Jamie21

Yep! Group sex is extremely hot. The best size for a group session is 5. More than that and it breaks up into smaller groups. 5 guys fucking each other is a good number.

You could also ask to see the results of their most recent test...but there’s always an element of risk because the test might be a few weeks old and infection could have occurred since the test. The window period for some STD’s is a couple of weeks. If you’re definitely concerned about 100% health protection the safest thing is don’t go out! That’s not realistic so just take sensible precautions, safe sex, ask the questions, some providers do a temp check before you enter.

Definitely ok to ask. Important that you do ask especially about HIV and STD’s. No one should be working if they’re not regularly tested. I’m totally fine if clients ask me about my status. If a provider takes offence at such a request then you’ve got your answer about whether or not they’re any good haven’t you?

I’m a masseur. I advertise sensual massage. I’m naked during the massage (I might start in a jock), client is naked, nowhere is off limits (depending on what the client wants), he can interact with me, it can include anything from hand job happy ending through to full penetration. I think the line between sensual massage and erotic massage is blurred. If I’m doubt ask your masseur. If they’re in a country where sex work is legal they’ll be open about what’s available.

I agree. The concept of a 4 handed massage is more erotic and enticing than the reality. As a masseur I prefer to give massage single handed because of the focus on specific areas and I can make the experience memorable. Unless the other masseurs works at the same pace as me and in the same style (which is unlikely) then it’s very difficult to give a coherent massage. Therefore I think the massage experience for the receiver is better if it’s done by just one masseur. However guys (and females also) are still attracted by the idea of a 4 hands. I think because it’s more a fantasy realisation thing. They expect it to be twice as good as 2 hands but the reality is it’s almost twice as expensive and no better massage than 2 hands. If you like a bit of massage but are looking for a threesome or to fulfil a fantasy then fine, go for a 4 hands with masseurs who do sex. You’ll have 2 cocks to play with. But if you want a quality sensual massage then choose 2 hands (with a good masseur).

Ah yes I got you. I’ve a few stories yes, about different clients and some of the sex parties I’ve been to. I write about some of them on my blog on my website sensualtouchco.com. Most of my work is as a masseur and I make porn so there’s a few stories about doing that on the blog.

Ha ha a good boy never tells who. The Lord was a sweet lovely guy. Mostly with clients you don’t know their real name, job or background and to be fair I don’t want to know these things anyway, although when chatting to them during the session some of these details are shared because it’s nice to connect mentally as well as physically. Discretion is absolutely paramount however so I’d never give any clues or names.

I’d advise against it. Honestly, penis size has nothing to do with whether you’re hot / sexy in bed. Ok so a big one might get you some initial interest but if you haven’t got ‘it’ then the sex will be uninspiring despite your big cock. Much more important is your attitude and mind. Those things are sexy. I’ve been with hung guys who have no idea about good sex. Their cock looked nice but the sex was dull. The sexiest guys are those who are happy and content with their body, they are confident and open, they own what they look like. Unless you’re planning to be in porn or an escort (where the initial attraction is based on looks) then your cock size is irrelevant.

Yes, by police officers, clergy and a member of the House of Lords. Everyone needs a release.

A mate of mine adopts the airline style menu pricing model. You pay for a basic service and everything above that is extra. He’s a masseur so you pay for a naked massage with hand job. It’s extra to touch him, extra for a bj, extra for rimming etc. I expect that if you’re really horny the bill can quickly mount. It all seems impractical to me, and unsexy. I briefly thought about trying it....I’m hung so I’d change a flat rate for penetration 5 inches deep, then extra for every additional inch. You want 8? That’ll be another £120. I suggested this to him (jokingly of course) but he actually thought it was a good idea although he was concerned that his earning potential was limited because he’s ‘only’ 7 inches. I don’t think he’s very successful.... The only thing I charge extra for is if my client wants me to bottom. It’s because of the extra preparation time needed. Other than that if I’m booked for a duo the price is the same as single rate. With massage some clients want 4 hands. In those situations the price is usually a bit less per hour than my single (2 hands) rate but of course the client has to pay both of the masseurs so it’s more expensive for the client. It’s usually as much work for me though because you’re still massaging for an hour or whatever and still fucking them or the other masseur or both depending on what the client wants.

It sounds like your guy isn’t into that kind of escorting. He probably doesn’t want to risk offending you which may jeopardise your custom in person, hence his uncommunicative response. I’d just let it drop and wait until you can meet him in person.

I I totally agree. If you promote yourself as doing massage (sensual/erotic) then it’s important the massage is a good one. So many masseurs spend 5 minutes doing a poor job of massaging their client’s back and then immediately try to stick a finger in his bum hole. That’s not massage! I give a proper good sensual massage and very slowly introduce erotic elements.

It’s awful that you were with a guy who wasn’t into you. A professional escort shouldn’t give you that impression (even if he isn’t into you). Maybe he was having a bad day, it can happen because everyone has bad days at work sometimes. If I’m not feeling it with a client I’ll do my best to avoid giving them any impression I’m not into them. It hardly ever happens because there’s always something attractive you can find in someone and for me the fact that the client has chosen me is a turn on in itself and I use that to build the attraction.

Tell him first. Give him the feedback, he might not know what he did wrong. If you’re dissatisfied with the reply then I’d say it’s fine to use review sites to warn others. But definitely give him the opportunity to put it right or respond.

I’m not an escort either although you could say that line is blurred with sensual massage. All my meetings with clients involve massage, I don’t do overnights or just sex meetings. I’d say I’m a sex worker because my massage can include sexual activity. I wonder why you get clients asking you for happy endings etc if you’re not marketing yourself as an escort? I guess you’re not advertising on sites where erotic style massage is promoted or using any leading language in your descriptions, or pictures that imply the massage may become erotic? I see some masseurs state “strictly no sexual services offered” that’s clear enough. I hope they mean it though...

I went with a client once. He was too anxious to go on his own so he hired me to go with him. It’s a good bar, lots of space, everyone is naked on naked nights but we went on a clothed night (my client’s anxiety meant he didn’t want to go naked). There were some guys stripped down to pants or less but most stayed clothed or just topless. I got naked because I prefer it that way but my client just took his top off. He only wanted to watch so I got off with a few guys there while he watched me then we went to his hotel about 5 minutes walk away on Tottenham Court Road so he could relax and release. I’d recommend going on a naked night or pants night because the atmosphere is more anything goes. There’s a dance floor (no one dances), a DJ and seating area showing porn. There’s also an alley with gloryhole cubicles. Some vaulted cabins with saloon style doors for more private encounters and a darker area with flat seating where most of the action takes place. It can get very busy there with naked bodies pressed up against you and hard cocks probing your hole. If you want to get fucked just bend over a barrel and someone will have a go, usually bb. It’s a good place, I’d recommend it.

Excellent! I’m ready

Yes, I agree. Advertise on a massage site with semi nude pics and references to erotic or sensual massage it’s implicit that some form of sexual service is offered. I think some of the coyness about talking about sex is that it’s illegal in some countries. Where I work it’s legal so I have no concerns about discussing sexual services, either by text, email or phone.

Wow thank you ?. My massage table is ready for you! Just don’t ask me any questions about sex ok ?????. I’d love to move to America. I’ve visited loads and every time it’s been fantastic. Lovely friendly interesting people, although the food is too much. I’d be enormous within a few months if I lived there...?. When travel is possible again I hope you’re able to come to London. I miss my American clients.

I’m a masseur. I’ve no problem with my client asking about sex. That’s part of my service so why shouldn’t they ask? They can ask anything they like, if it’s something I won’t or can’t do then I’ll simply tell them that. There’s no point in them booking only to find out their massage isn’t going to be what they want moments before they get on the table. That’s just going to make the experience disappointing and I want to make it memorable for them. If my client asks for a half hour session or books a late night session with an hour’s notice that’s a tell tale sign they don’t want a massage they just want to get off. I don’t accept those kind of bookings. It’s minimum one hour, and you have to be sober / not under influence. Those requirements rule out the guys just looking for a quickie. No problem with that but it’s not my service. If a masseur or escort has lots of rules and requirements, including needing pictures etc the it almost always means they are not in the job to satisfy their clients, they’re in it with the sole purpose of making money out of their sex life. Have that in mind when you attend your session.

I’m 8 inches, it should fit in any hole. It’s not so much as me being too big, it’s more the client not being relaxed enough to take it. If that’s the case then I consider it’s more my problem than the clients’ because I should be able to relax him. It’s happened a few times when guys who’ve never bottomed before try to take me. They get too anxious and tighten up. Sometimes it takes a few visits to become relaxed enough to take it. Best to start with fingers and take things slowly.

It’s not illegal here. Totally legal. I have a police liaison officer who I can talk to. Used him once when a client threatened me.

I have a client who, when he pays me says “cash, only for my drug dealer, cleaner and masseur” as he hands over the cash. I reply “ I accept any hard currency as well as any hard cock”. I’d say guys prefer to pay in cash because it’s anonymous. I take cards but clients who may be married worry that they’ll have an unexplained entry on their statement. Most clients pay in cash.

I never ask for pics from clients and prefer not to receive them although sometimes they’ll send a dick pic or body pic when booking. Often it comes from guys who are anxious about their cock size or their body, as in “am I hot enough to book?”. I’m professional, all I need to know is that they’re over age 21 and they’ve no health conditions that are contraindications for massage. I treat everyone the same regardless of their body shape or physical attributes. For me sometimes the main challenge in performing isn’t what they look like it’s how my client behaves. Behave like a dick and you’re not going to get much dick if you know what I mean. Behave with respect and we’re definitely going to have a good time. I do think that if you’re in the business of escorting or erotic massage then you’re expected to be able to see all clients and give them all a great service. When you start vetting clients for attractiveness then you’re not really escorting you’re just getting paid to satisfy your own sexual appetite. It’s different and the client will be able to tell if he’s a 10 or a 7 when you draw the line at 5 if you know what I mean.

95% of the time I top when working, even though I’m versatile. If I’m not working, or if I’m shooting porn then it’s more like 50% bottom 50% top. I guess I attract bottom clients. I’m hung which brings all the bottoms to the playground. It’s fine with me, I don’t have a problem to get hard, it’s more hassle to get ready to bottom so I’m good with being mostly top. I’ve a few mates who also escort (we sometimes work together) and they say there’s a lot of bottom escorts, especially younger guys, and it’s a tougher market. I think the combination of fewer top escorts and lots of bottom clients means that tops get more work.