Photos From Clients?

[Imathrill]

I’m visiting Salt Lake City next week. I found an escort I might be interested in keeping me company. After a few questions from me, he asked me for a photo of myself and my stats. Is this normal? I asked him if that determined his rate. He replied no, it determines his interest. I stupidly sent my info and photo to which he replied “nice” BUT shouldn’t my business his interest?! Am I wrong here?

Edited October 6, 2020 by Imathrill

[marylander1940]

I’m visiting Salt Lake City next week. I found an escort I might be interested in keeping me company. After a few questions from me, he asked me for a photo of myself and my stats. Is this normal? I asked him if that determined his rate. He replied no, it determines his interest. I stupidly sent my info and photo to which he replied “nice” BUT shouldn’t my business his interest?! Am I wrong here?

 

no, it's not normal and it's a terrible business practice!

[Luv2play]

no, it's not normal and it's a terrible business practice!

I

I have had this request a few times and if I think from the exchanges there might be a meeting i will refer them to my profile on RM. if they persist and want a pic, i might send one but only if we have had an extensive exchange. I wouldn’t do it at the outset.

[liubit]

In my 30 years of hiring, I have never sent my pic to an escort. Once it is out there, you never know how it might be (mis)used. ??‍♂️

Edited March 8, 2021 by liubit

[Wolfer]

Not sure if there's any direct correlation, but the few times escorts asked to see my picture beforehand and I sent it, the date with them was bad.

[Storm4U]

You are not wrong. It wouldn’t even occur to me to ask for a photo.

Edited October 15, 2020 by Storm4U

[Daverwr]

I have a client profile stored on RM. I actually like when a provider reviews it. They know what they are getting as well as what I want. Granted, I would prefer it not be used to calculate their fee for time. But, I guess I’ll never know, unless he says, “It will $500/hr since you are hideous looking!”

[Luv2play]

I have a client profile stored on RM. I actually like when a provider reviews it. They know what they are getting as well as what I want. Granted, I would prefer it not be used to calculate their fee for time. But, I guess I’ll never know, unless he says, “It will $500/hr since you are hideous looking!”

Lol

[Daverwr]

Lol

Are laughing at my comment or my hideousness???

[+ blondeq]

I have provided a pic once. It was to an escort that I had seen once, 2 years prior. The escort asked for the pic because he couldn’t remember me. Not sure if the pic played a role, but I did have a great second encounter.

 

This is one of the reasons that I like to suggest a 15 min coffee meetup, beforehand. It’s not always practical, particularly if I am traveling to the escorts city, but at home it has saved me so much grief. I get to assess the escort (as he does me) and the escort makes $50-100 for having coffee with me.

[caramelsub]

An escort once asked to FaceTime with me before meeting up. He wanted to be sure I wasn’t in law enforcement. I declined.

[marylander1940]

Not sure if there's any direct correlation, but the few times escorts asked to see my picture beforehand and I sent it, the date with them was bad.

 

Yet they screened you to see them.

 

Were those guys better looking then the escorts who don't even think about asking for a pic?

 

I

I have had this request a few times and if I think from the exchanges there might be a meeting i will refer them to my profile on RM. if they persist and want a pic, i might send one but only if we have had an extensive exchange. I wouldn’t do it at the outset.

 

they persisted?

[former lurker]

It's only happened to me once. The request was from a guy I had seen before several times, but had not seen in a while. He wanted to be sure I was the same guy. I trusted him, so I sent a face pic. In general, I don't send pics to people I don't know.

[+ keroscenefire]

I've had it happen a few times. Most of the time, if you respond with like, "Oh my job requires me to be pretty discrete about this so I'd prefer not to," they will let it go.

 

And if not, that is a bad sign anyway

[Luv2play]

Are laughing at my comment or my hideousness???

Your comment. No-one is hideous except by their behaviour. We are all as beautiful as we aspire to be. It takes work, though.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Always remember, you cannot put toothpaste back in the tube.

 

If they want a picture and you have a lot to lose, move on.

[Wolfer]

Yet they screened you to see them.

 

Were those guys better looking then the escorts who don't even think about it?

No, they were about the same looks wise. I did have one escort who was incredibly attractive. His rate was quite a bove standard market rate so I declined. Then he said if I wanted a better rate we could talk about lowering his rate if I sent him a picture. His discount would be based on how attracted he was to me.

[Smurof]

I have a client profile stored on RM. I actually like when a provider reviews it. They know what they are getting as well as what I want. Granted, I would prefer it not be used to calculate their fee for time. But, I guess I’ll never know, unless he says, “It will $500/hr since you are hideous looking!”

I have had that happen once. He must have made a notation in his phone. He was dying for our time to end - kicked me out extra early, and quoted me a repeat price of $200 even though his listed rate was $80! I suspected he hated every living second of massaging me (he was an all over smoothie who only liked bears, which I wished I knew - did a complete body shave that morning), but he was one of the better pure massagers that I had experienced, all intangibles excluded. I was a rookie back then, and learned several lessons from that.

[urbanfetish]

I would never send my pic to an escort in advance of meeting. First of all, what if THEY are the ones who are law enforcement? Second, I'm hiring so it shouldn't matter what I look like exactly. I don't mind sending my stats/general description but no, they are not getting my pic.

As mentioned above, I did send my pic to an escort I had met a year or so prior. I said we had met before but he wanted me to jog his memory. No problem.

[+ IronMaus]

When having trouble determining how legit a client is a picture can settle my concerns quickly. Some clients first message gives me enough to work with and I don't need a photo - but I at least need basic stats because I need to know what to expect. I have a reputation for seeing beyond the physical aspects of people I sleep with, but the last thing I want is a bad situation because I was in a hurry to get a paycheck. Most (more than 1/2) have provided a pic by request, and if they don't I understand and try to develop trust otherwise - their are various reasons a client doesn't feel comfortable with this and I don't want to jeopardize what could grow to be a great connection so a tread softly. Sometimes they'll agree to a short video chat to establish a first impression. Either way, I usually insist on a phone call from a 1st time client before meeting. This goes a long way in establishing trust and a good relationship.

Many of my regular clients sent me a picture before we met. If someone is interested in spending a large amount (especially for extended occasions) I'd like to feel like we trust each other enough to both share photos. I can't expect them to feel the same way, but I can at least explain to them how I feel so they understand why I ask and we can continue from there.

[+ keroscenefire]

When having trouble determining how legit a client is a picture can settle my concerns quickly. Some clients first message gives me enough to work with and I don't need a photo - but I at least need basic stats because I need to know what to expect. I have a reputation for seeing beyond the physical aspects of people I sleep with, but the last thing I want is a bad situation because I was in a hurry to get a paycheck. Most (more than 1/2) have provided a pic by request, and if they don't I understand and try to develop trust otherwise - their are various reasons a client doesn't feel comfortable with this and I don't want to jeopardize what could grow to be a great connection so a tread softly. Sometimes they'll agree to a short video chat to establish a first impression. Either way, I usually insist on a phone call from a 1st time client before meeting. This goes a long way in establishing trust and a good relationship.

Many of my regular clients sent me a picture before we met. If someone is interested in spending a large amount (especially for extended occasions) I'd like to feel like we trust each other enough to both share photos. I can't expect them to feel the same way, but I can at least explain to them how I feel so they understand why I ask and we can continue from there.

 

I honestly prefer calling or video chatting over sending a picture. I guess technically they could be recording the conversation, but I just feel once a picture is out there, it's very easy to go anywhere else. If I remember, I think we talked on the phone before we met and I definitely liked having a nice conversation to get to know each other. I feel like that actually gives a much better idea of each other's personality and potential connection than a picture would anyway.

[thickornotatall]

The one and only time I was asked for a photo i sent a picture of my hand holding some cash...we had a great time..

[orville]

I stupidly sent my info and photo

[orville]

Always remember, you cannot put toothpaste back in the tube.

Nor cum back in the nuts.

[marylander1940]

I’m visiting Salt Lake City next week. I found an escort I might be interested in keeping me company. After a few questions from me, he asked me for a photo of myself and my stats. Is this normal? I asked him if that determined his rate. He replied no, it determines his interest. I stupidly sent my info and photo to which he replied “nice” BUT shouldn’t my business his interest?! Am I wrong here?

 

You're 32... some escorts don't like young clients and think they are more likely to be flaky.

 

Have you thought about making plans using another phone/profile and not telling him you talked before?