Jamie21

I direct pic requests from clients to my website where there’s pics and a video. I think it should be enough but I’m happy to send pics if they want them. The last thing I want is a client coming to see me with the wrong expectations, so it’s best they see me and are attracted by what I can offer. I don’t need to see client’s pics and I don’t request them, but it’s fine if they want to send them to me. Total discretion is given, and expected. That’s the best way to do business.

Be really clear what you’re looking for. I’m surprised they ride your cock without asking or agreeing to that beforehand. It’s unacceptable. If a client says to me “no anal” then that’s great, I know not to go there. I think the challenge is sometimes clients will say things before the session that they then change their mind on during the session. It’s because of anxiety or embarrassment asking for something at the start or just out of getting so horny during the session that they get more adventurous. So I always check as we go by whispering in his ear “are you ok”, or before we start I’ll say that periodically I’ll squeeze his hand and he should squeeze back if all ok. I can then keep it at the level he likes. If it looks like he wants to fuck or get fucked then I’ll test by putting my cock near his hole, it’s up to him then to push himself on. He’s in control about whether it goes in. I think you should ask your providers to communicate during the session so that you can keep things from escalating to places you don’t want to go. It doesn’t have to be spoken; just make the physical signs clear to him. Oh and choose providers who are professional, they’re focused on your pleasure above all. I hope you find the intimacy you seek.

That’s it. But money isn’t the only reason, it’s part of the story yes but there’s also the fun of meeting people and the thrill of the work. You can’t do it for long if money is the only reason.

In some aspects yes, in some aspects no. For example in my personal life I tend to wear clothes more often and when I’ve finished fucking them I don’t ask how they’d like to pay 😂. Seriously though…we all play roles in our work. Whatever work that is.

I don’t agree it’s moving far to the extreme. It seems to be quite reasonable. Providers have the right to decline clients, that’s not been refuted. But the more selective they are the more they move away from the concept of the work I think. Now that’s extreme! Everyone? Every detail?

Yes of course providers can have lines. It’s their business, they can define their market. But I think it’s the nature of the job to accept clients as they are. I can influence my market by how I present my service and in my pricing and pitch. My clients are more discerning and up market I think because of my pitch. If I was cheaper then I’d get a different type of client. However I’m not discriminating clients on looks, size, age or ethnicity. I am discriminating on cleanliness (that’s difficult to assess though - but everyone showers before seeing me!) politeness, respect and discretion. Hence someone texting “fuck now” gets no response. Someone wanting a discount gets refused. Someone booking and then not showing is blocked for ever. Someone who is unclean and disrespectful during the session gets what they deserve and doesn’t come back. That’s how I ‘select’ clients.

Thank you! I have had one problem with my partnership with Amazon though. They want me to adopt their Prime model where everything comes quickly. I’ve said my clients prefer things to be delayed a little. We’re in discussions…..

Thousands. All kept on a database that is Data Protection compliant. When a client contacts me my system informs me of his or her preferences, frequency of booking, date of last session and an algorithm calculates the likelihood of booking again. The system AI engages with the client to make the booking and then updates my calendar. Ahead of the date the chat bot engages with the client to confirm the booking and provide details about how to get to me and what to prepare. Any questions my client has are answered by the bot or if the client presses “1” are referred to a call centre in Chennai where trained operators answer questions such as “how big is it?” using a script (95% of calls are answered within 5 minutes). While on hold callers are played a sound recording of a recent porn shoot I did and offered discounts to join my Justfor.fans. After the session my client receives a satisfaction questionnaire and invitation to join my membership scheme. This all happened since I was bought out by Amazon.

Oh, I’m also a member and had forgotten about it. Not much seems to be happening there. My kind of club; everyone just silently contemplating.

Ha ha, it’s true though. Often hung guys are assumed to be top only. I’m not complaining because I do usually like to top. I’m very big which most bottoms seem to see as a challenge lol. But come on guys, even if you’re average size or small I’m really glad if you want to fuck me back.

There speaks a professional. Well said. I totally agree. I always think “this client has chosen me for his massage / fun…out of all the other options available to him he has chosen me. What a fantastic compliment that is! I shall make sure that he feels fantastic about that choice and really make his day”.

It costs your sanity. No amount of money would persuade me to accept such an arrangement. Unfortunately I’ve never had such an offer to test my resolve!!

Me too. Clients sometimes use them when I’m fucking them and whilst I don’t mind others using poppers I don’t like catching a whiff of them. I never understood the attraction or what they do for you. Probably because like someone else said in the thread, I had a guy accidentally spill some in my eye while he was fucking me. The funny thing was he didn’t notice and took my signs of discomfort as encouragement to fuck harder.

I think it’s very possible to perform a sexual act if you’re not attracted to the other party. I’m able to find attraction in the client I’m with even if they’re not the kind of client I’d normally be instantly attracted to. That’s the essence of doing sex work; the ability to make a connection with all sorts of different people and find what’s attractive about them. My point is that if you’re a sex worker who likes to choose only clients you find attractive then you’re not really a sex worker, you’re just getting paid in your sex life. A true sex worker will accept all clients and make them all feel attractive and valued. I see clients who are disabled for example. I know some providers who refused to see them because they’re not attractive enough. That’s their choice of course but I’d say they’re not doing a great job.

If you’re being picky about your clients on the basis of their age (18+), body type, ethnicity or any other similar reason then you’re not a proper escort. I’m not picky about my clients, I don’t want a picture or description to book. I mainly do massage (sexual style) and all I ask is to be healthy for massage and sober / not on drugs.

All I need is “hello are you available on day / time for x hours please?”. Then I can say yes / no or offer an alternative time and usually within an exchange or two the session is booked. I don’t need any personal details such as body type, age or definitely no pics. None of those things are relevant (as long as the client is over 18). If clients want to send any specific requirements that’s fine and when confirming their session and sending the address I always invite them to make any special requests. The issue is that I much prefer to engage with clients by text of WhatsApp once they’ve already decided to hire me. All my details (and an FAQ, even a demo video) are on my website (sensualtouchco.com 🙂) so I think there’s sufficient information there to make a decision. I’ve not got the time or inclination to engage in long message chats and sending pics and describing my cock and what I do etc to persuade someone to book. Some clients think they need to be young and fit etc or they won’t get a reply. That’s wrong, honestly I’m not concerned what you’re like physically whatsoever (except that you’re fit for the session as in no injuries or medical conditions that preclude massage /sex) so I don’t need pics or descriptions. As @TylerGrovesNYC said the messages that start with “sup”, “pic” or “hey, you available now?” are either time wasters or not my type of client. I can spot them immediately, they never book.

If you want to watch good action then hire an escort and ask him to recommend the other escort he’d work with. You’ll get a couple who are genuinely into each other. If I’m hired to work with another guy then I much prefer to choose the guy I work with (as long as the client is also happy with who I choose, after all they are the customer). That way our client gets a pair who are really into each other and it’s a better show.

Location matters I think. I wouldn’t book a cheap hotel to see a client because it doesn’t fit with my brand (I know it’s pretentious to call it a brand but you know what I mean I hope). I try to provide a quality service and a cheap hotel just wouldn’t fit the experience. My studio where I do in calls is comfortable, clean and tidy. I just couldn’t see clients if there was my day to day stuff lying around. The temperature, lighting, cleanliness, sounds and smells of the room can all add or detract from the overall experience. So for me, it definitely matters. I’ve done out calls to clients home and there’s been various distractions…froM their dog snoring in the room (or barking outside to try and come in), to their family running around upstairs (yes, really…) to having to remove piles of unwashed clothes from the bed before we used it. Honestly it’s not easy to work in those environments….especially the family upstairs situation. If I’m booked to go back then I make a suggestion that maybe they’d like to visit me instead.

And one day the painting will be worth millions…

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I would add that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a prostitute. As long as it’s done without coercion, with compassion and lawfully then I don’t think the prejudice that is loaded with the word is fair on the job. I prefer to use the term sex worker which is broader and seems to have less ‘baggage’. I describe myself as sex worker. It really involves skills in working with people and understanding their sexual and intimacy needs. There’s nothing wrong with that. I’d say society would be a lot better if everyone had a better understanding of their needs and desires around sex.

I met a client on a naked beach in Mykonos. He recognised me as I walked along the the edge of the water (not sure if it was my cock or my face he recognised first). He was with his husband (I was with a friend, a former client…). It was an awkward discussion at first because I didn’t like to say anything about how we knew each other as we talked. My client later messaged me to say his husband knew he’d hired me. I guess he’d sensed my reluctance to discuss much.

Talk about it with him and price it at your normal rate less a bit given the nature of the barter. I’ve done professional exchange for services in the past; I did a massage for a photographer who took some professional shots for me. It worked well. The worst that could happen is he says no.

It sounds like you did the right thing by leaving. He’s not professional or respectful if he sees clients in that state. I guess when you chatted to him he wasn’t high but when you turned up he was. That’s no state to provide a good service. You probably shouldn’t have paid him anything but I understand in the situation you had to get out. Put it down to experience and maybe do a bit more due diligence on your chosen provider (although I’m not sure what else you could have done in that situation). I’m tempted to say you should provide a review on here or Rentmen but perhaps contact him with your complaints and see what he says before posting a review. Give him the opportunity to explain how he was in that state and the opportunity to apologise.

Reminds me of a time I was in the wrong hotel 😂….client insisted he was in the lobby looking for me, and I insisted I was in the lobby looking for him. Both texting each other with ever more elaborate instructions about where we were. Yet neither of us could see each other. I was thinking he’s a time waster and I was being strung along. Then I realised I hadn’t read his message properly and was in a similarly named hotel just across the road (those who know London may have had similar problem- Park Plaza London Bridge is next to Park Plaza County Hall). I was in London Bridge, he was in County Hall. Whoops, my mistake. I apologised and walked over to his hotel…he saw the funny side fortunately (despite having approached a few guys asking if they were me 😬). I stayed extra time to compensate.