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You are making an assumption that he ghosted you for reasons that have to do with you. It’s also possible that he ghosted you for his own personal situation- like maybe he’s sick, depressed, fueling an addiction, dealing with family issues etc. I would not take it personally. Shake it off and go elsewhere

You are making an assumption that he ghosted you for reasons that have to do with you. It’s also possible that he ghosted you for his own personal situation- like maybe he’s sick, depressed, fueling an addiction, dealing with family issues etc. I would not take it personally. Shake it off and go elsewhere

You are making an assumption that he ghosted you for reasons that have to do with you. It’s also possible that he ghosted you for his own personal situation- like maybe he’s sick, depressed, fueling an addiction, dealing with family issues etc. I would not take it personally. Shake it off and go elsewhere

You are making an assumption that he ghosted you for reasons that have to do with you. It’s also possible that he ghosted you for his own personal situation- like maybe he’s sick, depressed, fueling an addiction, dealing with family issues etc. I would not take it personally. Shake it off and go elsewhere

Why are you willingly subjecting yourself to family on an expensive retreat?  That’s not a vacation by any definition.
Sounds like it’s time for some new family rules .
If you have to do family dwell time, do it somewhere more pedestrian, like a city where you can more easily find ways to separate…like NYC or DC. 

Look at it this way- he was an asshole and he saved you the time and money to find that out first hand.

Look at it this way- he was an asshole and he saved you the time and money to find that out first hand.

Look at it this way- he was an asshole and he saved you the time and money to find that out first hand.

Be pleasant and nice.  I find it to be a major ice breaker when a provider first walks in the door and reaches to shake your hand, and you pull them in for a hug.  Don't know if I should be doing that or not, but it has never failed me yet.

You have PLENTY of choices, especially if you take the subway to Manhattan!

Some escorts are just going through the motions and that’s ok if you as the client are enjoying the interaction.
Others seem to genuinely enjoy the experience and the chemistry really works. It’s usually pretty easy to distinguish the difference.

I've known couples who are both "Tops".  They make it work through mutual oral, and invite a shared Bottom over for mutual fun.  (I am often the shared Bottom)

In recent years I have given my nieces and nephews $150 for HS graduation and $250 for college graduation.  I see all of them fairly regularly so I am part of their lives.  I have no idea what Miss Manners would say, but it's an amount with which I feel comfortable. 

I’ve noticed that in general, people who live alone have a whole lot more ajita about everything and bring that bandwidth with them when visiting others. Partnered people are more used to toning their excesses. The Celiac thing is her way of expressing her specialness. It’s not you…in the future keep the visits short. 

I’ve noticed that in general, people who live alone have a whole lot more ajita about everything and bring that bandwidth with them when visiting others. Partnered people are more used to toning their excesses. The Celiac thing is her way of expressing her specialness. It’s not you…in the future keep the visits short. 

I think he’s expired past his Warhol 15 minutes of fame

I’ve noticed that in general, people who live alone have a whole lot more ajita about everything and bring that bandwidth with them when visiting others. Partnered people are more used to toning their excesses. The Celiac thing is her way of expressing her specialness. It’s not you…in the future keep the visits short. 

I’ve noticed that in general, people who live alone have a whole lot more ajita about everything and bring that bandwidth with them when visiting others. Partnered people are more used to toning their excesses. The Celiac thing is her way of expressing her specialness. It’s not you…in the future keep the visits short. 

I’ve an out call regular client who sometimes bakes a cake and we have it with some tea after the session. The cake is delicious. It’s nice to have a chat over tea and a slice of whatever he has made. He’s an interesting guy. I appreciate his custom.
 

I ensure my home is clean, and nothing of value is visible. Not to assume they're thieves or dishonest, but then i don't like to take chances. 
I also ensure the bathroom is clean and often the like to freshen up or change into something more comfortable before the session. 

I have recently tried a few older providers, so like 10 years younger then myself.  I'll just be blunt.  I enjoyed bottoming as they were very experienced tops.  But I couldn't finish, as I wasn't attracted in the same way as I am to younger very in shape providers.

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

You did a good deed. 
It will someday come back to you in delayed karma, but not from your provider.
Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on.  He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.

You did a good deed. 
It will someday come back to you in delayed karma, but not from your provider.
Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on.  He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.

Start now with some good life habits, so you’ll avoid looking bad later.  For ex, hire a personal trainer.  Eat right.  If you’re worried about hair loss, acti now to prevent (further) lass.  Control your alcohol intake.