jtwalker

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A few months back, I had a crazy cramp during a session.  The provider gave me half back for leaving early, then felt bad and came back to hang out awhile longer.  Didn’t ask for the half back, and I forgot.

I hired him again next time he was in town and he’s now a favorite.  I gave him a huge tip to make up for the first time and I’ll definitely hire him again.

it’s amazing what a little kindness can do.

12 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

I am not sure if this is a brand new thing or I am just noticing it. But it appears that you can now delete reviews on Rent.Men after you posted them. I didn't think you could do that before. Has anyone else noticed this or am I just way behind on this feature?

I already decided to delete two reviews from guys early on that I didn't really like but felt "pressure" to right a review for. 

Yes, I noticed this too.  I also deleted a couple of old reviews where they honestly just didn't measure up.

And yet, I did not, and he cancelled while I was on the way, so now he’s blocked.

I never learn, at least my little head never learns.

20 hours ago, FewBricksShy said:

Long and short is I don’t think guys are honest.

I’ve met a few that disprove this.  There are some great guys on RM.  

Anyone who truly wants to get the most out of the situation will give the most.  Ironically, the best way to receive is to give.  This is applicable in most of life.

6 hours ago, jetlow said:

My last overnight went like this: 

Meet at 10pm.

Sex Round 1

Sex Round 2

Talk + Sleep 12am-1am at this point.

Wake up 7am-8am

Sex Round 3

Sex Round 4

Sex Round 5

930am. Breakfast - which he asked for, I provided

1030 - Chit chat back in the room.

He leaves, with thanks.

Yes - he slept naked with me. Yes we cuddled.  And yes, I'd probably hire him again - dependent on my urge, opportunity and what my budget is like

 

I think everyone would hire this guy, lol

8 hours ago, FewBricksShy said:

@Dante– why the eye roll? Should a client just fork over more cash for nothing in return? Are clients here for the pleasure of escorts? It seems perfectly reasonable that I’d expect something if I’m paying. Don’t you think? Something in return for my money? Enlighten me where there’s a flaw in my logic.

I think clients and providers would all be better off if they would start looking for win/win transactions.  There are so many on both sides trying to be on the win side of a win/lose deal.  In the end, nobody wins on those deals.

It gets old hearing about clients that didn't get what they want and providers that think everyone is wasting their time.  If people would just try to take care of other people, this hobby, hell the world would be a better place.

3 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Questions are fine, most can be answered by saying “see my website”. There’s a difference between genuine questions and sex chat. 

Wouldn’t it be very obvious?  My questions are not very sexy.

Obviously, one of the benefits of RM is hiring guys that are out of your league.   Are such guys equally accommodating on Grindr?

Also, one of the things I like about RM is no strings are attached.  Are the Grindr guys more or less likely to get the wrong idea?

Like I said, I’ve stuck with RM thus far, but I’ve often wondered about it.

I'm thankful when escorts won't answer a few questions.  It keeps me from wasting my time by hiring the wrong guy.

I often wonder how many "time wasters" aren't time wasters at all.  A little patience goes a long way; it's difficult hiring an escort.  We want to get screwed, but not in the wrong way.

9 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:

The more I look at those body pics, the more I think he's well over 30. But that's just me. 

He sent a face pic, but I don’t think it matches the body.

I'm fairly certain I'm setting myself up for the same sort of experience with https://rent.men/sexycollegeboy  LOL  I never learn.

I've toyed with this too, but I don't have enough time for the RM guys that I like.  Why take the extra risk?

Anyone with recent experience?  He sent me a face photo, but I'm not confident that the face matches the body pics.  I'm not even confident that the body pics on his profile all match.  He is friendly in communication, however, so I am tempted to take a chance.

I had them reject a positive review, so I sent them a screenshot of our text chat and they approved it.

On 7/6/2022 at 9:45 PM, Daniel_D said:

Hey guys,

I fantasize on men with athletic body I can touch, sniff and kiss. But escorts I’ve been with looked very reluctant to fake being affectionate. It seems that only women can fake interest when straight guys hire them. The guys I’ve met wanted to give me a hand job to finish the session and get it done with. I feel that guys can do the mechanical work of hand job, penetration, massage, but they are not able to look affectionate or have the initiative to hug me. After such sessions I feel so empty and rejected, thinking that “money can’t buy you love” even for one hour. Am I asking too much of these guys? Did I choose the wrong escorts? Maybe the more muscular they are the more difficult for them to fake interest in less attractive people?

pls let me know if you have a solution or other feedback…

thanks,

Daniel D.

It just depends on the guy.  I’ve reached a point where I’m willing to run two scenarios depending on who shows up. If the guy is affectionate, I get the BFE I want.  There are good guys out there.

if not, I have him give me a massage and fuck.  There’s something about a massage, for me, that makes it more intimate than the “wham bam thank you man” that some providers seem to specialize in.

Guys, this is a business.  There are last minute cancellations in any business.  There is lack of respect in any business. These things are unavoidable and not worth focusing on.

You won’t find a way to stop these things and putting up too many boundaries will just hurt your income.

the providers who do best recognize this is a business and run it as such.

8 hours ago, coriolis888 said:

 

 

It is not about being able to afford rentmen.   Rentmen is cheap.  

Paying the small monthly fee of $9.95 to rentmen does not impress anyone except for a braggadocio.

I do not belong to their site because of my not wanting my personal information from my credit card to be on a site like rentmen.  

Escorts (providers) get paid in cash.  No written trails are left.  

I pay with Bitcoin, so no ID is required.  Otherwise, I’d be right there with you.

4 hours ago, Walt said:

Isn't this effectively saying that rich people write "better assessments"/reviews? As Margo Channing said: How nice for you, how nice for the escorts you like, how nice for everybody.  Or something like that. 😉

If you can’t afford RM, I don’t see how you can afford escorts.  Like it or not, this hobby is not for everyone.

7 hours ago, coriolis888 said:

As noted upthread, the only clients that can post a review to a rentmen providers' advertisement is a paying rentmen client.  

Because of that new rule, I see an immediate overall devaluation of the meaningfulness of reviews posted. 

I have several friends who hire from rentmen but they are not paying customers of rentmen.  My friends have posted many useful reviews over the years.  Obviously, they will not be submitting future reviews because of the new rentmen rule to accept reviews only from paying rentmen clients.  

I also use rentmen and I am not a paying customer of rentmen and I have, in the past, posted honest reviews of providers.   My reviews will no longer be accepted unless I pay rentmen for the review feature.   

It is obvious that because of the new rentmen rule, a lot fewer reviews will be posted in the future to providers accounts.  

Non "premium rentmen" clients who have a good experience with a provider cannot write a review.   Likewise, non "premium rentmen" clients who have a terrible experience with a provider cannot post a warning review.  

There is no question that the value of rentmen reviews have lost a great amount of value by not allowing all actual renters of providers to post a review simply because the client does not pay rentmen a fee.  

I would think the providers would complain to rentmen about the new rule.  

I am glad for the new rule as it makes it harder for providers to create accounts for bogus reviews.

as much as I pay providers, the cost of RM is very reasonable.

Chaterbate is my pet peave, 😂 

I guess he is confused and thought he signed up for Grindr.  Any provider that wants a pic is immediately a hard pass.  He isn't thinking about this right.

The most success I ever had was with two guys.  One held the legs while the other went to town.  But this is not always practical.

He is visiting Tampa.  Anyone with experience?  https://rent.men/RobertLawX

35 minutes ago, Calix_V2 said:

This guy "cryptos" 😉

@jtwalker I agree with your overall observation, but this bear is a bit different with fundamentals unlike any bear in the past. War, economy, unsustainable lending practices, etc.  Also protocols that don't ship well audited code that becomes susceptible to hacks/exploits (a few $B in 2021 I believe, doesn't help new user adoption). A bit different but I see too many institutional dollars at play to forecast a disaster scenario.  Peter Schiff would think differently, however! 😆

Yes, CeFi is a bit of a gamble.  I ejected from the Hindenburg disaster that was Celsius months ago.  Currently enjoying sustainable yield with Nexo, however that in itself is a bit of a gamble, even with Antoni and his partner Kalin doing AMA's and real-time Armanio audits, etc etc.

Out of all the failing projects, I think Nexo will come out on top and with bank licenses, overcollateralization, the audits as mentioned it seems like the least risk among CeFi.  Have you any experience with lend/borrow platforms in the past?
And HW's are a must, love the piece of mind they give 👍

Given the state of the market and the world, I’ve pulled back to top 20 market cap coins and I’m looking at it as a long term investment.  Dollar cost averaging and patience are my play at the moment with about 80% split between BTC and ETH.

The riskier side of my profile is in DOGE because Elon Musk always seems to get his way and some others.  This only makes up about 20% of my portfolio, and I’ve decided to give it up to 5 years; though, I don’t think it’ll take that long.

No doubt some institutional players are trying to drive the market, but I believe they will eventually want to run it back up for the big wins.  Given that folks like Elon can drive a 20%+ swing with a tweet, I suspect their is some sexy power that the haves will continue to manipulate and I’m hoping to ride the coat tails.