Moaning and Groaning - Hot or Not?

[+ MysticMenace]

I must admit, I am a moaner, especially if the sex is good. I do remember one time in the middle of it, I could hear myself moaning, and I realize that I sound like a female performer on Brazzers being DP'd. Being an observant individual that I am, I mentioned to the provider how I thought I sounded and he said he did not mind. However, I became a little too conscious about it and mentioned, in jest, that I would "butch it up" for him. I did, and we ended up just laughing hysterically for minutes but it broke the ice a little bit more (I know, what else is there to be broken!) from an emotional level. We obviously moved on and got it going again. Since then, I have learned to embrace my moans and groans, especially if the sex is that good. How about you? What do you think of moaning and groaning - hot or not?

[PetetKsfo]

I love getting feedback from clients. Moans, groans, using words!

Occasionally though i am not sure if it is a good moan or a bad moan, and will ask to make sure I'm not hurting him.

[KrisParr]

One of my favorite escorts (since retired) used to moan, “oh, yeah ... mmm mmm mmmmm” when I was blowing him. It always started low and quiet and increased in pitch and decibels - always gave me a clue when he was getting close to spewing. Loved it.

[MrMattBig]

Don't fake it, embrace it?

[+ poolboy48220]

I've told masseurs (both legit and otherwise) that low-pitched noises from me are good. If it's high-pitched, it means it hurts me :-)

[+ Lucky]

I have been told that I am one of the quieter ones. But I once did have people banging on my hotel room door wanting me to shut up.

[CatDaddy]

A little moanin' and groanin' can get things into overdrive fast! Hmmmmmmmm!

[+ sync]

I like to hear indications that I'm doing something right. ?

[+ MysticMenace]

I would presume not everybody moans and/or groans, and some people may prefer to be library-quiet during sex or would prefer to verbalize (e.g., with words) their satisfaction or dissatisfaction with certain activities. For the ones that do not prefer their partner to moan or groan, curious to know why and how, if the inclination of the partner is to moan or groan, that is resolved (if resolved) in bed (or elsewhere).

[NikoLeto]

I'm quite a verbal top when the bottom gets me into the mood, but I cannot help myself but moan and growl and grunt when I'm getting fucked. I've started filming myself as part of developing content for my OnlyFans and sometimes I can't help but cover my face when I get to moaning.

 

I've found that it's pretty much embarrassing to the person who does the moaning, but other people, especially the person's sex partner tend to get way into it.

[+ MysticMenace]

I'm quite a verbal top when the bottom gets me into the mood, but I cannot help myself but moan and growl and grunt when I'm getting fucked. I've started filming myself as part of developing content for my OnlyFans and sometimes I can't help but cover my face when I get to moaning.

 

I've found that it's pretty much embarrassing to the person who does the moaning, but other people, especially the person's sex partner tend to get way into it.

 

Thanks. I used to feel embarrassed too until I started to embrace that making those sounds is how I express how much certain activities felt, and based on what @sync and @PeterMxM have mentioned it provides directional feedback as to how the session goes. I asked myself before as to why I felt embarrassed in the first place, but curious to know why others did or still feel embarrassed by it.

[Daverwr]

I’m a quiet one. Only if it hurts do I make much noise. Sometimes I let a few moans go just to let the top know I’m still with them. But, overall, I’d prefer to make no noise. And certainly no talking.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Verbal is great, but guys who sound like women getting fucked are a huge turn-off.

[big-n-tall]

I like when a guy moans, groans, growls, whimpers, or talks dirty. So I think it's hot. I do hate it though when the guy seems to force the sounds or fakes the verbal pleasure.

 

I myself am pretty quiet until I'm about to orgasm and when I do... I can get rather loud. Before then I get rather focused and I have been told I get this "quietly aggressive" passion. I'm rarely verbal. I have had guys want me to talk dirty to them and I always feel awkward. The exception being when I have bottomed for a few providers.

 

I think the guy i enjoyed being verbal with the most was Michael Vincenzo. It would turn him on to no end to talk dirty and I could discernibly control when he orgasmed by how dirty I talked to him and when. It helped a lot he could orgasm multiple times.

Edited October 20, 2020 by big-n-tall

[Mjonis]

I’m a screamer. LOL

Seriously though i moan, groan, grunt, growl and am very verbal. But I can be quiet if need be. My husband on the other hand is quiet. I like feedback. I’ll be very explicit like stroke my cock slower and looser or tighter, etc

 

total turn on when someone is verbal and a moaner, etc

[Chad Constantine]

I'm quite a verbal top when the bottom gets me into the mood, but I cannot help myself but moan and growl and grunt when I'm getting fucked. I've started filming myself as part of developing content for my OnlyFans and sometimes I can't help but cover my face when I get to moaning.

 

I've found that it's pretty much embarrassing to the person who does the moaning, but other people, especially the person's sex partner tend to get way into it.

 

Really? The only time I get embarrassed is when I feel like I should be talking dirty(which I have no skill for), cursing, or saying oh yeah. Then I get really annoyed when I have to respond or listen to them talk. Then there is a point where my body starts shivering and is followed by sound effects that I don't feel embarrassed about and you can say anything an I wouldn't care but to get to that point is much harder for me so usually I am quiet.

[NikoLeto]

Really? The only time I get embarrassed is when I feel like I should be talking dirty(which I have no skill for), cursing, or saying oh yeah. Then I get really annoyed when I have to respond or listen to them talk. Then there is a point where my body starts shivering and is followed by sound effects that I don't feel embarrassed about and you can say anything an I wouldn't care but to get to that point is much harder for me so usually I am quiet.

 

Yeah, my legs start shaking when I get close to cumming. The noises I make then are definitely more guttural. I always thought they were growl-y, but a couple of people pointed out that they're more "dog-y" and that's how I got into puppy play. ? ?

[rocky]

I really enjoy a nice moaning person with me and my escorts I enjoy from them. I can tell if they are making it up. I love good moaning and groaning male porn but haven't found good sites yet.

[+ Yellowrod]

I really enjoy a nice moaning person with me and my escorts I enjoy from them. I can tell if they are making it up. I love good moaning and groaning male porn but haven't found good sites yet.

 

Would love to know if you find a good site that has good moaning that seems real. Most of the porn sites seem like such bad acting. Even if a scene and the guys are really hot, sometimes the bad acting makes me lose interest. I think some OF and JFF might be a tad better, but haven't really found any (not that I've looked that hard LOL)

[Chad Constantine]

Would love to know if you find a good site that has good moaning that seems real. Most of the porn sites seem like such bad acting. Even if a scene and the guys are really hot, sometimes the bad acting makes me lose interest. I think some OF and JFF might be a tad better, but haven't really found any (not that I've looked that hard LOL)

 

Now that I am not creeped out I like his moaning here:

 

[NikoLeto]

Now that I am not creeped out I like his moaning here:

 

 

Having been tied up dozens of times, I know that feeling of pain-as-blood-returns-to-an-area that he's "ooh-ahh'ing" through. Something about it nice though, or I wouldn't keep coming back.

[tenderloin]

It's hot when it is genuine. But there are a lot of bad actors out there. I was pounding away at one guy who was giving me the full operatic treatment ("fuck yeah! Oh baby! Oh fuck me!!! fuuuuck me!!!....). While I was in mid stroke, he suddenly asks me, in a deadpan/flat voice "you wanna cum now or you going for another hour?" Needless to say, he was dressed and getting paid within about 6 minutes.

[Travelguy368]

Haha yeah the full opera treatment is a turnoff. But the low, "oh damn..." or "mmmmm fuck" while I'm blowing, eating or topping is always fun to hear.

[Chad Constantine]

Having been tied up dozens of times, I know that feeling of pain-as-blood-returns-to-an-area that he's "ooh-ahh'ing" through. Something about it nice though, or I wouldn't keep coming back.

 

Your legs and/or arms don't just get the tingly I am dead asleep feeling? Never really heard an erotic groaning sound from s body part filling sleep.

[NikoLeto]

Your legs and/or arms don't just get the tingly I am dead asleep feeling? Never really heard an erotic groaning sound from s body part filling sleep.

 

If you're being bound and a significant portion of your body (an arm, a leg, your hand) falls asleep - STOP NOW. Untie the harmed part and make sure blood flow is restored before moving on. It takes roughly 10 minutes of lack of circulation for cells to start dying en masse - definitely not enough time to finish whatever fun you want to have and take everything off.

 

What I'm talking about is the restriction of blood to an area. You have a bunch of blood vessels, capillaries mostly, that carry blood around. They're hard to see, on, say, your arm, but easier to see on the shaft of your dick. Ropes pressing against the skin using even modest pressure will stop those capillaries from delivering blood to surrounding areas and restrict blood flow, but your arteries and veins should still be able to deliver the blood they carry to and from the heart. Places where blood flow is restricted become colder, respond poorly to stimuli, etc. This pretty much always happens on skin, though holding a joint in a difficult position for a long time can cause the same kind of pain and difficulties. Once the ropes are removed, blood rushes back to these areas with stagnant blood in them, and some of the blood vessels have shrank due to poor blood flow.

 

This all combines to cause a symphony of discomfort, especially if you rush it. I've learned that the best way is to force my body to hold the same position I'm in when I'm relaxed against the ropes. Typically, my shoulders are further back as my hands are bound behind my back. When the ropes are removed, I hold my shoulders in that position. There's a bit of discomfort as blood comes back, and then I need to work on the compromised joint as it has been immobile or supporting weight in an odd way. Simply relaxing into a 'comfortable' position feels like it causes additional stress and pain by asking these places like skin and joints to work like normal, despite depriving them of precious resources in the blood (like oxygen).

 

That is definitely the most I've ever used the word "blood" in one sitting...