Jamie21

I take a pragmatic view, 50% of enquiries won’t end up booking, whether that’s because we can’t align times, they don’t like my prices, style, look or whatever, or they just can’t commit to anything (there’s lots of prevaricators….”I’ll definitely book next week etc”…. of course it never happens). Time wasters just get told ‘when you’re ready to book, contact me’. End of discussion.

It’s worth a try I guess. You might find that clients don’t want to subscribe to it, even for a week, to book you in person. I think the type of client who subscribes to online content is different to the in person market. I don’t use my justforfans to promote my provider work, it’s separate and not linked in any way (although a few clients have found the justforfans independently and asked me about it when we met). But I think it’s two different markets with a small overlap.

It’s definitely content hungry. I’m on justforfans and supposedly in the top 3% of creators but I don’t make millions!, it’s more like a couple of thousand before my expenses (and I pay an editor to manage the editing and posting on the platform, plus venue hire occasionally). It takes me on average a days work a month. I do it as a sideline to my main massage work. If you work at it full time I guess you’d make more but I haven’t got the energy for it (or the models to collaborate with) to spend any more on it than I currently do.

It works. I use a scratcher tool. Mix it up though with different touch.

The sympathy angle, the language, the unnecessary complication, the promise of large payment, the provision of ID which is totally unnecessary but serves to give you reassurance. It’s a scam. Ignore it, block the email.

Or a toupee on it 😉

We need to know who he is!

Or North West Chelsea 😂. I love how people try to make their area sound better than it is.

Great advice. Totally agree. Remember London is an old city, some hotels are in properties that weren’t built to be a hotel, which in my view makes them even more interesting. I’ve visited a client in a hotel that used to be a court house… Yes your provider may be delayed…travel in London isn’t simple. I build in spare time to my travel just in case, and this is part of the reason why out call rates are higher.

And still is known as Earl’s Court 🙂

It’s never happened that I have thought of a client in this way to consider the roles switching. Yes on many occasions they have been skilled but still I haven’t considered the role reversal. The premise of the question seems misplaced. It’s like a diner going into a restaurant and having a fantastic meal where he eats everything and really appreciates the menu, ingredients, cooking and ambiance of the restaurant. He’s the perfect diner. Would the chef think “I must be that diner sometime?”.

I’ve visited clients at lots of London hotels. Never had any problems. Visitors are allowed and I’d always recommend meeting your masseur or escort in the lobby anyway (in case of any issues with him). A good provider will be ok with this. A good provider will also either know how to reach your room without using key card lifts or will know how to avoid attracting attention while in the lobby. On lots of occasions I’ve been carrying my massage table through the reception area. I’m discreet and well dressed etc so that helps avoid any unwarranted attention but hotels simply don’t mind. If you’re visiting London the most important thing is find a hotel in the right location, and make sure the room is big enough for you. Discreet shouldn’t be a criteria; they’re all discreet.

Who knows what will be the situation then! But if you make it here I look forward to massaging you. Tchaikovsky is ready. You know there are 11 canon shots at the finale? 😉

Mask wearing is increasing now with the new variant spreading. I’d say 90% on tube, and fines are being made for those caught without a mask. I think rate of booster jabs is increasing too. Government is trying to walk a path between full lockdown and total free for all because it knows it’s impossible to stop the spread indefinitely but important to reduce the peak of infections to avoid health system overload. It’s trying to manage the rate of infection, not eliminate it, so that majority of population is vaccinated and the severity of illness is reduced. Let’s hope they’re right.

Reminds me of the time I was massaging a client. I played the wrong playlist by mistake. The 1812 came on during the massage…which I wasn’t expecting. I didn’t want my client to think it was unplanned so I carried on regardless (he didn’t seem to mind). I tried to align his ejaculation with the canons going off. I’m usually good at edging my clients and knowing when they’re ready to cum but I missed the section and he shot a few seconds after the final canon. My aim is to have my client spurt cum as each canon fires.

Meet him in the lobby. No decent provider will have a problem meeting you in the lobby. Also it’s unlikely he will create a scene in the lobby when you tell him the meeting will not happen because he deceived you. If clients ask to meet me in the lobby I’m happy to do so. I dress professionally and don’t turn up with “hey I’m a sex worker” written all over me so to speak! I’ve sat in the lobby of many top end hotels in London waiting for my client to appear. It’s actually quite fun to watch people and wonder who will approach me. And I think you did the right thing to report him to the website.

Switch it and look at things you’re glad that exist now which didn’t previously. That’s a more appealing lens to look through. There’s lots: More sexual freedom and acceptance of difference - which has been hard won and is fragile but it’s definitely there. The ability to connect with people globally via platforms such as this. It helps to educate and bring people together. Greater access to sexual health services and better treatments. Gay venues becoming normalised and simply existing openly alongside so called straight venues; in fact there being a merging so the there isn’t so much of a gay ghetto. The circles should overlap a bit. And shirtless guys still exist. In summer anyway. I’m one of them 😂

I enjoy all my meetings but some less so and it’s usually when they won’t look me in the eye (often Arabic clients with issues around gay sex), or when they have too many instructions such as “fuck me in this position, now this position, now do this etc”. I prefer the session to proceed organically with of course me including the things they like but at the appropriate time, letting it evolve naturally. The other characteristics that are essential for the best experience are cleanliness down there (I.e. douche well) and good hygiene.

I would have too but the regular was an outcall and the new guy in call….I’d have had to be in two places at once. I’m good, but not that good!!

Update: sure enough the new guy cancelled…(as I expected). I go back to the regular to say I’m now available but he now has other plans. So that’s how I thought it would pan out, all because someone thinks it’s ok to book whilst being unsure that they’ll actually go ahead. Annoying. But it’s normal and I can usually see it coming. I’m not going to let it wind me up too much. You have to be like water in this business. Adapt, adjust, and overcome it.

He verbalises it more. These problems happen to everyone I think. It’s worse though if your client base is spread about and travel time is a big factor. Clients messing around with soft arrangements is extremely annoying if you’re trying to make plans. I don’t travel longer than an hour maximum to see a client because I don’t need to, London has enough business, so the logistics are simpler. Example, last week I booked a client for an evening this week. A new client so I put it down as 50% likely to cancel as we approach the day. Then I had a regular client as me for an appointment around the same time. So a dilemma….see the new client who booked first and disappoint the regular or book the regular and go back to the new client to let him know I can’t now make it. My decision was to give the new client the benefit and keep the booking. After all he did book first. So I go to the regular and tell him I’m unfortunately not available but if things change I’ll come back to him. Sure enough….now I get a message from the new guy saying that “I might have to reschedule because of work…”. That’s all… so now it’s a ‘maybe’ and I’m supposed to hang around waiting to find out. Well sorry, I know with 95% certainty that you’ll cancel on the day. It’s a common pattern. So I’ve told my regular I’m now available if he wants to book. Likelihood is he’s made other arrangements, which is fine, but because of new clients’ messing around I’m now trying to re plan things. If you think you might need to cancel then go ahead and cancel….don’t leave it open “I might turn up or I might not”…that’s not acceptable.

Everything is connected. Your body can affect your mind and vice versa. Work on the things you can control, like rest, no alcohol, eat well, exercise, meditate. After a while things begin to align. I believe medication should be temporary and only to give you the window to regain control. Best wishes to you.

I reckon it’s about $75 of your time spent writing these posts on here. I do sympathise, it’s infuriating dealing with time wasters. I respond to two questions, then if they’ve still not booked I just say “let me know if you want to book” and end the conversation. All the info is on my website. Loads of it, including FAQ’s. Some people just like the chase and get off on the talk. They should call a sex chat line. Maybe you should send those guys to one of those? “Here, you obviously like to talk about sex but not do it…call this number and have fun: xxxxx”

Yes it’s a red flag for sure. Most of the time when clients request a pic the meeting won’t happen. Similarly if they send pics, it’s unlikely they’ll book. The longer the conversation goes on the less likely they’ll book. 🙄

You know a car is a cock substitute? The bigger the car, the smaller the cock. I’ve done studies and there’s a correlation 😂