KensingtonHomo

No shade to @keroscenefire but I don't think you need to starve yourself to bottom. It really depends on how regular you are. I'm a morning pooper, and not into morning sex, so if I'm going to bottom in the afternoon or evening, I'll stop eating 2-3 hours before. And I douche very much how @pubic_assistance outlined above. I would also caution people against taking Imodium with any regularity. Binding up your GI tract is unhealthy, and if you have a virus or bacterial infection, Imodium can conceal that and lead to bad outcomes.

You can sort of see his face in the private photos. He’s quite cute. I met him without seeing his face and I was pleasantly surprised.

I would co-sign Dylan. I saw him when he was in NYC, and it was an amazing experience.

Is it "two twinks for the price of one?"

You win!

So true about the hair. I had an older boyfriend when I was 20, who was pretty hairy. He taught me to shower off the cum with cool to cold water since the hot water removes the seminal fluid faster and bunches up the sperm, leaving it tangle in your body hair.

That's kind of intense. I admit to only find cum hot when it's fresh. After it cools off, I find it pretty gross and want it off of me as quickly as possible.

They're not for me. I like kissing and oral.

It's conjecture but if this provider did experience the end of an important relationship, there's no timeline by which he has to be "over it." Our culture is really gross when it comes to refusing to honor people's feelings of loss and grief. Add to that that two years of some degree of social isolation, and currently living through unending mass deaths, and - yeah - maybe he needed some time.

I'm not aiming this specifically at your Jess, but there are usually hints as to whom you can share this kind of information with. The most important issue is whether or not people knowing you hire can impact your personal or financial well-being. I wouldn't tell anyone I work with or anyone adjacent to that. Like others here, I have a few close friends I share this info with, all of whom are very sex-positive and pro-sex work. The first item I would look for in someone to share this with is their views on sex work. If someone is not in the "sex work is work" category, I will not broach it. If they have sexual hang-ups, nope.

Occasionally with select friends, but we never go into details. I find younger people (millennials and younger) are way more open than Gen X or older.

He changed his profile name: https://rentmasseur.com/MrSensual

We saw him tonight. He's very handsome with a great lanky body. He has a great personality. He gave two great erotic massages. And he's fun to talk to.

I've known many people who engage in sex work of various types. From what I've seen, there's nothing about sex work that is inherently traumatizing. Rather, doing illegal work and dealing with nasty or violent clients without recourse to the police are the primary issues. We live in a culture that is very sex-negative and puritanical. So if someone chooses to do sex work, or circumstances of their life push them into it, many people will judge them as damaged, diseased, and other forms of dehumanization. I think that's the primary cause of trauma for sex workers.

We’ve done the whole range of vanilla options with Mike and he’s not only fabulous in bed but a total sweetheart.

I’ve only been asked for deposits when I’m meeting someone for the first time. I’d they have a good rep I don’t mind doing it and I’ve never been burned. 🤞🏻

You're so thirsty for negative attention. 🤣

I’ve looked ar his page and he does nothing for me. I get bored reading his profile.

He’s cute but not $600 cute. I haven’t met anyone who is.

Yes, highly educated people are known for being unable to spell and write. 🙄

Please cite the sentence where I said you must be attracted to something you're not. You cannot because that is not my point and has not been my point. I haven't started a thread called, "Six pack abs" which details why I don't find them attractive. I haven't posted that men with poorly groomed feet are disgusting, or that guys who don't wear deodorant smell bad. Those are things I find unattractive to completely repellent that other members of this forum enjoy. Yet I not only have never started a thread about those things, I rarely even mention them if someone posts about a provider with those qualities. It's really simple to just have your preferences and ignore things you don't find appealing.

I think my roll is at the correct speed. Yes, me saying "we don't need" is a value judgment. Lastly, nail care is grooming or self-care, just like the other things I cited. You can literally get your hair cut, tan and your nails manicured at most salons.

I reached out to him recently but haven't heard back.

Where did I say a client had to hire an escort with nail polish? I didn't. I'm saying we do not need threads where people tell us what they don't like about guys they're not going to hire. All these threads do is yuck other people's yum. I actually agree that a provider showing up looking substantially different than their photos can be a deal breaker. I doubt I'd include nail polish because I either like it or am neutral about it.

This is a stunning amount of projection that you're foisting on people you don't know. It's a lot of rationalization for your own dislike of something.