KensingtonHomo

Wow. You really don't like tattoos.

I reached out to him; asked his rates and for a face pic. He asked when we were looking for and then requested our private gallery. I'm guessing he's gonna be a pass.

Two guys I've been with who are super-fun and more average in the dick department are Jonah Wheeler and Nick Halden. They're not small but probably in the 6.5-7 range. They're both great tops but also vers so I think they have a better sense of what feels good to a bottom. They are also both very nice guys.

He's long been a fantasy of mine, but I'm a little worried about my ability to handle the piece.

Way to much plastic surgery or FaceTune for me.

He's cute, shaved head, glasses. Kind has a sexy geek vibe but a ridiculous body.

I messaged with him and our schedules didn't align. I'm pretty sure he had folks recommending on here.

It took me five years to finish college because I worked part of the time, but at 26 you're not long a "college masseur."

HIs profile claims "the pandemic is over." That's a deal breaker for me, as it means he's not living in reality. LOL

Or leap into a thread where multiple negative experiences with a provider are mentioned.

Oh yeah, that I can see. It's pretty easy to tell who's phony though.

Why do you think the reviews on here are fake? I'm never nothing but honest.

The minute I read he was "exclusive" I knew his rates were going to be exorbitant. Plus if you look at his video, his features are not as flattering as in his pro pics.

I don't find him remotely appealing. But I do wish ya'll would stop with the femme-phobia. Everyone is welcome to their own tastes and fantasies but putting down guys for being feminine or queeny just perpetuates anti-queer stigma.

People can be into playing submissive at times and dom at other times. Or just having vanilla sex. And many escorts provide experiences that may not be their primary way of enjoying sex.

Sorry if I read into your tone. I just feel like escorts are providing a service, and we should respect their boundaries.

As a client, I want to say that escorts are human beings. They have different preferences and tastes. Some guys excel at providing an experience under every circumstance. Some don't. If an escort wants to use a condom, we - as gay men who have lived through a fucking plague - should understand that. It's not just HIV/AIDS. The advent of PreP has seen STIs rise among gay men. We're now also dealing with treatment-resistant gonorrhea, which escorts may be trying to avoid. Now we're 27 months into a respiratory pandemic with variants that evade our vaccines. I'm recovering from COVID-19 now. If I were an escort, I'd have been out of work for the past 8 days. So I think kissing is something people are a bit uncomfortable with. I know I'm more leery of doing it with strangers - whether escorts or hook ups. I'm a Gen Xer who came out when AIDS was just ravaging our community. So when someone wants to take a precaution to protect their health, I'm willing to go along with it. And I think bitching about it, shows a lack of respect and solidarity for sex workers.

This is very similar to my initial message. I'm a little shorter and generally ask what payment type they prefer.

A Nigerian accent is sort of a British accent thanks to colonialism. But it’s a bit distinct.

I have to co-sign Dominus. He's very kind and affectionate. He's from Nigeria and has a beautiful accent and speaking voice. Incredibly smart and well-traveled. Overall, he's just a great time. And if you want to go for anything sexual, he's up for it all. One of the best providers I've met.

Sounds amazing.

I want a lot of details after all the suspense.

My preference is to book a couple of days in advance. Particularly as a bottom I want to be sure I'm prepped and ready to go by watching my diet and making time to clean out. When traveling I prefer to start reaching out a week or so in advance, since I generally have tighter time frames. Despite that, when we just went to Montreal, we had two providers flake on us. The first was a couple. We had a penciled in evening and general time about a week in advance. I confirmed that time and place the day before. And then three hours before we were to meet, they canceled because one of them "forgot" and invited a friend over. Then they wanted to reschedule. We passed. We did end up finding a guy who was available for that evening, but I had long wanted to hook up with a couple so that fantasy is still on hold. Then we booked a pretty well-known guy. Again, conversation starts a couple of days out. Confirmed the day before. We had plans to do a tour that morning so he told me to text him when we were done. I did. Waited an hour. Texted him again. Nothing for five hours when he responds that his friend is having a crisis and asking if we can meet much later that evening. We passed. I don't know if the issue was real but we do our best to treat every provider we meet with professionalism and kindness. If we're hosting, we'll ask if they have a beverage preference. Flakey providers and clients make the rest of us look bad and foster mistrust. It's a bummer.

I feel the same way. If someone is going to be so not into me, they can't even get it up professionally, please let me know in advance.

I've had a few providers ask to see a photo when we booked; none of them ever canceled over it. Generally I offer a photo because I feel like I've already seen them. And I'd like to know who I'm meeting with. But I'm incredibly publicly gay so there's no reason for me to be discrete about it. Other people have valid reasons to want discretion.