KensingtonHomo

I was summarizing your experience where you said when the escort arrived you had sex, then when you got back that evening, and in the morning you wanted to go for three.

Sounds dreadful.

No, @Todd Jenkins I'm not confusing the stories. Maybe you don't recall how you presented the story, but by your account you had sex twice the first night.

He already fucked him twice. The services were rendered. It’s not like the escort refused to engage in sex. As a bottom, getting fucked three times in 24 - 36 hours can be a bit much.

This says a lot about you. And none of it is good.

Nothing like forcing someone to let you fuck them when they’re not in the mood. Not at all rapey. 😂

If I were that escort, I would never see you again. You had sex twice, and the morning after, he wasn’t up for a third go, so you pressured him into it. Maybe you think this is funny or you being butch, but it sounds like you treated this young man as something less than a person.

I hadn't noticed his discrimination against Asian people when I made my first post here. Honestly, that's a big turn off.

I saw him last summer in P Town, and it was disappointing. Virtually no sensuality; just a decent massage that was overpriced.

I really think some of the commentary on here over the line. You don't know if this gentleman has maintained his body or not, and telling stories about aging actors is just bad form. #dobetter

22 year old muscle boys hold no appeal for me. He’d have to give me $400. 😂

$500/hour for someone with no reviews is a lot.

Yeah, I love Spanish guys but something about his ad is off.

I feel like digital communications, whether texting or social media, have resulted in us dehumanizing each other. I find this to be more the case with people younger than me (I'm Gen X), who created "ghosting." And I think that general disregard for each other show's up horribly in service based businesses.

I don't think you're overreacting. If a provider lists that they offer something, they should be willing to do it for you. To be honest, this is why I tend to avoid providers who identify as bisexual. I feel like there's a correlation between "no kissing" and identifying as bisexual.

What part of he's a human being are you having trouble with? There's no comparison in remarking on or reviewing an inanimate object, or a service that is being provided, and someone's body or other physical characteristic. It's like going to a restaurant and saying "the service was terrible and the waiter was homely." The first is fine; the second is dehumanizing.

No. It is not hypocritical to say that people have a right to bodily autonomy AND that it's wrong for you to take a well-known person and pick them apart publicly. It means I see providers, porn actors, whatever as full human beings, that do not exist solely or primarily for my sexual gratification. Conflating what you did with reviewing a restaurant or a piece of art is literally dehumanizing. You're comparing these man to inanimate objects. But people are not restaurants or statues. And you are not discussing a service he provided, like massage, or saying a restaurant's food wasn't to your taste. You are criticizing his body and his appearance on a semi-public forum, which he could see. Again, if I posted pictures of you and went through all the ways I perceive your appearance to be flawed how would you feel?

I have to agree with @BtmBearDad. All of this reads as an assumption that some of you have a right to these men's bodies. Or that you have a stake in how their bodies look. There's very little difference between this kind of toxic masculine entitlement and anti-abortion zealots. These escorts are people who deserve bodily autonomy. How would any of you feel if I posted pictures of you and slammed your looks? Or maybe I should start a thread on how I think tanning is gross. "Why do these beautiful young men scar and age themselves with tanning?" Maybe I should start a lengthy thread on my dislike of facial hair and how it obscures handsome faces? If you do not care for an escorts looks, DO NOT BOOK him. But creating threads picking apart people's looks is presumptuous and dehumanizing. Tattoos are a frequent topic but there's lots of dehumanizing conversations about escorts that really should be removed by the moderators.

Strong Strokes is in the LES, not far from Chinatown. https://rentmasseur.com/StrongStrokes

I texted him yesterday morning but no response thus far.

I feel like if they're not positioning themselves as bottoms, that's fine. You could always reach out and ask if they're willing to bottom for you. I'd be more concerned with a provider saying they're a specific role and not being to perform.

I agree with this. I'm not opening any further accounts. Also, the deposit should be no more than 25 percent of the rate. So, if it's $200/hour then $50. The point of the deposit is to hold the time and lock people in.

I've noticed a few of these too. I think it's odd when they claim a preference and show the opposite assets.

I haven't met him but he's cute and definitely my type.

We got vaccinated about three weeks ago. So we're not that concerned but are checking with providers if they're also been vaccinated.