KensingtonHomo

People arguing for their rights - particularly those guaranteed in The Constitution, such as Freedom FROM religion - need not be tolerant of religious zealots trying to impose their so-called values on the rest of us. I'm not interested in acceptance or tolerance from right-wingers or Christian fascists. I want the state to ensure their beliefs are kept to the private sphere. They used to claim to want that, too, but - as you see with Kirk Cameron - he wants to use public spaces to indoctrinate children. I have my beliefs, morals and ethics. I'm not seeking to impose them on anyone else. If I take my nephew to a drag queen story hour, that's between me and his parents, not the GOP, Ben Shapiro or our elected officials.

So sad. He was so young.

I'm gay and mostly a bottom. And I do not understand the obsession with penises, particularly guys who want 11 inches. Like others have said, I am much more into a handsome face, a shapely body or varying sizes, and - honestly - really nice legs than the penis. I really love my husband's penis. I feel like it's a "Goldilocks" penis, "just right." But I'm completely disinterested in like "disembodied" penises like dick pics. Like when I see just dicks on Rent.men profile, I generally don't click.

We were there in May and most guys were charging $250 CAN.

This may be true when it comes to normal inflation, but the current inflation is due in part to supply chain issues due to the pandemic, but it's mostly being just driven by corporate greed. The Fed raised interest rates to discipline labor, just as the Biden administration and Congress stepped in to discipline the railroad workers. Neither of these steps is sustainable as people will respond to government-imposed immiseration by electing fascists in 2024 or civil unrest.

What made you not want to repeat?

Ya got me gal! I meant gender nonconforming.

I have literally zero interest in a self-involved, delusional Gen Zer, who clearly wants to be a trophy "wife."

While there is a biological drive in most people to reproduce, that has nothing to do with sex for pleasure or recreation. I recommend a book called "Sex at Dawn", which argues that pre-agriculture, as we were living in nomadic tribes for 30-50 people, sex was had for pleasure between members of the same and opposite sex. And children were raised by the tribe as a whole because while they knew who the mother was, they didn't know who the father was. It's very interesting.

I don't disagree with that. I think without being socialized into heterosexuality, we'd have a lot more queer people of all stripes.

"Queer" is an umbrella term for sexual and gender minorities. Bisexuals are includes as are gays, lesbians, trans people, polyamorous folks, BDSM, etc. I often refer to myself as queer because I'm a GNC male who has sex with men.

I would be very put off by the OP described. I don't get the sense that most people posting here are fabulously wealthy, so hiring is an indulgence that we enjoy and probably need to budget for. I am definitely open to providers we've seen before contacting us when they're in town. Sometimes it works financially and timing-wise, and that's awesome. Occasionally, I'll get what seems to be a "broadcast" text from a couple of providers who are offering discounts for massage in a certain period. Those are fine too. I have some regulars I follow and who follow me on Insta. But when I'm looking to hire I text them directly. Because even though we're friendly, it's still a business relationship.

I can’t get past the Amish beard 😂

When I tell people how tight I am it’s both a gloat and complaint. 😂

We saw Oliver. And he was good but not great. My first issue is an hour before we were to meet, he requested we send him a car. I generally don't do that. I prefer providers build costs into their price rather than ask for something al la carte. He was a good kisser. He has a great body and is quite furry if you're into that. He looks exactly like his photos, but he is shorter than advertised. I'd say he's maybe 5'10 because I'm 5'11" and he wasn't my height. He took a while to get "going" and then seemed to have to kindle the fire so to speak. In terms of topping (and here's where my main letdown was) he only had one speed which was rather rapid. I don't mind a good pounding as long as there are other strokes on the menu. He's headed to Miami next. Not sure we'd repeat.

While I've been bottoming for a minute, based on my experience, these are three potential options. My caveat is you should be forthright that it's your first time. And ask for more lube than you can possibly think you'll need. Also, if it's your first time prepping, do it at least an hour before. I've found if I to it closer to that, I'm overly sensitive. https://rent.men/NYWolfman He's hung but he's very sensual and very good about getting ready. He really knows how to wait for you to open up. And he's a great communicator so if something doesn't feel right, he'll respect you and take a break if needed. Also, a very interesting guy who's fun to talk to. https://rent.men/JonahWheeler Jonah is one of my absolute faves. He's very intuitive. His endowment is more on the average size, which may help. It's kind of Goldilocks dick: not too big, not too small. But, again, I really think it's that he listens and responds to what the client needs. He's also just very warm and sweet with a side of devilishness. https://rent.men/Nickhalden Also a very nice guy. A bit more introverted. He offers erotic massages that can turn into fucking. Especially if it's your first time, having someone who really warms you up and is sensual and relaxing can really help. He also has Goldilocks dick. PM me if you want more details.

Honestly, I've known a lot of women. Most of my close friends are women. Some of them are gorgeous, some are plain, etc. And if you spoke about this dislike of "smoking hot women" in front of me, I would be utterly turned off by it. Sure, some women (and hell of a lot of men) who know they are beautiful abuse it and look down on others, but I don't think it's the majority. And, assuming based on your limited experience of a subset of women, that all or ever most women considered conventionally "smoking hot" is just dressed-up misogyny.

We're seeing him Sunday. I'll report back. So far he seems very nice in texts. And he lists himself as vers.

We're speaking to him about meeting up this weekend.

I've never had an orgasm hands-free, but lots of pre-cum. But I've also had prostate orgasms where the pleasure is so overwhelming my whole body shudders and rocks uncontrollably. Usually, I need some hand or mouth assistance to actually achieve a full-blown orgasm. I ultimately think it comes (pardon the pun) down to the wiring and one's ability to let go. I think my wiring is there, but I'm a type-A person so "letting go" is a struggle.

What's the Jason Sparks model?

That's not true. The Irish have never colonized anyone. And there are plenty of Americans who would hang us for being queer.

DHS should be abolished as should all borders. These imaginary lines, often created by colonizing powers, harm human beings but let international capital fly freely.

I take psychiatric medication for OCD and it definitely helps. However, most of my real progress came in the form of therapy. Most young people cannot afford the kind of therapy one needs to tackle entrenched issues with anxiety and depression. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (which is shown to be more effective than any med) takes 6 to 12 months to see real progress. And most insurances - particularly the kind of Obamacare, catastrophic plans that younger people get - do not cover mental health in a real way. But they will cover anti-depressants. So these young people are left to be on meds for years, instead of getting a year or two of real therapy that would teach them the skills they need to live their lives.

That sucks. What did he do that made you feel bad?