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wow, great looking man... and the clothing he is wearing in the last picture is i recall typical of chiang mai, a place known for both beautiful and gracious people!

You would see it if you had to deal with as many as 20 reports in a single day originating from this one forum.  To put that in perspective… That’s around how many reports we had for the entire rest of the site during the entire politics hiatus. 

The rules overall have been the same for YEARS. However here it seems people seem to be needed to reminded of them very frequently. 

I’m working on a bug fix in the mean time where if you click the “I Agree” button that it returns you to the page you were on previously. 
 

Wow. This is your first post. Nice.

I saw him this past week for a 120min session. He is Outcall Only. He is in the MD burbs just outside the beltway. Rates are reasonable and he will metro or uber to you.
60 min 145 $
90 min 175 $
120 min 200$
Sweet and lovable guy. Handsome, great body, and a great massage.  I am a bigger guy and he was able to give me the pressure that I need.  I don't know if he travels with a table because I told him that we could use my table.
We had great conversation too. He struggles a bit with English verbally...but he is smart enough to get his point across. He followed up with me the next day to see how I was doing...and we had an extended conversation. I can't remember the last time a masseur did that.
Yes...maybe more than therapeutic, but YMMV. I will definitely see him again.
 

Here is today’s fake ad courtesy of the imbeciles at Rentmen.
it would be a shame if a bunch of people booked him & did not show up. 
https://rent.men/Pablohx

Kathy Griffin and Anderson Cooper were a funny pairing. Kathy, a professional comedian, didn’t have to get sloshed in order to be funny. Plus, her zany energy was the perfect contrast to Anderson’s uptightness. I’d start watching CNN’s NYE broadcast again if they invited Kathy back.
Andy Cohen reminds me of the loud-mouthed drunk in an overpriced, self-important Chelsea bar and lounge who has no filter and no appreciation for boundaries. 

No, it's not.  You do you 😀👍
It's just his way of slut-shaming strangers and trying to make himself feel superior. 

not the first time nor the last slut-shaming happens in THIS forum of all places...

I'm fine with Anderson Cooper, but they could remove Cohen and I wouldn't miss him one bit.  

Agreed. I chatted/texted with a guy a month or two ago who promised a premium spa experience in his private "luxurious" apt while charging escort prices. I was up front with him that I didn't mind spending the money but I expected more than just a massage. It didn't have to be sex per se but an erotic experience, MT, and kissing at the very least for the price he was charging. He wouldn't commit to anything beyond the "possibility" of a HE and kept touting his luxurious apt. I don't care about a marble bathroom and high thread count sheets (or whatever passes for luxury these days). Clean and comfortable is fine. I'm paying for the experience with the masseur or escort; I couldn't care less about Gucci sheets. I'm not going to pay $250 for "we'll see what happens..." 🙄

Personality, good manners, hygiene, humour, charm and humanity trump everything else. Clients like that are the absolute sexiest. Sex is fun if the client has those qualities. 

24yr old platinum from Minneapolis~
Fun and cocky… perhaps a bit o’ mischief~ 
 
 

So I like to watch the ball drop on Times Square. For me, that starts the new year. But CNN had Andy Cohen, who simply isn't funny, and Andersen Old-Man Cooper to get us through. I muted most of it. Then the ball drops, but we can't see it go all the way down since the CNN screen has a chyron spitting out Twitter comments.
Auld Lang Syne starts to play, but is quickly cut off by Sinatra's New York, New York. I went to bed.

I never favored beef tongue, but I was okay with it until I saw a full beef tongue in the display case at a butcher shop.
After the sight of that full beef tongue, it was a no go.

Velvet Rage

To ALL :  Stay SAFE, Healthy & Masked (for now)   

 

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

I concurrently agree with you. Your point is valid.
However, I can’t help but feel you may be slightly erring on a side of “privilege” rather than “fact” in some things you say. You feel “it’s never happened to me, thus it shouldn’t exist”. Even if you may not have experienced something personally, doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen to anyone.
I also don’t look at just the “dangerous” side of racism, but the “subtle and condescending” racism still exists. I can give examples even: There’s a client https://rent.men/Shanestur who contacted me, who had several great reviews from other providers on his profile. However, upon closer inspection of me clicking each escort who reviewed him: they were all White guys who reviewed him positively. 1 was a negative review, but the rest were fine.
However, his communication with me was far less than stellar. Not only did he text me a gif of a “stereotypical” Black woman as a “funny” excuse for taking hours to respond to an important message I sent him, but he flaked on the session and ignored messages to confirm the booking that he claimed he would attend in the morning. Which subsequently caused me to be inconvenienced in the process. And if all that wasn’t bad enough, when I tried to get him to take responsibility for his bullshit and flakiness, he had the nerve to blame me for his flaking out. 
 
THAT: is what I called racism. It’s not always the KKK, hanging on a tree racism that we read in history books. I view racism as things like clients being flaky, making like I don’t mean anything (superiority) and don’t deserve anything for my spent time. And from talks on the forum, it seems White providers deal with this less than those of other backgrounds, specifically Black.
 
It’s the disrespect and lack of consideration, that fuels racism towards certain sex workers. 

Yes. I find tattoos more and more sexy, fortunately. 

Love & Peace, my man! Save the aggression for the return of the Politics forum!

if you, like me, gravitate to the OP to find a link, it won't work......
somewhat buried upthread is the apparent only working link for Greg: https://rentmasseur.com/gregbig

i retract my comment about Gregbig being socially awkward.
I saw him again and he was excellent, made me feel comfortable and welcome, and was quite charming.
Nice to say.

i retract my comment about Gregbig being socially awkward.
I saw him again and he was excellent, made me feel comfortable and welcome, and was quite charming.
Nice to say.

Not to shit on something you are hopefully enjoying, and knowing nothing about the book, I'm 100% sure that this reviewer either has not read one of the seminal books he namechecks, or if did read them he didn't understand them.  How else to explain comparing a self-help book to two masterworks of (gay) literature?
"Downs’s spry self-help manual is called The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World. It is becoming a touchstone in gay culture just as Christopher Isherwood’s Goodbye to Berlin was in the 30s, Larry Kramer’s Faggots in the 70s and Edmund White’s A Boy’s Own Story in the 80s. "
 
Oh well.

My all time favorite was an OF guy who got me to subscribe to his account only to see that his postings consisted of him telling everyone that he would soon be posting.
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