KensingtonHomo

How 'bout you let us worry about our livelihoods.  Again, your privilege doesn't extend to telling me how to do my job.
You're welcome to expect anything you like.  But for reasons detailed above (i.e. we're not on call 24/7), your expectations will often lead to disappointment.
Karen Slater

Don’t tell me the dog licked the cum too 🤮 . I prefer guys leave their pets in another room. I didn’t sign up for bestiality, and the only time I am okay being watched is on video or a (male) client’s partner.
I had one guy before was like, “my dog(s) will want to sleep in the bed with us tonight, he always does”.
I got up and checked into a Sheraton at 2 in the morning. This is not 3way dating with the dog. 

That’s familiar. Reminds me of the time a client told me his dog likes to be in the room during the session. It sat quietly in its basket as I did the session, watching me for what seemed like the whole time. At the end there was some cum on my shin and foot. As I got off the bed to go in the shower the dog quickly left it’s basket and licked at my leg. I suspect the client had trained him…

He's a pretty well known Porn star - though he has dumb politics. It's possible that he thinks you're hot and just wants to bone, but it could also be a scam. 

As amusing and accurate as you are: this has been my reality the past couple of weeks. It’s really just becoming ridiculous, and it’s proving more and more each day why I can no longer leave my phone number up in my ads. Yesterday I had 2 “clients” epic fail attempt to arrange a session “tonight”. One I didn’t reply to because it sounded fake right off the bat, the other contacted at nearly 10:30 p.m. for an outcall at “a hotel” (no name) 20 minutes away. I replied less than an hour later with complete details: no response. It didn’t seem like either one read my ad. It’s like just looking at pictures, seeing a city and scrolling to number. 
I don’t know what has happened to the concept of booking things in advance, but at least in small market middle America 🇺🇸: it’s dead. It’s been like 2 weeks straight: I’ve had nothing but same day/short notice booking requests and have only gotten to meet 1 out of them all. When people do book in advance, they’re like “how long are you in town”. That’s not booking in advance. 
 
Then most of these people, I take time to respond to them with the necessary info, and they don’t even reply back. Some just want to throw me a text, tell me where they are and me to just say YES, I CAN COME NOW/TONIGHT. No questions/proof asked. It doesn’t work like that. I am not UberGrindr.com. This mentality nowadays is inefficient/distracting and I have to deal with it by requiring everyone to schedule a paid consultation first.  
 
Just like the person above said, “I give a guy half an hour to reply and I consider this to be EXTREMELY generous and even then sometimes I'm unable to secure a meet up.”
I just can’t tell if this mean: “the escort can’t secure a meet up for me”, or if it means “It’s not fast enough to secure a meet with me”
 

I agree with Karen … I take my phone everywhere with me so I can instantly reply to clients who might want me in the next 5 minutes. Oh…hold on someone is messaging……brb….
 
Ok that’s him serviced. Where was I? Oh yeah about clients needing 24/7 instant response. So I take my phone….oh another enquiry….brb
 
Sorry about that, he wanted an outcall 20 miles away in half an hour. Just made it in time. Bit tired now as it was a long session. Sorry for delay in completing this post. Next client is in 5 minutes so I’ll be back later….
 
Ok that’s him done. Well actually we swapped places and he massaged me as I was too tired. I fell asleep on the table. I’m sure he had a good time as he’d left his load on my bum alongside payment. How thoughtful. Ok where was I? Oh yes I take my phone everywhere and as I write this I’m sitting on the toilet just responding to a client. I hope I don’t drop it dow *^%<#!’…….   <error> 
 
 

Let’s turn the script around for a minute:
The escort inputs their available now green light in the morning. Any client who doesn’t contact by say: 3 pm hotel check in or 12 pm checkout time, misses their chance. Or, I contact all my regulars and ask if they can meet “today”, and if they don’t respond in a generous, lengthy 30 minutes, I’ll book another client and they’ll miss their turn. Even though; I reached out to them saying I’m available.
You don’t have to answer because I already know what it would be: likely not. Most clients who expect us to be available at drop of dime, are generally never are themselves when the escort reaches out of the blue. I texted 2 clients this week about sessions that they reached out to me for. Neither one has replied and it’s been over 24 hours. One requested to meet today, I’ve not heard nothing back since Tuesday. 
 
At the same time: I understand the dynamic is different and at times it’s necessary to arrange things on same day notice. But we’ve already heard several examples of providers who don’t show their phone numbers or do same day visits. How do they get clients in a “moment’s notice” culture?
I think at the end of the day, it helps to know escorts are people just like clients. Having an ad and phone number on the internet is no guarantee of availability. Even on free sites: nobody is really ever available when you want it, unless  they’re on drugs or it’s late at night. Dates just don’t work that way. 
 
I feel if someone regularly approaches with that mentality, they may be more off seeking fun at a bathhouse where everybody is already ready.
 Speaking of Ludicrous and minute men: lol
 

Wait are you saying escorts ask for $1800/night?! Maybe I'm doing this all wrong haha...
Honestly, the Pandemic opened a lot of people eyes and holes to sex work - and not everyone who begins this work intends to do it well for the reasons you hope they are. Most industries support terrible employees at some level - and most of those employees have no idea how bad they are. Like Democrats and Republicans!

I have co-workers with whom I am friendly while at work, but I don't consider them friends.
I have one co-worker whom I regularly see out of work.  We are friends. 
There is a difference.
It's the same with escorts.  There are several men I hired more than once and I enjoyed spending time with them, but I never saw them off the clock (apart from maybe a quick bit to eat after a session) and would never have considered them a friend.  I also didn't give them things apart from their fee.  With the one escort with whom I became friends, that was demonstrated by the nature of our interactions.  It wasn't a declaration on the part of the escort that was manipulative.  We just started doing things that friends would do -- go out to eat, go to a movie, chat on the phone.  When I had no power for days after an earthquake, he allowed me to spend a night at his place so I could finally take a hot shower.  When I lost my apartment due to a fire, he allowed me to use his place when he was out of town.  In fact, he was more generous towards me in that latter crisis time than some other men I considered friends, one of whom basically refused to let me sleep on his living room floor and another who let me know, when my apartment building was still on fire, that he could only host me that night.  I'm still friends with that former escort all these years later whereas some of those other friends are no longer part of my life.

Your co-workers are not your friends.
The company you work for is not your family.
Your boss isn't really concerned about your well-being.
And....

Many providers do not respond to messages from potential clients. 
Hence, it is not a bad idea to send out "bids" or inquiries to multiple providers in hopes that one will respond.  
 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

I saw him today. Such a nice guy. Great technique and the extras (which were included) were delightful. He's very handsome, so don't let the lack of pics dissuade you. 

I saw him today. Such a nice guy. Great technique and the extras (which were included) were delightful. He's very handsome, so don't let the lack of pics dissuade you. 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

This is craziness. If I see a provider I know on an app, I would assume he's either there for his personal reasons or drumming up business. Either way, I wouldn't expect him to hook up with me for free (unless he specifically offered that), just as I don't do my profession for free. 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

I think some are being a little bit judgy...

Not all grown-ups react the same way or do the right thing whatever that is in each circumstance.
Not a good idea for any of us to start casting stones. Coulda woulda shoulda... 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

This. One reason I don't spend much time chasing high priced visitors is because they apparently think that if they're worth that much money, they're better than everyone else.
And they brag a lot, which is a bone killer for me. I still recall a guy who got some photos published,  so he thought of himself as a professional model. I kept my mouth shut as to his probable career prospects. 

Taking nothing away from Ben, but I think your concept of "average" is quite removed from what "average" male bodies actually constitute in modern day North America, where over 60 percent are either overweight or obese. Blame the North American diet and lack of exercise, the major contributors to this other pandemic.
Scott has a nice slim body well proportioned to his height. And is well endowed where it counts. As I said before, the reason we didn't have a 5 star experience the first time was that we were both tired. My fault for contacting him at the late hour I did.

I couldn't agree with you more. Unfortunately several members cheered him up in his wise decision. 

That's borderline sexual assault. Consent to blow someone is not consent to swallow. 

That's borderline sexual assault. Consent to blow someone is not consent to swallow. 

I personally don’t initiate on the first meeting. He’s either brought it up before like “light mutual touching is ok” and from there maybe he’ll create a situation of contact. Can’t hurt to ask if unsure, at the point where it seems organic for you. 
Look for guys with dual profiles, and really read the massage page, training and experience will be described and enumerated in profile. Do 60m massage first time, keep convo and meeting discreet. (Similar to first meetup for coffee rather than dinner and a show. $$)
Say you click. If you want more, ask to schedule another visit for the extended or more mutual service, telling him you’re aware of the higher rate, and you’ll already have some sort of rapport. Tip well regardless of massage quality, though. At the very least you get a massage and a handjob, don’t make him remember you as cheap if you want to call again. 🤣