Jamie21

I’ve a guy like that. He started as a client and booked me about 7 or 8 sessions over a year and then he invited me out for a meal (not a paid session, just as a friend) because we got on well and had similar interests. The meal went well (no sex afterwards...we went home separately!) and things developed into cinema visits etc. Now I’d seen him separately anyway at other times when we happened to meet at sex parties or the gym so I already knew him (and had fucked him at sex parties) so it was more complicated than just a client becoming a friend. But it works fine, he’s a friend and we meet for fun and do stuff together (holiday, meals etc) but no more paid client meetings which is fine by me. So it can work but not as a boyfriend type thing though.

Yes it seems like that, he still viewed you as a client would, except he was getting it free. Nothing wrong with you expecting he’d see it differently but I’d guess you’re up against it given the way it started. With porn stars dating each other, or escorts dating each other at least you’re both coming from the same perspective. I could date an escort because I’d understand what he thinks given we both do the same job. Work sex is totally different from relationship sex and we’d both understand that.

For me it’s the normal fee. I’ve done shows for clients with other escorts and it usually ends up with the client wanting to join even if that wasn’t planned for at the start. I don’t discount it because it’s time, if I wasn’t at that session I could have been seeing a client at my normal rate so why provide a discount?

I’ve seen clients out with their wives (or girlfriends I guess but they definitely looked like wives if you know what I mean). On a few occasions they’ve seen me and it’s very clear they don’t want to say hello. I’d never initiate the conversation, I’d probably use the name they booked with me which is most likely not their real name.. One time I was on a train back from meeting a client and a regular client got on with his wife and two kids. He didn’t see me at first because they sat opposite me. I was wearing tight shorts and hadn’t put any underwear on (long story, the client I’d just seen wanted to keep them so...). Anyway, they all sit down, he looks up and sees me smiling. Instant look of terror on his face but he quickly realised I’m not going to say anything and we settle down to making inadvertent eye contact as we try to ignore each other. His wife seems to be on her phone so hasn’t paid any attention to me atall. Most awkward journey I’ve had because I’m thinking of all the times I’ve cum in his arse (which is extremely pert and tight) and I’m getting hard and it’s starting to show in my shorts. I try to cover with my hands but that sort of makes it worse. My rucksack is in the rack overhead so I can’t even get up to reach it. He keeps on glancing at my shorts which only makes me get harder. His wife and kids are oblivious. We’re two stops from my station and there’s no way I can stand now as I’m almost fully hard in the shorts. I’m hung and it’s almost popping out. The vibration of the train makes it worse. Anyway we’re nearly at my station and now I’m solid and I can’t get up. I realise I’ve a gay magazine I could use to sort of cover it up but the mag is one of those free gay weeklies that has semi naked guys on the front but I think the back is ok so I pull it out from beside me and hold it over the offending area as I stand up on reaching my station. Unfortunately the back of the mag is just as naughty as the front (it has a naked guy advertising Squirt hookup app) and I sort of wave the mag covering my tent in my shorts in his wife’s face as I reach up for my rucksack. Of course it’s open and as I drag it down a plastic bottle of lube falls out and rolls along the floor under my client’s feet. Now I have to bend down in front of him to pick it up. I stuff the lube in the bag and make for the door trying to keep the Squirt advert in front of my shorts...the irony of it not lost. On the platform I can see my client talking to his wife through the window as the train departs. I so wish I knew what he said....never saw him again unfortunately. He had a very fuckable arse.

Easy to say it but I wouldn’t date a guy I’d first met as a client. When that attraction happens it might not be possible to resist of course, I understand that, but I’m sure I wouldn’t initiate any ‘non professional’ contact after they’d booked me. I occasionally get clients who become infatuated with me and it’s difficult to let them down that a relationship isn’t going to happen whilst at the same time trying to keep them as a regular client. But I’d not initiate any sort of boyfriend relationship because they’ve not met the real me (and I’ve probably not met the real them either). That’s why I keep it separate. When guys meet me professionally they’re not seeing the normal me. I’m performing / acting and it’s not necessarily how I’d be outside of the meeting. For most of my clients I’m attracted to them so the performance is easy and because I like sex and meeting people I can give them a great time. However it’s the nature of the work that some clients I meet are great to know and be with but I don’t feel sexually attracted to them. However I act as if I am and I make sure the sex is hot and they get what they’re looking for. I have no problem performing that way (or I wouldn’t escort) but it can be misleading for them if we seem to hit it off in every way when in reality I’ve performed a role in the sex. It’s work...it’s what they pay for, it’s why they booked me so it’s so difficult to tell them later on if a relationship has developed that the sex we had wasn’t real. That’s the problem with developing boyfriend relationships with clients, the professional nature of the initial meeting(s) has to be erased and it’s impossible to do that. Keep it separate!

I think it safest to keep things separate if possible. One of my clients has become a friend and I’ve been away on holiday with him as friends (I paid my accommodation but he paid flights and most of the holiday spending though) and it’s great. We get on well as friends and I’ve almost forgotten I first met him as a client (he hired me for about 8 sessions before it became a friends situation). A couple of clients have wanted it to develop further but I’m definitely not looking for a relationship. If I felt differently about them it could be difficult I guess....

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I advertise as offering sensual massage, so as a minimum that’s a happy ending. However frequently it will go further to include full penetration if my client is wanting that and if I’m up for it, so it’s mutual. No extra charge. I find it works fine, they get a great massage and at least a handjob but if they want more it’s possible. I don’t put any limits on interaction with me during the massage. If it’s clear when booking that they want a more escort type service (including me bottoming) then that’s a different rate and there’s no massage, just escort service.

No he wasn’t even very good! He wouldn’t have known that though, I make him feel that he was good. That’s the job ?

Never ask ages, except if I think they’re under 18. I guess youngest is 20, oldest in their 70’s. Everyone is different and I’d not generalise. The older guys tend to want more intimacy and closeness. The younger are looking for experience. I like them all. The variety of guys I see surprises me because before I started doing this I’d assumed that there were only a few types of guy who’d book me but it’s definitely opened my eyes to the fact that everyone needs to book a professional sometimes.

Yes, my massage studio has a shower. All the luxuries! Shower, heated electric table, fluffy towels, warm oil....water based lube lol

I rim. My clients appreciate it. They got to shower first though.

It’s their problem not mine. When they realise I don’t care what they think they become even more judgmental.

I see disabled clients. I need to know beforehand but it’s fine if I know. I once saw a client who was new to me and I’d not been told of any issues beforehand. I was undressing her (Im bi, the session was with her and her husband although he mostly watched) and I felt something hard under her clothes on her thigh. As I pulled down her leggings there was a small box attached to a plaster on her side by a wire. She said nothing so I carried on undressing her until we were both naked and all she “wore” was this box strapped to her thigh by an elastic strap and the large plaster with the wire between. It was going to get in the way so I asked if I could remove it. She then realised and said “oh sorry yes” and she detached the wire and removed the box leaving just the plaster with a small silver knob where the wire attached. Then we carried on with the session which went fine. Afterwards when she was in the shower and I was cleaning up I asked her husband what it was and he said she was diabetic and it regulated her sugar level. I guess she just had got so used to it that she had almost forgotten it was there. It did surprise me briefly but I’ve got used to expecting the unexpected when escorting so nothing much surprises me now!

Yes definitely! I love kissing. If my client likes to kiss then I’m glad. Oral hygiene is important though. Not kissing someone with bad oral hygiene.

I give great service to clients who are respectful, turn up on time, are clean and who agree the services beforehand. Anyone late, unhygienic or who makes unreasonable demands gets no extra time and a perfunctory service. Fortunately it’s possible to identify the time wasters and disrespectful clients when they contact to book (I’ve an algorithm for it!) so I can avoid accepting those bookings. There aren’t many bad clients luckily.

I stayed really close to him as we walked to the cash machine. He was fine and withdrew the cash and gave it to me. I don’t think he intended not to pay, I think he was just trying it on. I’ve seen him a couple of times since and he’s always had the cash.

I’ve seen clients at the St Martins Lane hotel. A key card is needed to access the lifts (elevator) but I met my clients in the lobby so it was fine. It’s a very good hotel and well located. I’ve never had any problems with seeing clients at London hotels (including walking in with my massage table). I know which ones need key card for entry and which entrances to use for more discretion etc. All it takes is some prior agreement with the client about where to meet and a little confidence when entering the building!

I went with a friend in August. Stayed at Grace hotel just outside Mykonos town. We had a car and drove to beaches and the town. It’s small, everything is only a short drive. Went to Elia beach for nude sunbathing and fun in the rocks. The bars in town were quieter than they would be usually (so I was told).

I feel awkward if my client pays up front. It usually happens if they’re an inexperienced hirer. I just ask at the end how they’d like to pay if they haven’t offered the payment after an appropriate time (usually when they’re dressing). When they book I let them know I can take credit cards so they can either do that or pay cash. Never had any issues except one guy who said afterwards that he didn’t have the cash and had no card. I said I’d walk with him to the cash machine do he could withdraw it. I think he thought I’d say that he was such a good fuck I’d do it for free!

I promote as a masseur, of the sensual / erotic type. It always includes happy ending, suck rim etc. If the client returns for second or more sessions it can develop into sex but always as part of the massage and I don’t make any promises (or extra charge) about fucking them. It’s got to feel right for both of us. I also do escort sessions where I offer much more (I’m versatile) and there’s additional cost for that. I started out just doing sensual massage but realised some guys want more so that’s why I offer the full service too. But my main business is sensual massage because most of my clients just want intimacy and relaxation more than fucking.

Age and ethnicity are not questions I ask. Obviously clients have to be over 21 but apart from that I never ask. However there are signs that clients give that indicate they’re a time waster for example, asking for discounts, lots of questions about what will happen, them sending pictures of themselves - guys, I’m not interested in what you look like, I’ll see you when you turn up.

Me too, busiest day seems to be Monday. The first Monday after a payday (people get paid monthly in UK) is always busy. Next busiest is Sunday. They come after Church probably.

There’s another side to the story too. Today I had a client book a 2 hour session. He booked it 3 days ago and I had confirmed with him yesterday. I don’t see clients at my home, I use a studio which is about 45 minutes away. So I travelled to the studio and prepared only to have him message me 5 minutes before the start...in response to my text telling him to knock when he’s arrived...telling me he had hurt himself and wasn’t coming and oh he hadn’t had time to let me know. I should have learned because he’d booked a session a week ago and had again cancelled an hour before the start time with an excuse. I get it that stuff happens so I always give the benefit of the doubt once. But not twice. I’m sure that he changed his mind and just didn’t bother to think to let me know. To him I’m just some guy who is disposable. I kick myself because the signs were there....too many questions, an off hand attitude to the arrangements, telling me he’s straight and wants to explore. I guess he enjoyed the thought of it and got scared at going ahead. I get it but just have the decency to tell me beforehand. I turned down other clients because I was busy. Well his number is now shared with other guys (yes we have those networks) so he won’t be able to book anywhere without paying 100% up front.