NikoLeto

It’s their problem not mine. When they realise I don’t care what they think they become even more judgmental.

There does not appear to be any means to opt out of using the RM Messenger feature.
 
I'm honestly just flabbergasted that such an easy process that virtually all other apps have mastered (sending push notifications) is actually impossible for this app. If it could do that reliably, I'd have very few complaints. As it stands, I'm frustrated every time I see that green chat bubble light up with numbers under it. Yet more people I need to shepherd away from the IM feature.

Since when do we need an “invitation” to reply to posts?

I'm quite a verbal top when the bottom gets me into the mood, but I cannot help myself but moan and growl and grunt when I'm getting fucked. I've started filming myself as part of developing content for my OnlyFans and sometimes I can't help but cover my face when I get to moaning.
 
I've found that it's pretty much embarrassing to the person who does the moaning, but other people, especially the person's sex partner tend to get way into it.

I'm surprised I hadn't commented here. Just wanted to toss in my experience: That app is garbage and no matter what configuration I use, it never sends notifications to my phone, so I'm always telling people (which is included in my ad) to text me don't use the RM messenger.
 
It's terrible. Even if it weren't terrible, I still wouldn't use it as I have no guarantee that the messages aren't stored on a server somewhere waiting to be turned over due to legal requirements. At least if I'm using SMS it's only my carrier and the client, and if I'm using WhatsApp (or your preference of really secure messaging apps), it's end-to-end encryption so only me and the client can read them.
 
PLEASE do not use the RM messenger unless you feel you absolutely have to.

The difference between daddies and DIFLS is in the eyes of the beholder!
 

 
He's an exceptional case by all means...

At the rates I pay, I expect excellent service, yes. Same goes for all professionals I work with in other fields too.

let's say his voice is soothing.

Cody is not that boring and he certainly has his life/business together!

Sometimes boring is just what doctor ordered ?

and I never understood why folks BB before PrEP!

Echoing this. Gonorrha and chlamydia are specific to the hole the bacteria have infected. I just want to be doubly clear: you need to get all the holes you use tested for all the STDs (edit: limited to localized infections, like gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, etc.). I had a doctor (a friggin' doctor!) argue with me once that my throat/anal swabs were unnecessary because if I had anything it would come up on the UA.
 
Excuse me -- how would bacteria in my throat find themselves all the way down in my urethra? Same question for anal bacteria. People, man.

Echoing this. Gonorrha and chlamydia are specific to the hole the bacteria have infected. I just want to be doubly clear: you need to get all the holes you use tested for all the STDs (edit: limited to localized infections, like gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, etc.). I had a doctor (a friggin' doctor!) argue with me once that my throat/anal swabs were unnecessary because if I had anything it would come up on the UA.
 
Excuse me -- how would bacteria in my throat find themselves all the way down in my urethra? Same question for anal bacteria. People, man.

Hmm, where does it state that the escort isn’t getting treated?! ? These guys are both responsible and were getting it treated. That being said, your other comments are helpful.

You’re putting words in my mouth. I’m only stating facts, not opinions, unlike you.

If you're going to judge him for just trying to stay on top in a looks-based business, at least first understand what he was getting done.
 
It wasn't surgery. It was Nova Thread. It's done in 20 minutes. It's used to sharpen a jawline and in older people, it's the quick alternative to a full facelift if you're not ready for the downtime and recovery period. It's not permanent and usually lasts 4-8 months.
 
You can also use filler to shape a jaw if the person doing the injecting is talented and knows facial musculature.

I hate the use of incorrect gender identification. There may be men who prefer she or they and I am fine with that. But in general, I find referring to gay men as she is off putting.

I honestly prefer calling or video chatting over sending a picture. I guess technically they could be recording the conversation, but I just feel once a picture is out there, it's very easy to go anywhere else. If I remember, I think we talked on the phone before we met and I definitely liked having a nice conversation to get to know each other. I feel like that actually gives a much better idea of each other's personality and potential connection than a picture would anyway.

Are laughing at my comment or my hideousness???

That was funny until the trickle of blood appeared...lol

“The triumph of will over geometry and biology”
Stolen from a music critic reviewing a vocal recital at Carnegie Hall-Hole in which the obstacles were pitch and rhythm...
BTW both involve good breathing...

This was exactly my experience. I was a top only, until I started getting into relationships and/or got pressured to bottom. Absolutely never enjoyed it. It wasn't until I hooked up with a good friend that stopped and took the time to make sure I was enjoying it. He coached me through the whole (hole, hehe) process, and it opened my eyes to how much fun bottoming can be.
 
Now I'm pretty versatile and enjoy the fun times that come with being willing to take on either role.

This was exactly my experience. I was a top only, until I started getting into relationships and/or got pressured to bottom. Absolutely never enjoyed it. It wasn't until I hooked up with a good friend that stopped and took the time to make sure I was enjoying it. He coached me through the whole (hole, hehe) process, and it opened my eyes to how much fun bottoming can be.
 
Now I'm pretty versatile and enjoy the fun times that come with being willing to take on either role.

A very experienced Top who know what he's doing and knows how do deal with his huge cock. I've been "hurt" more by smaller guys that weren't that experienced or knowledgeable than by huge guys I thought I could never accommodate. But they knew they where exceptionally huge and were used to the challenge and took the time and had technic to make it work. Plus the bottom has to really wanna take it too! ?

When I first got into the business, I had a bunch of acquaintances judge me when they found out. I dropped those people, and ended up making friends among other providers. I eventually found other people (mostly younger than me) in my third place that I befriended. To the last man, not a single one of them bats an eyelash at my side hustle.
 
I think it's a generational thing.
 
I did once have a single member of the new friend group bring me aside and explain to me that he saw me as more than just a sex worker. I appreciated where his heart was at, but I can't imagine him having the same conversation with an accountant, or a bartender, etc. ?‍♂️