If so, I have a number of recommendations I can make to you. I would be happy to do so. I have a few regulars. They bottom for me as I'm only top, but all are versatile.
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Law enforcement?   
    This is where I count my lucky stars that I am an Englishman. This side of the pond, paying someone money in exchange for sexual services is perfectly legal, and I am never doing anything against the law whenever I hire. Hiring is not something that causes me any anxiety like it is for those of you over in the States. 
    Mind you, I've hired in the US before (NYC and San Francisco), and I think that even though hiring is illegal there (?), they are such liberal places that there is no reason to worry. I certainly didn't feel anxious at all, especially when I was in California.
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from coriolis888 in Law enforcement?   
    This is where I count my lucky stars that I am an Englishman. This side of the pond, paying someone money in exchange for sexual services is perfectly legal, and I am never doing anything against the law whenever I hire. Hiring is not something that causes me any anxiety like it is for those of you over in the States. 
    Mind you, I've hired in the US before (NYC and San Francisco), and I think that even though hiring is illegal there (?), they are such liberal places that there is no reason to worry. I certainly didn't feel anxious at all, especially when I was in California.
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from + mds1 in Do you pay before or after?   
    This all depends on how the escort prefers to do business.
    I have a number of regular escorts I've been seeing for several years, they know me well, and so paying at the end of the session is no issue. 
    Often if it's someone new I'm seeing, they ask for the payment up front. That's no issue for me, I don't mind. If I see them a second time or if they become a new regular, then payment is often no longer asked for upfront, because trust has been well established.
    All that said, I have a couple of regulars who I've been seeing for a few years now, who still like payment to made at the start of the session (despite knowing me well); it's obviously just the way they prefer to do things. 
    I know there are many guys on this site who say they don't approve of paying upfront, but honestly, it makes no odds to me. Many escorts here in the UK accept bank transfers now, and this is increasingly how I pay them, often before even I arrive - I just zip the cash over to them via my banking app as I'm on my way to meet them (you often learn their real names this way, though in my own personal experience, once you know an escort well or even have met him a couple of times, he has no qualms revealing his real name. I know the real names of all my regulars).
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from SecretProvider in Do you pay before or after?   
    This all depends on how the escort prefers to do business.
    I have a number of regular escorts I've been seeing for several years, they know me well, and so paying at the end of the session is no issue. 
    Often if it's someone new I'm seeing, they ask for the payment up front. That's no issue for me, I don't mind. If I see them a second time or if they become a new regular, then payment is often no longer asked for upfront, because trust has been well established.
    All that said, I have a couple of regulars who I've been seeing for a few years now, who still like payment to made at the start of the session (despite knowing me well); it's obviously just the way they prefer to do things. 
    I know there are many guys on this site who say they don't approve of paying upfront, but honestly, it makes no odds to me. Many escorts here in the UK accept bank transfers now, and this is increasingly how I pay them, often before even I arrive - I just zip the cash over to them via my banking app as I'm on my way to meet them (you often learn their real names this way, though in my own personal experience, once you know an escort well or even have met him a couple of times, he has no qualms revealing his real name. I know the real names of all my regulars).
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    sjmuktop got a reaction from MadHatter in London recommendations   
    Do you like Latino men? If so, I have a number of recommendations I can make to you. I would be happy to do so. I have a few regulars. They bottom for me as I'm only top, but all are versatile.
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