jtwalker

I developed feelings for a provider once, so I just cut him off.  Deep down, I know he is an actor, and I need to keep my head straight.

Quality > Quantity:
Your photos should all be current.  I shouldn't be able to flip through you real and watch you age or gain weight.  I also don't want to guess your current hair color. A few face and body pics is fine.  I'm not likely to browse 100 photos anyway. Videos are even better.

Quality > Quantity:
Your photos should all be current.  I shouldn't be able to flip through you real and watch you age or gain weight.  I also don't want to guess your current hair color. A few face and body pics is fine.  I'm not likely to browse 100 photos anyway. Videos are even better.

I developed feelings for a provider once, so I just cut him off.  Deep down, I know he is an actor, and I need to keep my head straight.

I developed feelings for a provider once, so I just cut him off.  Deep down, I know he is an actor, and I need to keep my head straight.

Been there. Done that. Don’t do it. Adopt a dog. 

It doesn’t happen a lot on this site—which is a treasure, by the way—but I’m always stunned on the rare occasions when commenters use right-wing language like “woke,” “canceled,” or, in an instance on a past thread, “social justice warrior.” These terms are all meant to diminish efforts to protect and honor people who have been and continue to be subject to every kind of abuse and violence—like the queer men this site primarily serves! I don’t know what commenters would get out of throwing out insults about someone’s weight, age, etc., which add an unnecessary toxicity to this place of deep, human pleasure. Thank you all who call it out every time. ❤️

I would rather have 8-10 good shots of multiple angles than 109 shots of the same thing from 2017.
Actually I would rather see a few selfie videos along with the provider’s voice

You may be the hottest dude on the planet, but posing in front of your rumpled, unmade bed, with clothes scattered around with the closet door open displaying clutter on top of clutter is a bit of a turn-off. Likewise, dirty dishes in the kitchen sink … ah, you get the idea.  Don’t need studio photos, but come on, five minutes of tidying won’t kill ya.

Candid pics > Professional shots
 

Let’s be honest, there are plenty of places to get a legit massage for $100/ hour or less.  I go to one of these places all the time.  $85 with tip.
If you’re on here, you’re looking for a pretty special massage and that just costs more.  

Let’s be honest, there are plenty of places to get a legit massage for $100/ hour or less.  I go to one of these places all the time.  $85 with tip.
If you’re on here, you’re looking for a pretty special massage and that just costs more.  

I contacted him today.  I asked him if he kisses. His answer was “I’m vers”

There are only a few forums on here that I read, I skip the rest.
I don't like the political forum, but I think it may be necessary.  Some people need a place to rant, or they'll explode all over the other forums.

I new here as a member but not new as a visitor.
I agree with this and just want to add that it is good to keep those kinds of silly posts from there in one place because that way it is easy to forget that they exist.

Last week on a business trip, I had back to back nights 
where the providers texted exactly at the time we were 
to meet, to inform me they were "running an hour or two"
late. 
I politely informed them both that that didn’t work for me.
Then I went to the bar, enjoyed champagne and oysters,
and generously tipped the flirty bartender with the money
they lost. 
Never let inconsiderate assholes get you down.

Yup. I finally did this to a regular of mine who tried that. Luckily I have another regular who's extremely punctual,  so I was able to replace him with only a 30 minute delay.

There are only a few forums on here that I read, I skip the rest.
I don't like the political forum, but I think it may be necessary.  Some people need a place to rant, or they'll explode all over the other forums.

There are only a few forums on here that I read, I skip the rest.
I don't like the political forum, but I think it may be necessary.  Some people need a place to rant, or they'll explode all over the other forums.

Anyone take the plunge with BayAngel?

So….you paid upfront and got scammed.
What did we learn?

Ummm....thanks for the unsolicited advice.

I had to cancel on a provider because he didn't give me his phone number or the hotel he was staying at.  He simply told me a vague location.  I know he is legit because he has many reviews so I wasn't afraid I'd be in trouble, but on the day of my travel (I live two hours away), I decided to cancel the meeting.  I wasn't going to drive blind and not know where to drive to.  I simply message him back on RM and said, I won't make it.

This cuts both ways. I’ve had plenty of providers who pull similar shit. Like not showing up or being totally late, coming unprepared, wanting to leave early, constantly checking their phone etc.
I had one escort who wouldn’t ejaculate because he was saving it for another client later in the evening. A bit of a buzz kill.
And don’t get me started on the number of guys who I’ve seen that couldn’t sustain an erection.
My last big pet peeve- seeing an escort incall and finding out that their place is a disgusting shithole

More and more often there is not a phone number in the “contact me” info, the provider prefers to start the conversation via RM messaging.