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I think the answer as you guessed is everyone’s different. But it’s also worth remembering that escorts likely receive far more messages than clients do. So it makes sense some might delete chats just to stay organized or avoid clutter.
Next time, I’d say go ahead and treat it as a continuation. Something like:
“Hi, we spoke back in January. I see you’re visiting again. I was hoping we could finally arrange a time. How does [insert date/time] look?”
That way you jog their memory while making it easy for them to respond. Nothing wrong with giving a little context. Good luck.

Thanks, guys. As a relative newbie, I continue to be amazed at how helpful everyone is and how much collective wisdom there is to be found here.

Everyone is different, some guys do both, some like to just receive. If you're looking to receive just always be transparent and tell the provider what you're looking for. 

Everyone is different, some guys do both, some like to just receive. If you're looking to receive just always be transparent and tell the provider what you're looking for. 

This guy hits me up.. he has a new account which is already a red flag in my book. But we’re chatting and I drive to his place after sending multiple verification photos. Then he says he won’t let me in till I take a photo outside of his apartment building so I took one from in my car parked out front. He then says no I need to be standing out front. So I explained that sounded weird as I already verified. He said I had to do it so I told him I’m not getting out of my vehicle as there was no need since I already verified. Him wanting me outside my car and to take additional verification in front of his building made me feel like he was the cops. He was also asking weird questions about my personal life like if I was born in the us. I left and he said wait come back you can just come up it’s fine. So I come back against my better judgement and tell him I’m outside. He quits responding then blocks me. The amount of clients that are so paranoid about hiring that end up blocking me after I’ve already driven to there plays is way to much! I was beyond pissed as i spent about 2 hours going back and forth with this guy! Sorry needed to vent 

With an escort you can always cuddle after you cum and I guess most of us do. 
I'm surprised you want to have your HE at minute 35 and not at the very end of the session. I do understand trying to do something other than hanging out considering he's a masseur. 
There was an old thread about reverse HE... meaning HE at the beginning and the massage after. 

You should never send a deposit, especially if it's someone not known, and when they ask via Pay Pal it's usually always a scam.  

You should never send a deposit, especially if it's someone not known, and when they ask via Pay Pal it's usually always a scam.  

I’ve stated before I’ve never expected tips, as a lot of times it never happens, so when clients do give me a tip I’m usually floored and grateful. I think it also varies too from massaging vs escorting.

No issue with finding one, I’ve done 3 somes with couples. I’ve done separately as well, and charge as you would a single person, but charge both people since they’re two of you. 

I’ve stated before I’ve never expected tips, as a lot of times it never happens, so when clients do give me a tip I’m usually floored and grateful. I think it also varies too from massaging vs escorting.

I don’t care what an escort does in his private life as long as he fulfills what I want. Also, me and my husband (who is a top) hire together so guys who can really top and bottom in a session are *chef’s kiss.” 
I’ve seen members here question the masculinity of providers as if there’s some authentic masculinity. There isn’t. It’s all a performance that we learn growing up and some of us then lean more into what feels “natural” to us. 

I've been hired by clients who are into piss play, in all different forms. 

I've been hired by clients who are into piss play, in all different forms. 

As someone who has experienced these, it's more about you than the provider. I learned how to have them via Zoom during the COVID-19 pandemic. It mostly has to do with your ability to relax into the pleasure, so it just waves over you again and again. Have you ever had one? You can probably teach yourself with a toy. 

What kind of guys do you hire? 
RM isn't craigslist, you've been unlucky!

Remove the word "perhaps" from that sentence, and you’re on the right track.
Chalk it up to experience.
Learn from your mistakes.
Move on.

You should never send a deposit, especially if it's someone not known, and when they ask via Pay Pal it's usually always a scam.  

It's perfectly normal and never be afraid to ask. I've been hired by clients who have foot fetishes and have ask for similar/and same thing. It's fun😘 

That’s understandable and trust me it happens to me all the time getting flaked on , especially if they’ve  ghosted.  I just think first meeting someone you’ve never met and asking for a deposit in this circumstance is just a big no. It’s usually the same formula too, ask for a deposit via PayPal. I think in any case if someone does do it via PayPal, make sure you do it Pay Pal Goods and Services.

You should never send a deposit, especially if it's someone not known, and when they ask via Pay Pal it's usually always a scam.  

It's perfectly normal and never be afraid to ask. I've been hired by clients who have foot fetishes and have ask for similar/and same thing. It's fun😘 

I’ve stated this before, I don’t expect a client to send pictures, because I know a lot of men are discreet and or private.

It's perfectly normal and never be afraid to ask. I've been hired by clients who have foot fetishes and have ask for similar/and same thing. It's fun😘 

It's perfectly normal and never be afraid to ask. I've been hired by clients who have foot fetishes and have ask for similar/and same thing. It's fun😘